Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Would you give your partner a “hall pass”?
Anonymous
So I’m in an open relationship with my boyfriend. He’s in Thailand at the moment lol I trust him to tell me and be safe no matter who he sleeps with. Anyway when he was there he met a woman, who was upset at a bar, because she’d given her husband a hall pass to fulfil a fantasy... she was letting him have sex with a prostitute even tho she didn’t want it... Would you ever do this for your partner? If so would you actually be okay with it?
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19 43Sure...
You need more control over the situation than being able to sleep with randoms whenever you want. How would that build your relationship in that scenario? That kind of freedom is dangerous, for your health and relationship as a whole. It should be talked about, planned and then executed as a team. My opinion of course. Maybe giving your partner a green light to have sex with whoever, whenever will work for you. Let me know how that turns out.
I prefer promiscuous girls, so i'm ok if my wife/gf has sex outside the relationship. in fact, it kind of turns me on. it's only cheating when they lie about it, so if she meets a guy and wants to fuck him, just call and say you'll be out tonight. i'm also ok if she has a side boyfriend. the deal breakers for me are diseases and pregnancy.
I'm possessive I would never feel the same about him.
Nope.
I would and I would like the idea she would also let me fulfill my fantasy here and now, not that I would necessarily do it but I would like the thought that she loves me so much that she would do that
Hell no. I wouldn't give or want a hall pass.
fuck no
I'm anti-LDR, despite the hype around it a lot of them fail. If I had a girlfriend and she or I moved across the country or something then I don't think it's fair for her to not be able to date other guys, I suppose we'd go our separate ways.
Are you okay with having an open relationship?
I wouldn't be able to do it
Nope. To me that's not okay. If you are in a relationship, in my opinion, it should be with you and your partner. I consider opening it or bringing others in to be cheating.
oh hell no never im to clingy XD and who the heck would want there partner to sleep with another person? thats just wrong
Yes, I would if she really just wanted a pass.
I would be fine with it if we discussed it first. But I would not be able to be given a hall pass because I wouldn't feel comfortable doing that to someone I loved.
No, i wouldn't. My wife belongs to me
If it is open, no pass is needed as long as all of your rules are followed
I wouldn't be able to do it to my partner giving them a "hall pass".
Haha I would if I was caught cheating and I wanted to keep her and that was the best option to keep us together... haha but that’s probably only scenario.
No I wouldn't give my partner a hall pass. If she were to suggest it, I would consider ending the relationship. That's how I feel.
Same
@AlwaysBelieving Yup, same here
When you're in a relationship with someone you should love them enough that they can fulfill all your fantasies. And if you forget all of the ones they can't. THATS love for your partner.
@Handsome_cowboy yup. Well said.