I just want her to be fun-loving and adventurous. If she wants to tie me up, fine. If she wants to be tied up, even better. If she wants to be spanked, that's fine, too. If she wants to act out role-play fantasies, that would be amazing. I don't mind if she needs to be dominated, because I can certainly fulfill those needs. I can also let her have a little fun at my expense if she wants to (as long as she isn't disrespectful); I'm a very accommodating person. (I'm also very much in favor of including vanilla stuff into the mix. I'm not anti-vanilla.) The only caveat for me is that if there's any sadism or masochism involved that I don't want it to spill over into the relationship outside of the bedroom. Because I believe in having two equal partners and I don't want to have any weird dynamics going on that would lead to a dysfunctional relationship.
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I_Am_SazeracXper 5
+1 y
I enjoy rough sex, roughhousing that leads to it, but I'm not inflicting pain for sexual gratification and I dont take gratification in receiving inflicted pain. There are hundreds of ways to enjoy sex without torturing your partner...
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clampfan101Master
+1 y
Neither. I don’t understand how pain can bring pleasure.
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crmooreGuru
+1 y
Masochistic
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TyffenYoda
+1 y
Uhm...
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crazy8000Yoda
+1 y
Huge turn off
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KingZeeXper 4
+1 y
I like a bit of everything I'm open lol
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Likes2driveMaster
+1 y
No I’m not into that
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GedariaMaster
+1 y
No...
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valentine74Xper 6
+1 y
Hot Cold painful bliss variety makes our monogomis effort doable
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Hispanic-Cool-GuyMaster
+1 y
None.
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LuWe22Guru
+1 y
I would prefer my partner to be neither. I'm not interested in sadomasochism. And I wouldn't try it, even if my partner wanted it.
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Shyssyboy
+1 y
Why not? It's fun!
NigjtYoda
+1 y
I like when my Women want me to spank her an slap her an wants me to do other things like that to her it makes my dick very very hard
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ask4anyXper 7
+1 y
Neither.
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jwssteinXper 5
+1 y
Wilder the better
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NightOwl8801Guru
+1 y
That stuff isn't my cup of sexual tea... neither me or my girlfriend are into any of that stuff
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Thatoneguy777Xper 6
+1 y
I chose C
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SnickermarstwixXper 6
+1 y
I wanted to say both but I did shit. Both cause I'm a curious man and I can't tell I won't like something before I tried it. Even for my sweet but hole, I don't want anyone to touch but someday maybe I'll try who knows.
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11 46I just want her to be fun-loving and adventurous. If she wants to tie me up, fine. If she wants to be tied up, even better. If she wants to be spanked, that's fine, too. If she wants to act out role-play fantasies, that would be amazing. I don't mind if she needs to be dominated, because I can certainly fulfill those needs. I can also let her have a little fun at my expense if she wants to (as long as she isn't disrespectful); I'm a very accommodating person. (I'm also very much in favor of including vanilla stuff into the mix. I'm not anti-vanilla.) The only caveat for me is that if there's any sadism or masochism involved that I don't want it to spill over into the relationship outside of the bedroom. Because I believe in having two equal partners and I don't want to have any weird dynamics going on that would lead to a dysfunctional relationship.
I enjoy rough sex, roughhousing that leads to it, but I'm not inflicting pain for sexual gratification and I dont take gratification in receiving inflicted pain. There are hundreds of ways to enjoy sex without torturing your partner...
Neither. I don’t understand how pain can bring pleasure.
Masochistic
Uhm...
Huge turn off
I like a bit of everything I'm open lol
No I’m not into that
No...
Hot Cold painful bliss variety makes our monogomis effort doable
None.
I would prefer my partner to be neither. I'm not interested in sadomasochism. And I wouldn't try it, even if my partner wanted it.
Why not? It's fun!
I like when my Women want me to spank her an slap her an wants me to do other things like that to her it makes my dick very very hard
Neither.
Wilder the better
That stuff isn't my cup of sexual tea... neither me or my girlfriend are into any of that stuff
I chose C
I wanted to say both but I did shit. Both cause I'm a curious man and I can't tell I won't like something before I tried it. Even for my sweet but hole, I don't want anyone to touch but someday maybe I'll try who knows.
Neither is best.
I like sadistic girls
Me too
Nice!