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Sexual Health Guys, would you ever give the option of an open relationship to your wife if you are in the millitary?
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If my husband gives me the choice of it, does that mean he doesn't respect me?
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(34)I could never do that and in my opinion, your husband is doing this so he screw other women and not feel any guilt.
No. If I can masturbate in the army, she can masturbate at home.
Absolutely fuckin not imrisking my life for their freedom and she wants to have an open marriage have some loyalty keep your legs closed till I get home f*** I don't share my woman period and remember if she cheated I could always blame pts for what's going to happen to them both
I think he doesn't want to have to worry about you trying to cheat on him do to him being deployed and rather know you are having sex with other men versus could you be having sex with other men.
I understand but the thing here is he decides the man and I am like feeling bit weird with all this, as to whats the reason here.
Exactly what i was thinking he is trying to control the situation. But do you even want to sleep around?
Not really but this thing comes around almost everytime and sometimes I feel like it's better to get done with it.
With the relationship or actually do it?
I mean it's a conversation that comes around almost everytime when we speak and we hardly speak once a week due to his deployment. I ask why does he say that and he wants my needs to be met, and he says he loves me. But I feel really strange as to if he lives me how can he think of any other guy for me.
I agree with you. You should tell him this and how you feel about it.
It maybe means he is not secure that you wouldn't cheat, so authorising infidelity give him a feeling of still being in control?
But I have never cheated on him. and neither I asked for it, so why should he be worried about in the first place when he is at work.
is he on deployment or work days? I thank him for his service in any case,,,
I mean he is on deployment. Well am proud of his service too and I feel he really cares for me too.
I was probably being a bit negative earlier sorry, I get the feeling he's a really ok guy now, I've been on active service myself, fought for my country and got punished for it, but that's a different story,,,
no, and I'm a veteran
Fuck no
Yes I can understand, thanks!!
If he was in the military when you married him, then you should have expected the long term dry spells. Or just not get married until afterwards.
Divorce
It means he rather find out from you than from pornhub.
What do you mean?
I think it would be better of you are a bit more respectful towards women. Not all women cheat on their partners when they are away.
Respect is earned not given, also there must be a reason your husband doesn't trust you. Twat.