Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Lol that used to be my motto in HS. I didn't wanna suck shiiit but that view certainly changed with my college boyfriend’s diiick 😂 If the tootsie pop looks appealing enough, you can't help but drop to ya knees and give it 50 licks 🤣
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Would you continue dating someone who does not want to partake in oral sexxx?
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Yes I’d still date them
Vote A
No I would not continue dating them
Vote B
I also dont want to give/receive
Vote C
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+1 y
Remember in this case, your partner does not want to give nor receive, regardless of if you're married to them
+1 y
I love to give too much to ever give it up 😍🤤 My mom and grandma do not believe in it and find it disgusting/degrading. They always said “its unsanitary, we pee from there.” My dad is obsessed with oral. #1 because my mom shared those deets 🤮 #2 because my dad went down on his wife while sharing a hotel room with his “sleeping” children. So yea my mom let my dad give but she didn't care to receive it and she refused to ever give. My mindset changed at 22
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13 70Not my kind of girl.
I feel ya
My first girlfriend in High School.. was the same would never do oral.. but after dating for a while that changed... is it a game changer? for some probably... but for me it wouldn't have been.
Game changer as in dealbreaker?
as in for me it wasn't but for some it might be... it is a huge factor
You just ruined Winnie the Pooh forever! Thanks a lot!! 😑
Lmao
by the way, I love your attitude. 👍 Personally, I would say that it's a complicated situation. Because yes, I would be hesitant to marry someone who doesn't want to give oral sex. Because that's something that I look forward to as a part of sex with the woman I love. But... Can I really hold it against her? I mean, what if she has been taught from an early age that sucking dick is bad and slutty? Can I really blame her for that? And since I want to marry a virgin, wouldn't she kind of have to have a sexual "awakening" anyway? And isn't that my job? In that case, I would be very understanding and patient with her.
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I saw it. Yeah, I think a lot of people's moms and grandmas hold those views.
I've never actually dated someone who was willing to give it, receive, yes but not give. When we're playing my aim is to give my partner pleasure, and the pleasure I receive in return is a bonus.
Thats nice to hear. But man i love to give. Not crazy about receiving
That's good to know, the partner's I've been with have enjoyed receiving but had no interest in giving.
You just need the right partner who loves your dick almost as much as they love you 😌
That sounds pretty ideal to me. I want a partner who loves all of me as I love all of her.
Sounds so romantic. I’m just glad you have a good head on your shoulders
I have been accused of being a hopeless romantic on a few occasions ☺️ Usually around my behavior at weddings when the bride walks in of looking at the expression on the groom's face when he sees her and appreciating the look of awe and wonder (at least in relationships that are healthy). It's not like we actually stand to watch the bride, right?
Haha when i stand, all i think about is can i sit bacj down but at the same time i wanna dance to the “Here comes the bride” song 😂
Ooh, I've never actually saved to that song. I spend the time looking at the expressions of love, awe and wonder on the bride and groom's faces. If that look isn't there, it almost always ends in divorce within a few years
Dang i never paid much attention to that. Im shy when it comes to contact so i’d probably shortly glance upnat him and then stare at the floor while walkin down the aisle lol
I love it, then again, I can tend to be a people watcher, I enjoy seeing emotions, especially hair ones, but I'm also ready to be there for those going through negative ones and walk with them through it.
