Would you be offended if your SO don’t want to talk dirty back at you/play with you because of no mood?

[Anonymous]

Me and my boyfriend occasionally talk dirty to create sexual tension, even though we haven’t had sex yet. There are times when I really don’t want to talk dirty back because I’m not in the mood or I’m not comfortable with it. I only talk dirty to him because he always starts it, and it’s gotten to a point where it’s so frequent that I’m not comfortable about it as he shares his sexual preferences explicitly, sends me explicit porn images. Sometimes I’m turned on, but a lot of the time I’m just playing along to please him. But his ways of dirty talk can be degrading and he always talks in the ‘daddy & little girl’ tone. For once, I said I’m not in the mood to play and I just want to hug and kiss, whereas he kept asking ‘what do you want daddy to do to you, what do you want to do to daddy in your dreams’. I was quite put off because before that he sent me a photo of a girl giving a bj to a guy and kept asking how I felt in my filthy mind. And he seems offended/pissed that I don’t want to play because I’m uncomfortable or not in the mood for it - this is in the morning as well during work hours. Would you be offended if your other half turned you down for sexy talk? How would you feel? Is it fine to not be in the mood for it?

[Crissaegrim]

Both should be in the mood. Otherwise no1 can please.

[LordBli]

For me it's not even a problem if my girlfriend isn't in the mood of...

[chef12]

Damn I wish you were my girlfriend because I have a lot built up and it's been over a year since I had any

[Anonymous]

It is perfectly fine not to be in mood and say no..