If your woman gave you enough sex would you be willing to give it up?
As a woman i personally just think it's hot when a guy would rather save his sexual energy for me and not waste it on masturbating. It also seems like guys are better during sex if they haven't been masturbating a lot.
Also this is not counting for long distance/if you don't live with your partner since in those situations your partner isn't gonna be there to have sex.
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(83)As a longtime cuckold who is never allowed to have any penetrative sex whatsoever, masturbation is my only source of sexual relief. However, if I were in a more conventional relationship, I'd consider agreeing to stop playing with myself, assuming we were having sex fairly regularly.
Yeah with your situation I see why you'd masturbate
Yes, ma'am, I appreciate your being able to understand my situation. I also love it that you upvoted (liked) my comment... you definitely got me turned on when you did that... lol
Didn't know liking comments here was a turn on 😂 guess ill keep that in mind when I'm hitting that thumbs up
It's not necessarily because you liked my comment that I find such a turn on, but the context in which you did so. Maybe I'm reading too much into it, but from a fantasy standpoint, I think/hope you think it's nice that I'm not getting any:)
Only if there was enough, i answered ,😅😅😀
For sure, as long as she was truly into keeping the sexual part of the relationship alive.
I find very few women do though, they say they will but the sex part tends to go to the wayside after awhile (too busy dealing with other things) and it's left to the guy to essentially remind her, which tends to get old real quick. So it reverts back to self gratification again.
I think women who do that just aren't receiving great sex. If they were they'd want it all the time
Possibly. I'm not saying all women do this, but I think it can become a chore to some like everything else after awhile.
If she gives me sex often enough I wouldn't need to masturbate.
"I got three minutes before work I'ma rub one out"... Life circumstances says you're just not always available.
As for "saving my sexual energy"... I've never met a woman that can use up all of what I have to the point that I couldn't still rub one out after she goes to sleep/before she wakes up.
It's a false dichotomy. Masturbate OR have sex.
I'm basically always available for my man especially in the morning before work or during the night since I don't sleep. And how can you not find a woman to use all your sexual energy? Women can have unlimited sex while men can't. Could literally just fuck a woman till you can't no more
Women can't have unlimited sex. She's gotta have enough cardio to keep up. I'm multiorgasmic so it's nothing to go 3, 4 times in a row, and then I only need about 6-7 minutes to recover for another round. It's not like she's just lying there. If she were we'd not be having sex at all.
Nah women def can have unlimited sex. And still 3 or 4 times isn't anything. My guy is the same way when have sex its always a few rounds but I could keep going even after the multiple rounds
No, nobody has unlimited cardio energy. Performance athletes still get tired. I hang out with people who do half marathons as a warm-up for the real run and they still tap out eventually. I get bored with easy races so I started wearing 34lbs of body armor on all of them. Doing a half carrying 34lbs is a very different experience. Maybe you can tell me that you have the cardiac endurance to hang for two, three hours of non-stop banging but you can't tell me you can do it unlimited time. You are not the pinnacle of human conditioning that all other prior athletes in all other sports from the dawn of time forward have been unable to acquire. Same as waterboarding. Everybody taps out or everybody breaks, but it all ends the same way.
Working out and sex are not the same thing when it comes to energy. Sure it burns calories/can be a work out but it doesn't push someone's body to the max to the point they are dying tired after 😂
That depends on the sex.
I just do it out of boredom at this point
anyone who mentioned "others habits" like that, i judge as control freak and flee.
Yes , if she keeps me satisfied sexually there would be no reason for me to even consider masturbating what so ever , also , she would be a girl I would love and appreciate and try to keep her by my side , The girl’s that don’t think intimacy and affection is important in a relationship , are the girls’ I won’t keep by my side , when the intimacy and affection fades usually the relationship fades as well , cuz if i have to masturbate to get off , then she isn’t the girl for me period. I my as well be single if I have to pleasure myself to get off.
I believe so
Sometimes I masturbate just to relieve tension, it relaxes me. It's not always about sex, so I doubt I would give it up completely, even if my SO took real good care of me.