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Would you leave your girlfriend if she’s not into blowjobs or swallowing your cum?

I’m not against guys leaving their gfs due to that it’s better to find someone who is into it too rather than be forced to do something you don’t like just to keep your partner
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I love it if my partner is into eating me out, but I will be a little disappointed if he’s not into. I will be satisfied if both of us are into doing certain sex acts that both of us like
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I’m not really good at giving advices on GAG because I’m not a relationship expert or a sex expert (GAG deleted my question when I post it on GAG saying I’m not good at giving advices had me like🙄) do you agree it’s a good idea to lie to my future partner by pretending to enjoy giving blowjobs but deep down I don’t really like it? I hope he will not find out that I’m not really into it. I don’t want him to be disappointed & the relationship might not work out if I tell him the truth
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  • Your partner is meant to be the person you value the most, not someone you discard if they don't share a particular sexual technique or preference. Having said that, an couple should indulge one another.

    • I think you should take joy in making your loved one happy. It shouldn't be all about you.

    • I think it’s a bad idea to force myself to give my future partner a blowjob just to please him though I don’t even like it in the first place. It’s better to have discussion about what both couples like rather than forcing oneself to do certain sex acts just to please one person when they (the ones giving blowjob) themselves are not into it

  • I get swallowing cum, but not doing blowjobs would be dissapointing. No I wouldn't leave her for that as long as we have a happy relationship and have intercourse

    • I would also be disappointed if my partner is not into eating me out but I would be satisfied in a relationship if both me and my future partner is into the same sex act and trying new positions

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  • i swallowed cum my 1st time and got used to it so i've always swallowed their cum overall i felt they loved it and they would tell me how pretty i was and it was important to them that i swallowed where spitting was never an option... but it was never an issue where i didn't want to... if there's any girls who don't have to swallow consider yourself lucky.

  • Well, I don't have a penis. So it doesn't really matter much how the girls I dated feel about them.

  • Personally, I'm not into either of those things myself. I say to each their own. And I personally don't like either of those and I'm sure I'm not the only one but hearing from other guys that do like this might be more helpful too

    • depends on her reason as to why she does not want to do it.
    • things like taste, texture and volume can be fixed over time to some degree.
    • by the person on the receiving end choosing healthier options for their diet and/or exercise routine.
    • works for both sides of the coin really.
    • also keeping the area clean and groomed helps to some degree.

  • I would (have) not.

  • No. That's a stupid reason to leave a good woman.

    • Be honest. Even if my girlfriend doesn't like blowjobs, I'll still eat her out. She doesn't have to reciprocate.

  • Yeah we both gotta like it all

    Sex will become stale and ruin the relationship eventually

    • Rofl GaG actually told you that you aren't good at giving advice Never heard that b4

  • She doesn't have to be into it as long as she does it. My girlfriend usually gives me a bj when she's too tired for sex or not horny

  • No, I would not.

  • For me I've always found out if she does blow jobs or not on first or 2nd date... so if not then they never been around long enough to call them girlfriend.

  • Not a deal breaker at all. I love to give her oral though so hopefully she would too. Reciprocation is def good!

  • If your not goi g to give him a blowjob then don't expect him to eat yiou out, it's a two way street, forplay can be quite important for arousal to warm up before sex, it's ok no oral but your basically letting him go in dry especially if your not wet or him

  • How would you like it if you didn't try it?

    • Not all girls like oral, but I heard that some girls hate it but will still do it in order to keep their boyfriends or lovers (by pretending to like it), I don’t know if guys can tell if a girl deep down hates it or likes it. I think some guys will be able to tell but not all. Other girls really like it and doesn’t mind going down on their partners. And the rest don’t like it, but they’re not afraid to tell their partners that they don’t like it. If it were me I will probably lie to my partner that I like it because I think it’s better to tell a white lie than to tell the truth because the truth will lead to disappointment and the relationship might not work out. I don’t know if it’s good idea to tell a white lie tho

    • Don't lie to your man. Be honest, it will not hurt your relationship at all. It is unnecessary

  • No but I'd admittedly be a little disappointed.

  • It’s not a reason to leave a lovely girl over, however not wanting to swallow cum in normal but not wanting to suck his penis is bizarre

  • Yeah pretty much.

  • If she will still so it on occasion I am okay with it.

  • If I truly love my girlfriend then it wouldn't matter as each person has his or her own choices and preferences. If not doing certain stuff really affects then girlfriend and boyfriend need to talk it out.

  • Its disappointing but not a deal breaker (as long as she lets me do it to her!)

  • Yes. But it would be discussed before we became a couple. So if she wasn't, then i would have not pursued a relationship with her.

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