Would you be more compatable in a relationship with someone who loves sex but indifferent to affection, or loves affection but indifferent to sex?

Understanding that for most people neither is ideal, and most would probably choose to opt out of either extreme, but if you HAD to choose, which. My guess is most will choose the sex w/out affection. I choose the opposite, but it’s not ideal. I prefer affection but the idea of someone being indifferent to anything physical is concerning, I suppose.


Sone people are repelled by affection or sex and I was going to ask about that but I won’t bc I think in the case of someone hating the idea of touching you in whichever way, it’s not going to be a relationship either can stand.

Would you be more compatable in a relationship with someone who loves sex but indifferent to affection, or loves affection but indifferent to sex?
Loves sex but is indifferent to affection.
Vote A
Loves affection but is indifferent to sex.
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  • The latter. A relationship isn't just about sex. Sex lasts for 5 minutes, the rest of the relationship is much more important

    • I agree. Tho I can see it feeling real weird too to be close to someone and have even that small barrier. Thanks for answering 😊

  • Probably loves sex but indifferent for affection

  • As much as I want wex I’d go for affection every time as that’s what makes me whole.

  • Neither I want both or its a no go

  • I think I have to call Albert Einstein to understand this question...