That sounds like an excellent idea. She knows how far, when there’s pain. When she’s done and cleaned up, she knows she’s ready for a cock.
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Dr_Latex_McPegginGuru
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I did this before I ever let someone use a strapon on me. That way you can build up a bit and have a basic idea of what is to come as size and length wise...
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TotallyAlmostGuru
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If your partner is very large, I highly recommend it. Gradually work your way up to the largest dildo until you are comfortable. Otherwise you're in for a world of hurt.
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Jamie05rhs
+1 y
Though it would suck if they broke up before it happened and then she started dating a smaller guy.
scooogyMaster
+1 y
Well, she might save the blood bath from her "first time" with a guy
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bladedshardXper 7
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Id say yes be ready, familiar, and comfortable so it doesn't hurt.
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CT_CDMaster
+1 y
I penetrated myself with a sex-toy before being penetrated by a penis, & I recommend it
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sidvtXper 7
+1 y
Nope not a good idea
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Victor1212Yoda
+1 y
No, don't spoil the pussy with fake things.
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Lliam
+1 y
"Spoil" the pussy?
Anonymous
+1 y
I wouldn’t recommend it. Just like no one recommend me what feels comfortable and how to get off. I was just in the moment. In tune with my mind and body, slowly learning and experimenting.
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Anonymous
+1 y
Thats crazy
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Anonymous
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I’ve penetrated myself before and enjoyed it and I’m still a virgin. I don’t know how sex will go, but hopefully I’ll be able to be a little less uncomfortable
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Anonymous
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No! I wouldn't recommend this. I'm a virgin and I don't see the point in avoiding sex and penetrating yourself all alone. I think it's really desperate and won't help with the sexual frustration either. Also I have heard that toys don't feel the same as a penis and what if a girl gets injured or the toy gets stuck inside or something? And why to dilate your tight vagina when you can remain tight?
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mistixs
+1 y
How is it desperate? I think it's more desperate to go on Tinder & get someone to have casual sex with, & risk pregnancy and STDs. Toys are much safer. Vaginal tightness due to virginity is a myth. The reason women are often tight when they lose their virginity is because they're nervous which causes the vagina to tighten up.
Opinion Owner
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Normal girls don't go on tinder and have casual sex. Virgin vagina IS tighter. Imagine an unused pair of socks vs used socks. The muscles get loose with penetration and aging. The only way they can stay tight after penetration is if you do kegels.
Opinion Owner
+1 y
I'd recommend clitoral masturbation as it's safer and easy to orgasm alone. Some virgins just feel more wholesome when they don't insert things inside and I'm one of them. It's my opinion and you are free to do whatever you like. I just won't recommend it.
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Ellie-V
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Girl that is too silly. If you think a sex toy could get stuck what makes you think a penis wouldn’t? 😂😂😂 Like the real organs, sex toys come in many different shapes and sizes. It’s very unlikely that it could just be glued into your vag with no chance of escape 😂😂😂😂 And by the way, the only thing that’s desperate is a person’s NEED for attention. Being ready physically doesn’t mean you’re ready emotionally and mentally. Being out on the hunt for a dude to satisfy your curiosity only puts you in a fucked up position.
Opinion Owner
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Penis is attached to his body so it won't get stuck because he can pull it out. Imagine your vagina swallowed a dildo. How will you take it out. There are cases of women who had to go the hospital because of things getting stuck inside. Like I said, you both are free to put the biggest dildos in your vagina but I won't recommend it. Also just because I don't put dildos in my body doesn't mean I'd rather hunt for a guy and have casual sex. I'm waiting till marriage. I just don't like the idea of toys penetrating me and thus won't recommend especially if a girl is really tight and has a hymen.
Ellie-V
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Dildos typically come with handles. Unless you’re that clueless to figure out how to HOLD on an object, there should be no problem. But anyways, I just wanted to give my two cents. I think your logic is silly. Do you boo and I hope your life plays out well 😚
ghostingz
+1 y
how is it avoiding sex lol
Opinion Owner
+1 y
It's all good. I masturbate and cum🔥
Anonymous
+1 y
Don't, have the experience with a guy
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Anonymous
+1 y
i did this before sex, made my first time a lot less painful and helped me understand myself a lot more and what I like without experience. I’d recommend it but starting slow
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juliascone
+1 y
How did your first time go? How did penetration differ from using a sex-toy in your experience? I’ve penetrated myself before and I personally enjoy it, but I’m a virgin and don’t know what to expect when I actually lose my virginity
Opinion Owner
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the penis was wider than what I used for sure but it felt generally the same (surprisingly less pleasurable, but probably because it was my first and I was nervous), his penis was about 5 inches and I used a toy that was a measly 4 before that. It hurt but not unbearably, I can’t speak for if his penis is bigger than 6 inches though, ow for a first time.
