Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health So I started talking to a guy since late October. Our first date was on New Year's Eve and we had a great time - even though nothing went to plan - but that's another story.
He lives 300 miles away, he drove to London for our date, he booked a hotel to stay the night, it was never planned that I would stay the night with him but *surprise surprise*
That is exactly what happened and we had sex, it was hot and passionate af, but it was only our first date.
And as I write this it sounds very bad and it goes against everything I would normally do, but the relationship we have is special, it doesn't feel like the others, and he's so caring and genuinely loving towards me, which is something I've not experienced before.
Anyway, what are your thoughts on sex on the first date? What do you think of a girl that sleeps with you on the first date?
Would you have sex on the first date?
Katerina_Belle Yoda
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What Girls & Guys Said
21 62I did once, and I married the guy.
If it is a girl I really liked and wanted a relationship with I probs would not go for it. Unless she initiated it. Then maybe. Tbh what you described sounds like a one night stand not a date lol
I had limited words, if I go into the full details then it would make sense, but I'm not asking about my relationship here, my question was just a general one to GAG
Alrighty then
I have had long-term relationships that have started with sex the first day we meet, and I have had long-term relationships with some that we saved yourself for 2 months or so. It dont matter.
At least you enjoyed it. Have fun
I have.
I could be so lucky
I would not do it on the first date and even during the first months. But what other people do is not my business.
I don't judge people based on their sex habits or actions provided it was consensual.
yes l would as l need sex
I just go with how I feel and not worry about which date it’s on. If we are both that physically attracted to each other than why not.
If the relationship works it doesn't matter in terms of time scales
If it was offered
I would. I don't think anything of it , especially if we have been talking for months.
I'm open to it, but that might just be the virginity talking.
I think it is a good date, maybe the girl really wanted sex. Sometimes things happen, I would consider this a good sign in a relationship.
We're both adults and if the situation presents itself why not
I think it's a good idea
Would not think less of her. But it's the whole package ... yeah the sex can get me hooked tho
Depends
It depends on the relationship but your circumstances are sound so it is fine