Would you forgive someone who accidentally cheated?

Last weekend I cheated on my girlfriend Annie. The reason why I did it is because I've been convinced for the longest time that Annie is cheating on me. I've been on this site before with my relationship issues. Here are the reasons I think she's cheating:

1. She has lots of guy friends who she
admits wanna fuck her. She doesn't care
how I feel and remains friends with them.

2. We were hanging with her guy friend one night and he tickled her stomach. I found this very inappropriate.

3. Her guy friend Brad, his girlfriend thinks they’ve fucked. Annie also gets upset when Brad neglects her and doesn't text her as often as usual. She knows Brad from being friends with his ex wife. She's not friends with the ex wife anymore.

4. She tells me that I'm weird and no other woman is gonna want me even though I'm handsome.

5. Always refuses sex and just dick teases me. For example, she'll flash her breast and open her pussy at me and say "you're getting none". We only have sex twice a month. I'm definitely more into her than she is into me.

The reason I put up with Annie is because I do love her. She does lot of good things aside from the negative. Sometimes I feel like Annie is the best I'll get. I've always struggled with a low self esteem. I don't get love, affection, emotional support, and the
sex I need from Annie.

About a month ago I started talking to a girl on a dating site named Malia. I didn't think it was cheating since Malia lives 2 hours away. Me and Malia had an emotional connection. Talking to Malia made me feel good about myself. Last week Malia drove to my work to surprise me. We hung out and had sex.

After I cheated on Annie I ghosted her for a week. She called over 50 times from 3 different numbers during that ghost period. I talked to her yesterday and she was really sad. She also signed up for a 1 year passport because she was expecting me to marry her.
Now I'm feeling really guilty. I can't live with myself and what I've done😢
Would you forgive someone who accidentally cheated?
Would you forgive someone who accidentally cheated?
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  • You can’t accidentally cheat on someone so you might as well get that thought out of your head

  • Annie sounds like a total bitch and you should dump her but NOBODY "accidentally" cheats.

  • Yes, we all make mistakes

  • Accidentally? Sex starts with thoughts...

  • You can't accidentally cheat. But the more mature thing to do in your case is to break up if you know you’re being cheated on

  • There no accident in cheating

  • What? how did it

  • Is Malia Arab and Muslim?

  • You cheated. No doubt about it. You cannot even prove your girl has cheated or is cheating and if no trust, Dump her and move on. She does act single, I must say, maybe she is waiting for you to cut ties.

  • I creeped into my boyfriend's room for sex one night. Turned out it was his younger brother. I only realised when he put it in because he's a lot bigger than my boyfriend, it was like I was a virgin all over again that's how big he was compared to my boyfriend.

    • But did you follow through on the act? If so, it went from 'accident' to intentional. Did you (or the brother) tell your boyfriend about it afterwards? If so, what was his reaction?

    • @Open2It followed through? He was inside me, I was horny and that big dick was so good. I let him have me twice then creeped into where my boyfriend was actually sleeping and my boyfriend had me

  • No one “Accidentally” cheats, ffs.

    You are either a piece of shit human being or you are not.

  • Cheating is never an accident, it's always on purpose no matter what. It takes a lot of effort to find a place to get naked and put it inside somebody. If you dump someone it means you don't like her anymore, but cheating means you hate both yourself and her a lot

    You hate Annie because if you loved her cheating wouldn't even be in your head. You hate relationships because cheating means never wanting to be in a relationship. Otherwise you wouldn't risk it because it's common sense nobody wants to get with a cheater unless they are cheaters themselves

  • Cheating cannot be an accident. Someone who thinks like that has very different values than me, and forgiving/staying together is out of the question.

  • Ugh.. I don’t like this girl.

    • She’s hiding things without question

    • @Needopinions999 I got that vibe

    • I’d like to know how she reacted when he questioned her, that’s usually where the truth is.

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  • “Accidentally”

  • Wall of text but nope no such thing as one accidentally cheating.

  • Dude.. The stuff about her and her guy friends... No man with self respect would be okay with that.. How are you still with her after that.. And how did she manipulate you to think she cares about you? Is she so much hotter than you? Leave her like you should have done long ago... The other girl seems nice... She's the one worth your attention