Yea i probably pay attention to myself too much. But thats good that you’re willing to assist those emotionally in need
I have the opposite problem, that I almost always put others before myself and don't pay enough attention to or take care of myself extremely well
I used to put others first but once you learn that they’re often selfish with no intention of putting you first in return, then you’ll realize that you should be the most important person in your life (aside from God and your future wife/kids). What made me want to take better care of myself is the thought of being prepared for future motherhood and wifery
My son absolutely comes first 100% of the time. After that I tend to put others first, and some absolutely do take advantage of that, but there are a few, who I count dear, precious friends, who thrive in putting me first as well and making sure I take care of myself as I make sure they take care of themselves lol
Oh yea i forgot you mentioned you were a dad. Like I said i definitely would put God and my future kids before myself. But yea you need to put yourself and your physical/mental health next in line
I'm doing better at that, but it still needs some work lol
Just look at your kid and see in him what you’d want him to see in you. That’ll be all the motivation in the world I’d need. I can't wait to become a parent and it saddens me to see another mothers day where im not a mom yet
I know it's frustrating when our timelines don't work out, but if we truly put God first, we need to trust his timeline is in our best interest
Yea i remind myself of that daily :) Its just hard
It really is difficult, but a worthy reminder. *Hugs*
Absolutely! I'll hold on tight until you break contact 🥰
Well then that wouldn't be anytime soon
Sounds like a perfect hug to me! They say the physical benefits of hugging don't really kick in until 20 seconds in, and I'm ok with holding on far longer
Haha where’d you learn that? I find that intriguing 😏 if we’re gonna hold on that long, may as well turn it into a cuddle
I don't remember where I learned it but I know I've heard it multiple times. I am very okay with cuddling. It may have a tendency to turn into more, which I'm also okay with, but even if it doesn't, cuddling is great.
Lol for me, cuddling may turn into grinding against you to harden you up a bit and may follow with a steamy makeout session, being smothered with boobs and possibly masturbating eachother haha. But sex is a big step for me so that doesn't occur so soon
All of that sounds amazing, and sounds like a very natural progression: my hands rubbing your back as we cuddle, slowly sitting to caressing your ass as my lips more to meet yours. Squeezing your ass as we make out passionately and grind my hard chick into your wet vagina through our pants, pulling your shirt off and removing your bra to tease and play with your breasts with my lips and tongue, reaching into your panties to stimulate your clit and finger you as you rub my hard cock. I agree on waiting for the actual sex, but the foreplay and teasing is enough to get us both off in the meantime
Omg you really know how to get a girl worked up haha. Im trying to calm myself 🤣 I’m reminding myself that its Sunday
Then I'll put off any more until later. I'm actually heading out for a frisbee gave but I'll catch you later this evening 😊
Just decided as I got up that I'm opting out of frisbee this week with a headache (an actual one 😉) I'll be good and not with you up too much further, yikes you change your mind that is
Wait so you were about to go play frisbee but suddenly decided not to?
Yeah, as I got up I realized my headache wasn't gone, so I laid back down and texted them I wouldn't make it
I’m actually sad because i know you like frisbee and looked forward to it. Whats causing a headache? Have you eaten yet today? Is the light bothering your eyes?
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I get migraines on occasion, I'm trying to keep this from becoming one, don't really know the triggers. I had breakfast this morning and am doing my best to avoid the light
Im like a vampire lol. I’m in a dark room right now because light often gives me headaches. Do you wear glasses? Sometimes thats my reason for headaches. Other times its from bumping my head so much. Im super clumsy. I hope the frisbee disc didn't affect you
I'm in a dark room with blackout curtains as well for the same reason. We can be vampires together, just without the blood drinking lol
Lol deal! No blood drinking, but just a nibble here and there
I absolutely love hickeys!!
I guarantee there will be nibbling and sucking. Hickeys can be arranged as well, anywhere you want them, your neck, your breasts, your inner thigh...
My neck is my weak spot. I like my boobs kissed but no hickeys there. Sucking on the nipples however, now that i like haha. That inner thigh kiss can't happen because something else might go down then 🙃
I'm make use of your weak spot for sure. I'm fully ok with the inner thigh kissing turning into a tasting, but I know receiving oral isn't your favorite. I can't guarantee my fingers won't be exploring between your thighs while playing with your neck
Its not my favorite because the guy doing it didn't know what to do. I’m sure if i tried it with someone else it may become better. But still i’m so into giving its hard to want to receive haha. And omg i love being fingered while receiving hickeys
If you're up for giving it another go, if love to go down on you. Tasting you and how turned on you are drives me wild. I'm totally open to receiving as well.
