So a guy asked you out and told you he expects sex before the third date?
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TCredo
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lol... I can picture the conversation leading up to their 1st date... Him: "I was wondering if you'd like to go out for a date - maybe for dinner?" Her: "Oh that would be nice. I'd love to." Him: "Great. How about Friday night? We could go to Renterino's. I'll pick you up at 7?" Her: "Oh I love that place. Friday would be perfect. I can't wait." Him: "Same. So ok this would be considered our first date, yes?" Her: "Um... yes (giggles)... it would." Him: "Just so you know how I roll. We will likely have our second date a few days after - probably on Monday" Her: "Um... ok... well... I... um" Him: "Hold your thoughts. So yeah after our 2nd date, I'd expect our 3rd date to be before next weekend - so probably on Wednesday or Thursday." Her: "Um... well... you might" Him: "I'm still talking. Ok. Now this is important. When I pick you up for our 3rd date - before we go out, we're gonna fuck. Got it?" Her: ... :)
ReesepXper 4
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No, not a guy who "expects it" its one think to want and hope for, its another to expect, dont get me wrong there's nothing wrong with it, but he should also be perfectly fine with it not happening
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ghostqueenInfluencer
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I'm not setting a timer on how long it's gonna take to fuck somone. So, anyone with a marked calendar is not for me. It all depends on circumstances, I might want to fuck the 1st date or the 25th. 🤷🏻♀️
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teamvic
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I'm willing to bet he won't make that 25th
ghostqueen
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Not losing any sleep over it.
teamvic
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How long did you make your current boyfriend wait
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ghostqueen
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Bold of you to assume I'm in a relationship and with a man.
teamvic
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I mean the post literally says how long you make a guy wait and you did comment on it
SevenpointfiveMaster
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what happened to the second date rule?
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nella965
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It’s called the third date rule
Sevenpointfive
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well if they don't put out something on the second date the third is their last chance
nella965
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Yea and guess what u gonna attract? Girls who sleep around
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Sevenpointfive
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and all it takes is a third date huh? so they automatically transform into a girl that doesn't sleep around? how would i know the difference?
nella965
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You know someone sleeps around if they will sleep with any guy by 3rd date. What if you never become boyfriend and girlfriend? You still slept with him. These people tend to have most stds
Sevenpointfive
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i have a tendency to attract them. that sucks
AvicennaMaster
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It depends on your expectations and the personal chemistry.
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Reaperbot666Guru
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I tend to have 4 rules when dating someone new. 1. no sexual interaction until were in a exclusive relationship. 2. no sex until we have been dating at least 90 days. 3. both of us get tested for STD's and other nasty things to prove we're clean. 4. we both use protection to reduce risk of pregnancy. if a new partner can't follow those. then their most likely not worth my time.
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girlzruleboyzdroolXper 6
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Uh no
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honeybunSsXper 5
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I'm not fucking until we're actually dating. He won't even see pictures of my vagina and boobs before we're dating.
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MelindaT510Xper 4
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Ya I often expect it on the first soooo.
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Agape93Master
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Nope because he’s not getting it, and I’m not going to listen to him bitch about it.
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mamamaiXper 6
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No, I don’t want to be with a man who pressures me into sex. I had sex with my boyfriend on the third date, but he didn’t expect it or pressure me
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lanadelrey25Guru
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Uh.. no.
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FeenaKXper 1
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If I feel that he loves me and I love him back and we can enter a relationship before the 3rd date then maybe
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SexyAshhGuru
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Nope. When i want sex, ill have it. Bur if i feel like they are forcing it, its a turn off
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DavidFoxYoda
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Any guy who wants to have sex before date #3 isn’t looking for a relationship
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JosyJosyMaster
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Yes, if I didn't know beforehand. It wouldn't work out
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Ripper_EMaster
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That's an idiotic expectation, and hypocritical of a man to expect. Not investing in a woman who has given you no reason to, but wanting a woman to spread her legs when you aren't even her significant other.
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Wild_princessXper 7
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Nope... never I will never have sex with guy I still don't know well...
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49 28So a guy asked you out and told you he expects sex before the third date?
lol... I can picture the conversation leading up to their 1st date... Him: "I was wondering if you'd like to go out for a date - maybe for dinner?" Her: "Oh that would be nice. I'd love to." Him: "Great. How about Friday night? We could go to Renterino's. I'll pick you up at 7?" Her: "Oh I love that place. Friday would be perfect. I can't wait." Him: "Same. So ok this would be considered our first date, yes?" Her: "Um... yes (giggles)... it would." Him: "Just so you know how I roll. We will likely have our second date a few days after - probably on Monday" Her: "Um... ok... well... I... um" Him: "Hold your thoughts. So yeah after our 2nd date, I'd expect our 3rd date to be before next weekend - so probably on Wednesday or Thursday." Her: "Um... well... you might" Him: "I'm still talking. Ok. Now this is important. When I pick you up for our 3rd date - before we go out, we're gonna fuck. Got it?" Her: ... :)
No, not a guy who "expects it" its one think to want and hope for, its another to expect, dont get me wrong there's nothing wrong with it, but he should also be perfectly fine with it not happening
I'm not setting a timer on how long it's gonna take to fuck somone. So, anyone with a marked calendar is not for me. It all depends on circumstances, I might want to fuck the 1st date or the 25th. 🤷🏻♀️
I'm willing to bet he won't make that 25th
Not losing any sleep over it.
How long did you make your current boyfriend wait
Bold of you to assume I'm in a relationship and with a man.
I mean the post literally says how long you make a guy wait and you did comment on it
what happened to the second date rule?
It’s called the third date rule
well if they don't put out something on the second date the third is their last chance
Yea and guess what u gonna attract? Girls who sleep around
and all it takes is a third date huh? so they automatically transform into a girl that doesn't sleep around? how would i know the difference?
You know someone sleeps around if they will sleep with any guy by 3rd date. What if you never become boyfriend and girlfriend? You still slept with him. These people tend to have most stds
i have a tendency to attract them. that sucks
It depends on your expectations and the personal chemistry.
I tend to have 4 rules when dating someone new.
1. no sexual interaction until were in a exclusive relationship.
2. no sex until we have been dating at least 90 days.
3. both of us get tested for STD's and other nasty things to prove we're clean.
4. we both use protection to reduce risk of pregnancy.
if a new partner can't follow those. then their most likely not worth my time.
Uh no
I'm not fucking until we're actually dating. He won't even see pictures of my vagina and boobs before we're dating.
Ya I often expect it on the first soooo.
Nope because he’s not getting it, and I’m not going to listen to him bitch about it.
No, I don’t want to be with a man who pressures me into sex. I had sex with my boyfriend on the third date, but he didn’t expect it or pressure me
Uh.. no.
If I feel that he loves me and I love him back and we can enter a relationship before the 3rd date then maybe
Nope. When i want sex, ill have it. Bur if i feel like they are forcing it, its a turn off
Any guy who wants to have sex before date #3 isn’t looking for a relationship
Yes, if I didn't know beforehand. It wouldn't work out
That's an idiotic expectation, and hypocritical of a man to expect. Not investing in a woman who has given you no reason to, but wanting a woman to spread her legs when you aren't even her significant other.
Nope... never I will never have sex with guy I still don't know well...
I wouldn't exactly date a guy to begin with.
Yup why not... he can expect before 2nd too lol