Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Would you date someone with a fetish?
BlackWidow93 Xper 6
I'm talking to this guy who's super nice but he disclosed he has a fetish. It completely freaks me out and turns me off and I don't know how to deal with it.
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12 60everyone has a fetish, personally I am willing to find a girls fetish and will gladly love to help her achieve orgasms by being part in her fetish, it may be anything, as long as it is legal and safe,
I am up for all fetishes,
it may include role-playing of RAPE, INCEST, VOYEURISM, MASOCHISM...
and many others...
I want my partner to find her best sexual pleasure with me
Depends on the fetish
I guess it would depend on the fetish
EVERYONE has a fetish, including you
It's all a matter of what this fetish is
I like sex. I don't know what all this hoopah fetish is about.
May I ask what fetish he has?
Pet play
Okay yeah That is really disturbing
it depends on what kind of fetish
Nope its weird
As long as he would put up with my fetish.
I’d date someone with a fetish but I disclose up front I’m not in to diapers, pee/poop or violence.
Seldom girls gave fetish , we call it preference and it's exactly brhe same. But men with fetish is presumed bro be sick, while our preference seems to be accepted
Depends what it is
If its immoral no
I think a lot of men has a fetish but a respectful man will not do it unless you agree with it.
What is it?
That depends on the fetish.
We all have them...
I think most males (I can't speak for females) have a fetish or two. If the person can't be happy without engaging in the fetish then its a serious issue unless its a benign fetish that they can engage in (like sucking boobs or smelling underwear...).
I'm not familiar with pet play but if he doesn't NEED to do it then it might not be a big deal.
Most people have fetishes. What is it?
I have a panty fetish. Even though I like panties that cover the whole ass I like multiple colors and designs. It's not that weird of one, but it is still a fetish. Most fetishes are like mine and primarily harmless
What kind of fetish are you taking about?
It depends on the fetish. Some things I might be able to accept and some would completely turn me off.
Tell him you don't like it. Try to talk to him about it. If possible, share your own sexual ideas and see how he reacts.
Should I continue talking to him though? I dont know if you can get over stuff like that
at least he was honest to u about it. You should warn him that u were repulsed. Give him a chance to understand what u didn't like. He must be oblivious.
I did. I feel like he's processing now because he's not responding
He must have felt vulnerable and judged by your reaction.
I don't know how to help that
Just treat him normally as if nothing happened. Slowly earn back his trust.
Maybe
His confidence might hv got shaken
What kind of fetish he have?
Plus why to be worried if you don't like his fetishes clearly tell him you don't like it.