Since you were not given to when you should have been, i’d be honored to slurp the royal dick 🤪 Still, oral isn't something i give into early either 😂 i mean much sooner than sex but still not until like 3 months in haha. Masturbating eachother is about as far as i go first month
I don't want anything your not ready for until you're ready. If it's masturbating only for the first several months, I'm ok with that. I'm good with waiting until the time is right for both of us
All i know is that once i go all in, i go all in. I make it worth while wih the marathon sex haha. But aside from that, hows your head feeling? Your other head lol
Hahaha... Still got the headache. I ordered delivery from the local pizza place so I'll have something to eat with the Excedrin migraine I plan to take.
Yea excedrine migraine and tylenol both take forever to work for me. Someone said you have to drink as much water as possible til it goes away. And you may have to close your eyes for 30 mins
I tried that earlier (the eye closing) and it didn't help. Excedrin migraine takes a while, but it helps in time
Okay just let me know if you gotta sleep
Will do 🙂
I’m about to eat a plate of bbq. Want me to fix you a plate?
Mmm... Yes! We make bbq up here, but it's hard to compare to real southern bbq.
Well i’m in the south so i got you covered haha
I know, that's why I'm so enthusiastic! The best I can get up here is homemade off my father's smoker.
Omg you have a smoker 😍 then yours already probably tastes better haha! It just needs the right sauce to go with it. Do you make your own bbq sauce?
I've made a couple. I've got the dry rubs down but have yet to perfect a sauce
Even if you dont do homemade, try sweet baby rays original! Its yummy
Sweet Baby Ray's Original is good and is usually my go to when I'm slow cooking barbecue pulled pork, except for when I try my hand at homemade
See i knew we had sumn in common haha
A love for yummy things!
And more lol. I’m just being silly
Oh I know, and I'm enjoying it
You wanna go ahead and check out one of my movie posts? You dont have to read the mytake. Just look at the movie titles and gifs and comment below which youve seen. Save the alphabetical mytake for another day cause its super long.
Maybe till something better came along, but that's a big maybe.
Lmao thats so wrong. Just dump her early on instead of wasting her time
I’m waiting until marriage.
I mean in marriage. Like if she never wanted to give nor receive
Yes, I would; in fact, if she sought oral sex I would stop dating her.
Hahaha i hear ya
Yeah as long I can do oral to them I 'll be fine.
In this case they dont want to give nor receive
Yeah I still date them oral sex is not the most pleasurable part in sex.
I really need to give and receive oral. I was with a woman who wouldn't give or receive. I only saw her once
Lmao
All my serious gfs have not been into oral. I’m ok not getting but I might not Be ok not giving it. It’s seriously like my favorite thing to do. I had one ex that didn’t want it at all but she’d let me. I was ok with that.
In this case the girl doesn't wannagive nor receive
Ugh, sorry dude.
There’s so much more to a relationship than sucking my dick!
Lmao
Probably not because I’ll always be missing it
Ikr!
Oral sex is a must with anyone I am going to be with in a sexual relationship. And to be honest, I’ve never really had sex with a girl who didn’t. I’m still not convinced there are women who don’t do it.
Oh i see
See what?
That u think their are some women not into it
It’s kind of a joke.. I know there are some. I’m just lucky enough never to have been involved with them. 😁
Haha
Yes I would. 😊 There are plenty of sexrelated activities that are more important to me.
And then there's plenty of reasons besides sex so weather she's willing to suck or not is of little importance.
Aww okay :)
Fuck no. If I’m licking her, she blows me.
No the question is pertaining to the fact they dont want to give nor receive
Wtf that’s even worse. I like giving and receiving so she can find another guy.
Hahaha
I guess. If I can give her still
In this case she doesn't wanna give nor receive
Ugh... 😔
At this point? Nah.
Lol ok
Just being honest lol
I finish faster with a handjob anyways, 30 seconds I'm good lol.. a few links every now and then would be nice though. As long as she let's me give her head, we good!
In this case she doesn't wanna give nor receive
No I love to give it too much to be in a relationship like that
Yeah I would, oral sex is fun but I could easily live without it
Oh i see