Would you marry a man knowing they always had another female friend and her daughter around?

Thanksgiving they are over but that is kinda open for friends and family any ways.

Cousins husband constantly has his female friend over and her daughter for everything.

Game night, they are over. Holiday. , those two are over. Family event, those two are at Thier house!

Might be just friends but it's so weird and no idea why my cousin married him

Would you marry a man knowing they always had another female friend and her daughter around?

cause she got her also!

They can have another person not jealous
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Nope would never agree I want them focused only on me!
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Maybes depends
Vote C
Sorry no sexy 3 some guys
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  • Welll... this isn't about the sex of the person he's friends with. Let's make this pair a guy and his son. Would you still feel the same? I think it would be just as unusual.

    If this guy's good friend, and the woman sounds like a bestie, was ALWAYS over, for game day, movie night, Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Year's, Easter... etc... I would think that IS too much, no matter if it were two women or two men.

    I'm not worried about the fact that this is a woman, I'm worried about the fact that the husband seems to think she's like his sister and niece and the boundaries between his primary relationship and friendship seem blurred.

    BUT, the big picture is, does it bother his WIFE? If it doesn't, then you have nothing to say.

    • They have fought over it several times before but it is always dropped and maybe your right it's more just low boundaries not the sex of the person but her being a single woman... Makes it more weird with a teen!

    • OOOHHHhhhhhl... Well that's another matter. I don't see what her being a single woman has to do with it either. If it were a single guy and his son, again, would it be the same issue? As long as this woman is simply friendly, not overly touchy feely like a girlfriend, I don't see this as an issue. If he was friends with her BEFORE his marriage and during his courtship of his wife, she knew what their relationship was... Did she think it would end? They're friends, for goodness sake. You don't drop a friend. BUT, it's the "No Boundaries" thing. I wouldn't want my husband's girlfriend/daughter over all the damned time! And what's with THEM? Don't they have anyplace else to go and any other friends to hang out with? Again, you're talking about her "sex." Her being single has nothing to do with anything, as long as she's respectful and doesn't overstep the personal space and boundaries when around this man's wife. She clearly doesn't seem to KNOW that she should back off, but neither does he...

    • It was not like it is now! I think her being a woman does have some to do with it. Also if it were a guy she would feel way more left out! Like he does not want to be with her. Which might make it worse

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  • seems kinda odd to me. does this couple never have alone time? i get it, maybe they are being nice since maybe she's a single mom, but I don't know... even if she was his best friend. i guess some people don't have boundaries.

    • Maybe but they do get some alone time daily life just not socially? But there is being nice and being overly nice!

Most Helpful Guys

  • That's a little odd, if my wife had a dude and his kid constantly around there would need to be some sort of explanation as to why they constantly needed to be around us. We have close friends, but they are not always a part of our daily or holiday routine.

    • So true and he does not have one other then she dated bad guys and has low self esteem. He is not the one to fix her of that? Also they can miss a day or two not every holiday they have to be over 😔

  • hmm... sounds a bit odd without knowing further details, lol...

    I once a girlfriend, that was very close with her two other girl, friends... so we would all hang out often... but not every time, so very different situation as well... lol

    • Very different but seems like every timen

    • I am sure there's something else we don't know about... lol

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  • My wife and I have a similar friend who's always invited over, even to some family functions. She's been my best friend since freshman year of college, and no, nothing's ever happened between us. My wife has no issue with her. I'm lucky that they became such good friends as well though. I'll come home from an evening shift at work to find my wife and her sitting on the porch with a bottle of wine sometimes.

  • Should not be a problem in my view , every friend of opposite sex does not always have to be a sexual engagement.

  • Seems odd to always have them around.. very weird.. Would not marry a guy that close with a lady friend.. I already have enough issues with how close mine is with his mom lol

  • Nawl because you can’t trust everyone these days. People intentions are sneaky

    • So sneaky do you would say they are sneaking behind her back into bed?

  • The kinds of guys that are empathetic and want to give a single mom and her daughter a sense of belonging is the type of guy you want to marry.

    • But really every event? He went to her house for Christmas while my cousin visited with us and her family.

    • That’s slightly weird but it means there marriage is a really trusting one. Sometimes people like time away to miss eachother.

    • My cousin is not that trusting... She has been cheated on before but she allows it? Won't argue with people need time from each other!

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  • No, absolutely not.

    • Same 🤣 asked my cousin she said he is great when they are alone which is not really any more. They took a few vacations Might be she just wants kids and is older?

  • I don't believe in marriage. But I don't give a fuck who my partner is friends with or spends time with.

  • Nope, I would never agree, I want a woman who pays attention to me. LMAO!!!

  • If he doesn’t mind sharing.

    • I’m not interested in the daughter

  • Everyone likes their own way

  • yes i wood

    • Why? Not doubting just wondering

    • i have boys or man with son as friend too

    • @roseysarah The OP is supposedly only thirteen years old.

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