Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health As a very lonely and socially isolated person, I've always resorted to internet relationships. I must've gotten intimate with at least 5 people met online in the course of 7 years, 2 were long term (6 month and a year), the three others around a month.
I've also sometimes sent censored pictures of my body in underwears so that I could get some advices in my body, to know if I need to gain weight and such. I didn't keep count but must be around 10 people.
I simply don't really care about showing my body (as long as it's not my private parts such as my nipples and vulva) to people even tho they might get aroused by it.
I try to do it the least possible, but sometimes the loneliness and validation cravings get too intense and I end up doing it. I'll usually go a few months to a year then I'll lose my motivation to be pure.
Besides this slutty side of my person, I am a very loyal person, I've never had sex or let anyone touch me before. Hell I've never even dated.
Do you think I'm still a whore? Would you date a girl like that? I don't want the feminist "your body your choice" bullshit, I want to know if genuinely you would care.
Also most of the pictures were faceless and don't show my private parts. I must've sent like three pictures that include my face in total.
Would you date a girl who had sent nudes before?
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What Girls & Guys Said
1 54Hell, you had a strict religious upbringing. I would like to share some advice with you.
Nope
Why not?
Yes I would.
Meh.
Can you explain why not?
I never sent nudes to anyone, I expect my partner to be the same, only fair.
Sure!
(I'm taken, sorry)
Be honest about it if the guy ever asked it. You don't sound like a slut. Hope you will find someone consistent and real. Good luck.
You are still a virgin and I wouldn’t be dissuaded. So you’ve spent some time in fantasy... that’s fine by me so long as you’d be willing to stop when in a relationship
Sure.
No, that shows a lack of self-respect for herself, that she feels she needs to show off her body to get any attention.
I would have no problem dating someone who has sent nudes. If we were in a committed relationship then it may be different.
Of course. A few pictures isn’t enough to stop me liking someone, and it shouldn’t be enough for anyone really.
Yeah who cares it's not like you've done porn or anything or onlyfans
Nope
Can you explain why not?
you never know if shell continue to (cheat)
I respect that opinion, but say you were absolutely sure she wouldn't, then it wouldn't be a problem?
you never know if a girl will cheat or not, its not worth it
I see no problem with that at all.
Yes.
I dont care tbh
in todays age and generation i have come to the conclusion that i should not hold something against someone for what i have done in my past. i try not to be a hippocryte when i can
yes, I don't see why that would make me overlook any girl, what's the big deal about nudes?
No. Don’t want to date a slut. Thanks
Do you think it is worse than having sex with people or posting bikini pictures on instagram?
No. About the same.
So you would want a girl who has done none of that? I don't want to devalue your opinion, but I don't know if many girls can go 20+ years (you rarely meet the man of your life before that age) without ever being intimate with anyone
So what you’re saying is girls older than 20 are not virgins?
I mean I am a virgin so that's obviously not the case, I'm just saying most girls have either dated or done some internet stuff past 20
I just want a girl who thinks about me and only me And not about other guys penises.
doesn't bother me at all. We've all done it.