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Do you really think that im a "slut" for sleeping with 30 people, i'm 30 years old now, when i was young, I had resorted to being a "hooker" as a kid and for other personal issues, once i turned 16 I stopped, yeah i have kissed people when drunk, fooled around, but i didn't just straight up sleep with them right away, did some kinky shit mostly, i'm a bdsm/s&m kinda person, and yeah i experimented with that shit from 18-26 years old, maybe that might be classified as slutty, i did have a few one night stands when drunk when i was single after i broke up with 4 of my most serious relationships since i was 18, i have been engaged 3 times, I have had "homeless" guys come to my place and not gonna lie, did pay for them for there company to sleep over, get high drunk and yeah we cuddled, kissed, but not hardcore sex mostly in my "dark and depressed days" I would say im a "cuddle" whore lol as i use to call myself.
maybe that could be classified as acting slutty, my relative started saying personal things to random people who come over to my our place about this when she was pissed and angry, now i feel i have this "street" reputation that i come across as a "slut/whore" cuz of different drunk homeless guys coming over and the neighbours seeing, now, cuz she does know a lot of people, so it has appeared I had sleep with lots of people cuz i invite them to my room, which truth be told no, I had my ex's homeless friends stay in the same room as me too, and didn't do anything, just party and joke around too. I would say im kinda a "Tom Boy" and do have guy friends and liked to party alone with them. Some person seen me with my ex fiance, we had sex in a car and we accidentally got caught, and a other time somebody caught me making out with him in public hardcore, but nothing like taking my clothes off or anything, that time in a car makes me feel like I was a slut for it, but we were hammered, it was awhile and we were homeless. What do you people think?
Would you consider me a "slut" for having sex with 30 people? I'm 30 now?
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4 24No, My girlfriend is 24. And slept with 30 people
31 if you count me.
i dont think it necessarily makes you a slut.
you just really enjoy sex
tough past, sad story, but yes I'd consider you a slut and most men would. The ones that say they don't just wanna butter you up and fuck you, they wouldn't risk pissing you off, many men would rather die than anger a woman.
I personally ain't interested in a girl that's been with more than a few guys. I think sex is a special bonding experience between life partners and if you've slept around then you just aren't looking at things the same way as me and we won't get along sexually.
Why can't men just say the truth
@Warmapplecrumble You're asking the wrong man :P
My thoughts... it's nobody's business first off but yours. And it only matters what you think. Who cares what others think. You can't change that anyway, so don't even worry about it.
Um, yes.
if lets say you slept with only 20-31 people in your lifetime? would that make you a "slut?
I think so.