Would you be mad if you had a daughter that got pregnant at the age of 19?

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She won’t married to the dude she got pregnant by but they were in a relationship
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  • AHH yes no matter the age or anything if pitty a guy who tried or did

  • she's over 18 she's an adult so nope

  • As long as she had marital sex when it occurred, I wouldn't mind.

  • u know, when parent be mad, that is the moment their child got suffer or even traumatized, especially when their child still a kid, so no matter what age the child having a baby, no parent should mad about their kid, they should be calm and help their kid go throu that time with joys, not suffer.

  • Probably

  • Not mad, but concerned for her

  • Yes ill be disappointed

  • no not at all i would help her

  • Yeah probably especially if she is trying to complete college

  • I wouldn't be mad but I would be disappointed. I'd want her to be in a stable relationship and have career success and financial stability before closing to have a baby. We all want the very best for our kids, but it's their lives to live, we can only support them unconditionally.

  • Yes I'd be mad if she wasn't married to him. But even so I'd show her love because I've seen too many families destroyed because they couldn't show love. I'd also want her to keep the baby. And if the guy is willing to work hard and be responsible, help them to get married. But if that's not the case, then I wouldn't force her to find someone else simply to marry. I'd still want her to find someone who she has genuine love for.

  • Now, I have no kids but...

    Getting mad doesn't solve anything. It's important to be there for her and support her. Talk to her about what happened and what her opportunities are.

    Also, she's not the sole responsibility for avoiding pregnancy, the guy has a role in it as well, so why only be bad at her? No, I would support her... and let's be real here, I would probably be a bit disappointed at the dude. I'm protective like that.

  • Let me first say I don't have a daughter, and maybe I'd feel differently actually in that situation, but it is what it is. I wouldn't be happy about it, but not mad either. She's technically an adult and it's her life by that point.

  • Yep because that’s just stupid. Unless she’s completely independent. I don’t want to have to take care of another child physically and financially.

  • Depends; was she married at 18?

    • Then I would be severely disappointed in her. And the dude better step up and put a ring on her finger; otherwise he might not be a dude for much longer.