I'm referring to having multiple partners or allowing your significant other to have multiple partners, on an emotional and/or sexual level.
For those that have, can you explain your experience?
Would you ever consider being in an open relationship?
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13 65open relation means nothing but polygamy.
i am in some online & i would like to try it in real
Im in a half open relationship. She sleeps with whoever she wants. I don't.
Do you ever watch?
I have a few times
Is like my boyfriend to fuck some other women just so that he gains some self confidence in bed. But not full on relationships.
Not at all.
No. it sounds like hookup with more rules. Imagine speaking with someone after just linking for sex to join your "sex ring". Not me. I'd get bored of your face after 3 months if your lucky. Its either hook ups or a strict monogamous relationship for me. No in-between.
no...
i am in some online but not in real
Big hell no.
When I met my boyfriend and we started dating, I had a friends with benefits. My boyfriend knew about it. But when he asked me to be his girlfriend, I told him that I was really close with my friends with benefits, so I probably couldn't be his girlfriend. He said he would be OK with me keeping my friends with benefits, so I did. I told him he could have a friends with benefits if he wanted, but so far he hasn't done it.
That's really cool. Are you satisfied with this setup? And has he ever shown jealous?
@7Roses I think he did get a little bit jealous, because he changed the rules a bit. He doesn't want me to go see my friends with benefits on my own anymore.
Who do you go see your friends with benefits with if not alone? Does he still allow you to have sex with your friends with benefits?
@7Roses Now it's only threesomes. He says he doesn't like no knowing what's happening when I go alone. I can see his point.
M. p do you mean you have threesomes with your boyfriend and your friends with benefits? Also how long have you been with your boyfriend now?
@7Roses Yes about the threesomes with them both. I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months.
Well you three have a great thing. It's one of my fantasies to be in something like that honestly.
@7Roses You mean you want an open relation ship, or just a one-sided arrangement?
I would love to have a friendship in which I either fuck their girlfriend from time to time and in a threesome half of the time. Or have a friend who has threesomes with my girl and I. He would also be able to fuck her sometimes one on one.
@7Roses So is the threesomes you want FMF?
Nah, MFM. I am not opposed to fmf though. I just want to try Mfm because i find it kinkier. It's more taboo and I love the idea I'd making a girl feel overwhelming pleasure. Having her feel extra slutty. Seeing her handle and take turns sucking two cocks. So I just think it would be nice to find a sweet group of friends that would be down to have a chilled time, relaxing and then at the end of the night do something extra, more than friends.
@7Roses So would this be something you'd do with your girlfriend, or you want to do it with someone else's girlfriend?
I enjoy the sound of both very much.
@7Roses You should go on a swinger site and find a couple. I've done it one time.
I would like to try both one day. Currently doing it with my own is more likely as we have spoken about it and she's into it. But I think my friends girlfriend is into me because once my friends girlfriend suggested that us 3 sleep in the same bed but that was because she thought that there wasn't a spare bed. My friend just said, nah no need because there's no one in the spare room. I have been on them before but I can't find real ones. Usually it's just full of fake accounts or I have to pay to message anyone.
@7Roses So if you have a girlfriend, and she's into it, all you need to do is find a guy. And, yes, you have to pay on those sites or you can't do shit.
Oh ok fair enough. I guess I will just pay, I'm just not sure how to find a guy who is into mfm threesomes. We do have someone in mind. Dm me? I would prefer to talk about this in private if possible. I would love to get some advice from someone who has actual experience.
@7Roses I don't like to talk in private, because I like to bounce from question to question. Just post a question about threesomes and I'll find it.
Ok, I did about 24 hours ago titled something like ; guys, how would you react if your male friend wanted to share his girlfriend with you
@7Roses Can you just post the link here?
fine but i am really baiting myself out here. There is no point in me making my question private now
Guys, how would you react if your male friend wanted to share his girlfriend with you? ↗
Id rather be poly but its not my girlfriends thing. I really do struggle with a monogamous relationship and have cheated a fair few times because of it.
I am in kinda open relationship but only for her, which means I'm loyal to her while she gets to fuck around as she likes.
I could accept a oneway open relationship where I get to sleep with other girls. But I don't date gthots who have slept with other men, so I can't accept her doing it.
Yes I'm in one it's made are relationship better
whats the arrangement like?
That we can see other people if we want
cool, thanks for answering :)
I haven't actually had sex with anyone else yet though
So mostly them? hows that been?
No I haven't done anything sexual with anyone else yet. But my girlfriend she dose it quite regularly
I'm asking how you feel about it :)
Good
Her pleasure is what most importantly to me