Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
If your woman gave you enough sex would you be willing to give it up?
As a woman i personally just think it's hot when a guy would rather save his sexual energy for me and not waste it on masturbating. It also seems like guys are better during sex if they haven't been masturbating a lot.
Also this is not counting for long distance/if you don't live with your partner since in those situations your partner isn't gonna be there to have sex.
What Guys Said
(83)When I had the hottest partner in my life, we lived quite a ways apart, in the same city but not close. Not only that but she and I talked about masturbation and both did it when we wanted and there was no problem for either of us... and I even told her that I jerked off to what she and I did when we were together We never had a problem with it but other women, including my wife did for some reason and it never made sense to me.
They had a problem with it because women want your sexual energy lol
From my POV, a man can generate as much sexual energy anytime, even though they jack off.
Nah that's not what I've experienced
Well... not RIGHT after he jacked off ! Give 'em an hour! LOLOLO
Masturbating keeps me monogamous. So does internet porn.
I totally understand why women feel jealous of it. It doesn’t matter the frequency or quality of sex with my girlfriend/wife, not that I have both, but at the time we need to do so; is at a time when life just puts too much on us and we just need that release.
To us it is not cheating. Cheating to us is not being home with our girlfriend/wife, not that I have both, in the evening; eating dinner with them and lying next to them every night in bed.
When you spend a couple years watching your mother try stopping your step-dad from running around on her; then divorcing him, because he wouldn’t, then you don’t really know what cheating is.
I don't view masturbating as cheating. It's more just that I'd rather he save it for me
Since I DON’T know much about women; my ex saw porn as cheating, most likely as an excuse for her to cheat. I do hold bragging rights to being able to take another run at it after about 30 minutes of rest while keeping her warmed up. I am not the type that needs a nap afterwards nor very much time to reload.
I find that sex with my partner is so good I would much rather wait for her than masturbate.
Oh yes, i would totally do that 😊
But i do like it when women masturbate a lot, even in relationship. In my experiance, women dont loose sexual energy from masturbating like men do, but they just get even more energic.
I agree. As a women masturbating makes me want sex more often
Great question :) I have regular sex and do not short change my wife but I still enjoy masturbating... to me it's a different experience and outlet. My wife knows, understands and is more than ok with it.
I do agree if I was doing it and not tending to her needs etc then it would be wrong - but my sex drive runs higher than hers and I am bisexual. I feel like my masturbating is a way to balance things.
And when I have sex with my wife my focus is on her pleasure - I get immense pleasure by taking that approach - it's always been my nature. I think it's awesome the more orgasms she has the better. The stronger the better etc.
Masturbating allows me to have a more selfish sexual outlet - keeping the focus, obviously lol, on just me - which is why I edge but it's better defined as gooning (if not aware of that it's worth a google lol).
:)
Forgot to say... eons ago when we were focused on making babies, I did not masturbate as I (and we) did not want to waste the volume and veracity of my seed :)
She better be willing to fuck like crazy then
Yup, she already does. Like once or twice a day. Unless she is sick.. But honestly if she is sick I'm in "m us must take care of my wife" mode not "I want sex" mode.
Fml, I can't type today. If she is sick I'm in "I must take care of my wife" mode.
The sexual part of the relationship would need to be sexuallt fulfilling in all ways.
This would absolutely be the ideal!
If we we’re having sex several times a day, I’d give it up.