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Would you stay with someone who isn't willing to have oral sex?
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27 118Maybe. My body responds better to penetration anyway.
Are you sure?
Seriously? You're asking if I'm sure? About my body?
Not at all. I'm asking if you've experienced good oral.
I'll stay with them but everything else we do sexual got be on point. Cause I love getting bj
Been there done that. Unless it’s a medical condition there is no excuse. I wouldn’t stay again
That must have been a bad realtionship
I can’t say that because we were both young and made mistakes. It was a 14 year relationship and she gave me maybe 10 bjs/hjs and I went down on her close to 1000 times. Obviously learned a lot and improved in other areas over the course of time but regarding oral sex that’s gotta be something fair and both willing to give pleasure.
God no!!! Need it way too bad for that.
Did your husband ever go down on you at a D&D game?
Lol nah but he would go down on me anywhere
Lol same 😂
@apple1996 totally hot 😍
What's D&D game?
Nope, life is bad enough.
I have no idea.
I have never not had it.
I do not know what I would feel if some told me I will do this and that but I will NEVER do that.
Would I not care, would it bother me after months without?
I kind of seems like they feel you are gross... you do not want gross things in your mouth.
I do not think I would like that feeling.
Not merely because if that, but we would definitely be missing out on something.
Nope I would not
It wouldn't be a deal-breaker or anything but what guy/girl would say NO to oral sex 😣
Probably not. But maybe.
I’ve spoken to the odd woman here who has some past trauma with oral. They were enthusiastically into EVERYTHING else. Just oral was triggering.
I could live without it in a case like that.
But that’s rare. Most people who won’t do oral, oral is just the most common thing on a huge list of “won’t”. Forget that.
I think I ruined this for others. I promised my ex I wouldn't cum in her mouth. While receiving a rare and surprisingly good blowjob I proved myself to be a liar. Never got another from her.
Nope
Succinct!
I'm married so im stuck either way I go.
So it doesn't matter
I would be okay if she isn't into oral. I cannot force her to do it and I wouldn't want her to do something she doesn't like to do just because it feels good for me. I would still perform on her, so long as she does not expect me to.
It would be a tough one... I love giving oral sex very much... it's so intimate and erotic... as is receiving it... would def create an incompatibility... don't like thinking it would be a deal breaker but... if known before relationship gets going then likely no relationship is going to get going :)
If i can't give her oral i don't want her
I couldn't care less if I put effort into it. If I can be with the girl I care about stupid sex acts mean less to me than the dirt in a specific sidewalk crack some place in say Japan.
Yup, why not? If they don't like it then I have to respect their opinion.
Sex is very important in a relationship and if your SO isn't willing to do oral then you're either looking at a lifetime of not being sexually satisfied or you're not figuring on being with that person forever (which is fine if you're not wanting a forever relationship). If you're not planning on being with them forever then cut bait and find someone you're more compatible with or one day you'll look back and realize you got burnt
Is a woman didn't want to give me oral but would let me give oral to her then I'd definitely stay with her, but if she didn't let me give her oral then that would be a little different