Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Thats my case. I never had sex because the thought of pain was scaring me so much. I go to psychotherapy for it.
Otherwise I am a „normal” young adult. I get asked out pretty often, guys like me, call me hot/beautiful, I am friendly, I volunteer, I have a stable job. So nothing wrong with me except my idea that sex is something scary and painful.
So, guys would you date a girl like me?
Did you date in the past?
Girls, have you ever been in my situation?
I have to say this: I do intend to have sex with a future partner. So, I dont plan waiting till marriage or something. I am just very scared of physical pain or rejection.
Like:
Yes, I wanna date you, have sex with you. But I have to tell you I never had sex before.
And... he dumps me for being a weirdo.
Can you consider a 25 years old hot/sexy even is she is a virgin?
Would you date a 25 years old female virgin?
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4 63Yes, I would, but I do not really expect to see that happening.
I need one for me.👍👍👍
If we get along I'd absolutely date her.
I wouldn't mind. 3 years difference, no bother. I'm a virgin myself.
Yup.
I wouldn't really care, it would only be a problem if you still were very scared to have sex after we are dating.
it doesn't hurt as much as you might think... but it sounds like you're also looking forward to it... but you have trouble walking through the threshold... it will come ,, and yes,, you will enjoy it!
It's fine
Would it be an ordeal or do we get you drunk and agreeable
Yes I certainly could.
I can also understand your trepidation about it.
It takes a lot of time to inspire confidence in a partner by a young lady like you.
Yes I would surely date you, you seem very sweet I adore the energy you bring and put in your words. I would feel honored to have such a presence in front of me.
This great for you
M 21 nd still virgin. So yeah
I would want to talk this through with you in detail of we were to proceed after the talking stage.
*Do you have a Perforated or septate hymen? At 25, you should know.
*Do you have vaginismus? You should know that too.
*Are you willing to walk the bases" to mutual oral otherwise?
*What does your therapist say to you?
You said: " I do intend to have sex with a future partner."
How will you get there if you can't overcome your fear?
I have been with two virgins. With the first, I was a total klutz and gave her a bad memory. With the second, I knew what I was dealing with and we worked through the first time as a team successfully.
Obviously, why not?
Communication. You're not a weirdo and being a virgin isn't bad. Her desire to have sex with me matters though. Will this still be a problem? If a guy cares and knows this about you, if he takes it slow there's nothing to fear. Lots of foreplay to get you relaxed as possible and as wet as possible, and the less painful it will be.
Yes, that would be preferred over a non-virgin. It's just a question of if she attractive in other ways or not.
e. g If you're a virgin, then that's great and all, but if you're fat and ugly then I can't change my sexuality to be interested in that, sorry.
Yes, I don't date girls who have had sex with other guys before me.
Yeah sure, we can do oral for awhile until you feel better about it, have you ever put a tampon in?
I would date a virgin because I care more about their personality. I remember being a virgin at 29 but couldn’t get an erection the first time I tried. Glad I did because the person didn’t really love me but just wanted a good time.