Would you rather date a sadist or a masochist?

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sawno · Accepted Answer

Its a very close call since i am a switch, i like sensual domination.
If she is only one type very strongly i'd rather have the Sadist because having her tease me relentlessly feels amazing physically. Her being a Masochist is more of a mental turn on as i can explore all my dominant fantasy's and drive her to insanity instead.

So for me its mostly the question, do i prefer physical or mental stimulation with physical stimulation being the better of the two. I obviously prefer a girl with a less strong preference so we can switch roles both teasing our brains out.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Either could be fine, as long as our desires were compatible. I enjoy topping and am happy to spank, paddle, flog, etc. but I have my limits and I could not satisfy a hard-core masochist. I can switch but could not satisfy an extreme sadist.

alice55 · Accepted Answer

Sadist, Masochist is just a big turn off. I'm a bit if a masochist so it might be why too.

Neyila · Accepted Answer

why would anyone date a person who likes inflicting pain on others and seeing them suffer?

Wonderer89 · Accepted Answer

Sadist. I couldn't dish out enough pain to satisfy a masochist

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

A sadist. I like pain, but a safe word is always needed.

Being_a_good_Indian · Answer

No one.

AmanoYin · Answer

Doesn't matter as long as they have a good personality.

estoydorado1 · Answer

Neither. I don't want him torturing me or himself.

johanmdsn · Answer

sadist r hot like christian grey

Vesuvius87 · Answer

Neither of them.

fauchelevent · Answer

Sadist

NespaDon · Answer

Masochist

Margillard · Answer

Misandrists are sadists.

ColoradoChick84 · Answer

I'm the dom, so a masochist

JoeSchmoeCool · Answer

why not both?

RedVulcan · Answer

Interesting results.

frozenhorizon · Answer

I don't want to date either of them ugh

DrMouse · Answer

I find it kinda hilarious that the men and women have the exact opposite results.

omgjassy · Answer

Masochist

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Masochist, because I trust my limits. I don't trust others.

John_Doesnt · Answer

I'd rather date a girl who doesn't talk back.

Chris1987 · Answer

I like to date a woman who is more submissive, but is also able and willing to dominate sometimes. It would be too boring just one way I would think.

datgirl · Answer

Masochist cause at least he won't be hurting me 😂

NaughtySarah · Answer

Someone who is both like me

Brutal_Honesty · Answer

in my bedroom, i do the whipping

Decentguy · Answer

Masochist for sure. since im a sadist

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Easy. B. I will not endure a person inflicting physical pain on me for their sexual grafiaction.

Maxemeister · Answer

Masochist, but if I had a choice it would be a bit of both

YHL6965 · Answer

I'd rather be alone to be honest...

king34 · Answer

I'd rather date my toaster

SupMates · Answer

My girlfriend is a sadist

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

Masochist

RuthlessAri1984 · Answer

neither of them

Blitzkrieger · Answer

Masochist.

ToruMatsuda · Answer

Sadist

Lumberman53 · Answer

Masochist

Uhhhhh · Answer

Since I'm a sadistic mf, I'll go with a masochist

Anonymous · Answer

It doesn't matter for me

Anonymous · Answer

Sadist for sure. I want the girl to dominate me almost every time.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't enjoy pain and I would probably be afraid of a true sadist unless they had strong ethics. Would have to test them for psychopathy. Sadism and psychopathy are a bad mix.

Masochists don't turn me on either, I don't think I could hurt anyone, just mild stuff like tying them to the bed would be fine. Don't like BDSM.

Anonymous · Answer

Neither. I'm rather "plain vanilla" or a switch.

Anonymous · Answer

Most women prefer to date a sadist, most men prefer to date a masochist. It's natural order.

Anonymous · Answer

A masochist. I'm dom, so that's fine by me as long as it doesn't go overboard.

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