Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Hello everyone!
I had a rough night and I want to share my story because I’m not sure what really happened to me.
I have an on-off “sexbuddy relation” with a man, but our meetings only include oral sex and foreplay stuffs since I’m a virgin ( and I wanted to wait until marriage). He knew this, we made an agreement.
Last night, he was doing assjob while I was lying on my belly in probe bone pose when suddenly I felt his dick really close to my pussy. I trusted him, I thought he was about to do a little bit of grinding but then he pushed his dick inside me. I was in shock, I was crying and I tried to escape from him but it took time for him to realize this. He immediately stopped and started to cuddle me, but I was mad, frustrated, afraid so I left the place.
I don’t know what happened, I don’t want to consider it as a rape but I really don’t know what to think about this whole thing.
Would you consider it as a rape?
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12 20No I wouldn’t as he stoped when he seen that it hurts you and you didn’t want tit
That’s rape
Can i be your new fuck buddy?
Yes it is rape. Are you African? Or Mormon. I never understand people who do this stuff but not vaginal intercourse.
You said he was doing an assjob. Does that mean he was doing you anally? If so, he may have entered your vagina by mistake, thinking he was going back into your ass. I have done that many times and truly didn't realize it until she told me.
However, if it was intentional, that was a really bad thing he did. I don't know if it is legally considered rape where you live, but it's just a shitty thing to do. Did you ask him why he did it?
No, assjob is a sexual activity when he is sliding his dick between my buttcheeks (just like doing tittyf*ck). Thank you for your reply!
Ah, OK. Thanks for clarifying. Really sorry that happened to you.
I wouldn't call it rape since he stopped just because your brain took time to process it does not mean an implicit NO. Considering the sexual activity you partake with this male calling him a rapist is a gross exaggeration and reckless. Your future partner will not consider you a virgin if you perform other sexual acts involving your privates with another person.
Thank you for your reply!:) It’s up to my future partner to decide.
And I’ve never ever called home rapist, first of all.
Got ya, hey i blame society for placing ‘higher value’ on virginity especially if someone gets married as a virgin and the relationship sucks then what a lifetime of bad sex? You live a short period of time might as well fill every moment you can with pleasure. I wouldn't look at you any differently if you were a virgin or not if i was looking for a partner. Have a good day!
Sorry, I’ve made a huge mistake : I’ve never ever called him a rapist. I wasn’t paying attention. It really made me think what you’ve said, thank you!:)
I would say u can't consider it rape. Reason being u was letting him fool round ur private parts. By what u are saying he got excited and stuck it in any way the key part was when I said something. He immediately stopped and pull out rape would have been if he had kept it in
Yes it’s rape. He knew that you were not comfortable and he did not have your consent. You both made a deal before hand and he still did it anyway. Maybe it wasn’t intentional and he was just trying to test to see if you’d let him but he still should’ve asked before hand.