Would you ever have a Threesome?

Question

Would you invite another person into your bedroom to spice things up? Why or why not?

ksoma · Accepted Answer

Yes. Absolutely.
It would have to be someone we both knew, trusted, and were attracted to, but yes, I would.
There are rules. You have to make sure you communicate well, that feelings aren't hurt, that jealousy doesn't come out of it. During it, you have to make sure everyone is happily involved, that no one is left out or made to feel like an extra. But if you can work it out right? Yes. It is a beautiful, amazing experience.

The funny thing is how many people would never have one with a "person they were serious about."
In my mind, the only person I would have one with is the woman I loved, and a third party we both trusted (and even cared for).
If you don't treat sex like a toy, but instead as the special connection of people that it is and should be seen as, you can do all sorts of things, and still stay faithful and true to your partner. It just comes down to realizing it is not a game, and that there are responsibilities associated with it.

VirginiaBeachBum · Accepted Answer

I've had many FFM and several MFM threesomes with my wife. The FFMs were with her girlfriend with whom she was sexually active before we met. And the MFMs were with a younger guy she used to work with at a restaurant. We were careful in picking our partners, I let her take the lead in picking them, and made her the center of attention in all of them. And I have no regrets about any of them. It was enjoyable watching her share her body with someone else and receive pleasure. I was never worried or jealous because I knew her heart belonged to me.

Victorianna · Accepted Answer

No way!!! I wouldn't want to share myself between two men. (&vice-versa) I want to give exclusive devotion to ONE man only!! A threesome is a deal-breaker for me. I would be extremely offended to even be asked to consider it.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No never. Because I don't want to. I'm not into stuff like that. I only want my guy, no one else, and I absolutely don't want him to have someone else either. I would be jealous.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Nah, I would rather just be with the person I love.

dreamspear · Answer

It's a fantasy for a lot of guys but in reality most guys don't have the sexual competency to pull it off! (myself included) A threesome could serve as a reminder of why you chose each other.

If you do choose to give it a go, make sure to lay some ground rules first:

Who can touch who, how can they touch etc. Also, make sure it's not someone you know, if it isn't a good experience it would just make things awkward.

bdbee · Answer

Depends on the maturity of my partner, and how well I think they could cope with the agreed upon boundaries that would be nice place.

justbanANNAz · Answer

nope. i don't share.

madiangel · Answer

yes I do, because I enjoy sex a lot, my boyfriend enjoy it too. we love fucking in groups

CheerGirl38139 · Answer

MFM is a fantasy, but it's a long way off in real life. I need to finish college first and start my sex life - which doesn't exist yet 😂😂

godfatherfan · Answer

Never. If either partner says they want a 3some it means the relationship is over. They don't have the guts to break it off. So they are trying to get excited again by cheating. If they get their partner to cheat together at the same time, they feel less guilty. It is the first step to making it easier to break off the relationship.

NJ_Casanova · Answer

MFF only and only if it was her ideal. She would have to pick the girl.

AndyOh · Answer

If everyone was on board, absolutely. The key is having really good communication and a very healthy relationship so there are no jealousies or hurt feelings.