Anonymous
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I think it would be good in the sense that you would be less stressed for your first time after. Personally I prefer not to do it since I want to be a true virgin for my boyfriend. I don't want him to feel like I'm not tight enough or a fake virgin.
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25 34That sounds like an excellent idea. She knows how far, when there’s pain. When she’s done and cleaned up, she knows she’s ready for a cock.
I did this before I ever let someone use a strapon on me. That way you can build up a bit and have a basic idea of what is to come as size and length wise...
If your partner is very large, I highly recommend it. Gradually work your way up to the largest dildo until you are comfortable. Otherwise you're in for a world of hurt.
Though it would suck if they broke up before it happened and then she started dating a smaller guy.
Well, she might save the blood bath from her "first time" with a guy
Id say yes be ready, familiar, and comfortable so it doesn't hurt.
I penetrated myself with a sex-toy before being penetrated by a penis, & I recommend it
Nope not a good idea
No, don't spoil the pussy with fake things.
"Spoil" the pussy?
I wouldn’t recommend it. Just like no one recommend me what feels comfortable and how to get off.
I was just in the moment. In tune with my mind and body, slowly learning and experimenting.
Thats crazy
I’ve penetrated myself before and enjoyed it and I’m still a virgin. I don’t know how sex will go, but hopefully I’ll be able to be a little less uncomfortable
No! I wouldn't recommend this. I'm a virgin and I don't see the point in avoiding sex and penetrating yourself all alone. I think it's really desperate and won't help with the sexual frustration either. Also I have heard that toys don't feel the same as a penis and what if a girl gets injured or the toy gets stuck inside or something? And why to dilate your tight vagina when you can remain tight?
How is it desperate? I think it's more desperate to go on Tinder & get someone to have casual sex with, & risk pregnancy and STDs. Toys are much safer. Vaginal tightness due to virginity is a myth. The reason women are often tight when they lose their virginity is because they're nervous which causes the vagina to tighten up.
Normal girls don't go on tinder and have casual sex. Virgin vagina IS tighter. Imagine an unused pair of socks vs used socks. The muscles get loose with penetration and aging. The only way they can stay tight after penetration is if you do kegels.
I'd recommend clitoral masturbation as it's safer and easy to orgasm alone. Some virgins just feel more wholesome when they don't insert things inside and I'm one of them. It's my opinion and you are free to do whatever you like. I just won't recommend it.
Girl that is too silly. If you think a sex toy could get stuck what makes you think a penis wouldn’t? 😂😂😂 Like the real organs, sex toys come in many different shapes and sizes. It’s very unlikely that it could just be glued into your vag with no chance of escape 😂😂😂😂 And by the way, the only thing that’s desperate is a person’s NEED for attention. Being ready physically doesn’t mean you’re ready emotionally and mentally. Being out on the hunt for a dude to satisfy your curiosity only puts you in a fucked up position.
Penis is attached to his body so it won't get stuck because he can pull it out. Imagine your vagina swallowed a dildo. How will you take it out. There are cases of women who had to go the hospital because of things getting stuck inside. Like I said, you both are free to put the biggest dildos in your vagina but I won't recommend it. Also just because I don't put dildos in my body doesn't mean I'd rather hunt for a guy and have casual sex. I'm waiting till marriage. I just don't like the idea of toys penetrating me and thus won't recommend especially if a girl is really tight and has a hymen.
Dildos typically come with handles. Unless you’re that clueless to figure out how to HOLD on an object, there should be no problem. But anyways, I just wanted to give my two cents. I think your logic is silly. Do you boo and I hope your life plays out well 😚
how is it avoiding sex lol
It's all good. I masturbate and cum🔥
Don't, have the experience with a guy
i did this before sex, made my first time a lot less painful and helped me understand myself a lot more and what I like without experience. I’d recommend it but starting slow
How did your first time go? How did penetration differ from using a sex-toy in your experience? I’ve penetrated myself before and I personally enjoy it, but I’m a virgin and don’t know what to expect when I actually lose my virginity
the penis was wider than what I used for sure but it felt generally the same (surprisingly less pleasurable, but probably because it was my first and I was nervous), his penis was about 5 inches and I used a toy that was a measly 4 before that. It hurt but not unbearably, I can’t speak for if his penis is bigger than 6 inches though, ow for a first time.
I think it would be good in the sense that you would be less stressed for your first time after.
Personally I prefer not to do it since I want to be a true virgin for my boyfriend. I don't want him to feel like I'm not tight enough or a fake virgin.