Guys, Would you break up with a girl if the sex was bad?

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loveslongnails · Accepted Answer

More than likely, though it depends on how long we'd been dating and how good everything else was. I've never been in that position. I always take a girl dancing at least 2 dates before thinking about having sex. If she can't move well vertically, she probably can't move well horizontally !! So far, it's worked 100% of the time !!

TonyV · Accepted Answer

Well is she open to learning more and getting better or is she dead set on doing it a way I dont like?

Everyone starts somewhere, if she just needs more practice no I won't dump her.

If it's like she will only lay there like a board and I have to do all the work all the time then maybe.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

No because it’s 2 people involved, you just need to sit and discuss

JackSmy · Answer

Bad, how? Like she NEVER wants to, or is afraid because she is secretly a virgin, and afraid of being judged? Or, is it physically painful, for her? You didn't post enough detail in your question!

AndyOh · Answer

I dated a girl in my late teens, early college years. She was really not good in bed... pretty much just laid there. I finally had to break up with her because the sex sucked. Kind of like screwing a bag of flower.

JPrez · Answer

I would give it a few times before making that decision but yes, if it was continually bad, it would be a major consideration.

Dargil · Answer

Not necessarily. If she were not competent but eager and willing, I would coach her.

what3ver · Answer

Nope. Practice makes perfect, and sex is far from the most important part of a relationship. Honestly I think it's pretty telling about someone's lack of character if they would break up over that. Clearly they value their own sexual satisfaction more than actual people.