Would you wait for a stable relationship to have sex?

[Anonymous]

[Lliam]

Going steady, infatuated and dating exclusively, is stable enough for me. I don't need or give any promises initially. We'll get to know each other better and better while in an exclusive, boyfriend-girlfriend, relationship. That's how you find out if you are right for each other. If it doesn't turn into a lifelong commitment, at least we had a lot of enjoyment.

[mT2359]

Stability means exclusive monogamy! That's the bare minimum if u r looking for a long term relationship. If it's not a long term commitment, then why wait!

[Aerissa_Jade]

What is this mythical stable relationship you speak of? If I waited for that, I'd never have sex.

[midnightmoon05]

Stable means committed to me only. That’s the result of healthy stable relationship.

[SunshineAndSweetness]

Stable relationships must include sex for me, not the other way around.

[Twalli]

So you can't have a stable relationship without sex?

[menina]

Yes, I would. I wouldn't be able to have sex with someone I was just seeing for the first time. I'm not into hook ups and one-night stands. I don't judge anyone who is into these things but it's not for me.

[Paulalove98]

Yeah definitely especially if i really like him it's so worth it with someone you connect with.

[marshmallowcream]

Yes , I think that’s the best thing to do

[marshmallowcream]

By stable relationship I don’t mean marriage , just knowing that the person genuinely cares about you

[anon1903]

That can take forever lmao

[Tina19]

NOoooo

[mT2359]

Kyun?

[elizamichale1]

Without sex u can't really hav a stable relationship

[Twalli]

You should be able to, if you can't it's probably because you can't choose the right men, or you aren't the right woman.

[Lliam]

@Twalli. She meant if you like sex, that is. Are you a virgin? LOL

[Twalli]

@Lliam no

[Twalli]

@Lliam I love sex, My girlfriend and I have it almost daily when she's here.

[Lliam]

@Twalli. Was she your first? Were you her first? Is "purity" important to you?

[Twalli]

@Lliam Yes, but I didn't know I would be her first. I honestly didn't care at that point. So purity isn't important. I mean I won't date the city cum dump, but if she's had a few sex partners, I am okay with it. From 25 onward it's half your age (rounded up), so if you'v had over 13 at 25 then I'm less likely to be willing to date you. Yet 13 at 30 would be okay with me. Also the number of times you've had sex is not at all important to me. I couldn't tell you how many times my girlfriend and I have had sex except its over 100 and below 1,000. I don't know if it's closer to 100, 500, or 1,000. I never bothered to count.

[elizamichale1]

@Twalli each to their own likings & preferences honey... u would find many here who can't stand u if hav had more than 1 partner n u can find many here who would be ok with any number in past But the most imp thing... unlike u i dont call people right or wrong if their likings n preferences do not match mine

[Twalli]

I didn't mean to call anyone on here wrong

[elizamichale1]

@Twalli much better

[Aquariusmystery]

Yep I made my boyfriend wait 6 months lol

[Nikki1989]

Life is too short for that.

[TRACY99]

i love sex and if the guy is right i will do it on first date

[Twalli]

What makes him right?

[Pete671]

With a particular person? depends if I wanted a LTR with them, if I did I would be happy to wait until it felt right for both of us,,,

[Twalli]

Not really would wait, more do wait. We're not having sex before a stable relationship. That's nonnegotiable.

[tony_baloney]

Whoa, a mormon

[Twalli]

@tony_baloney actually an atheist

[tony_baloney]

you LIIIE lol

[Twalli]

@tony_baloney not at all.

[tony_baloney]

I never thought atheists could be so conservative xD

[Twalli]

@tony_baloney It's only regarding sex or anal. Anything else is inbounds on our first meeting.

[tony_baloney]

First meeting? What exactly do you mean by "stable relationship"?

[Twalli]

@tony_baloney For sex, anything that involves penetration below the waist. Stable means that we've been together for at least 3 months ans we're not having problems. I wait a bit longer with a virgin because I want them to know that even if sex hurts, I am not doing it with any intention to cause pain. I do require sex in a relationship also. If the girl wants to wait longer than 3-6 months, she can. Yet, I won't date you if you don't have sex within our first 2 years.

[tony_baloney]

Yikes. I usually have sex within the first few dates. You're a stronger man than I lmao

[Twalli]

@tony_baloney I might have eaten her out after the first date. If she allows me and we're in a theater or private I'll gladly finger her on the first date.

[tony_baloney]

In my mind if, you're 'that' intimate, sex is really not that big a stretch

[Twalli]

@tony_baloney I understand, but I place a certian amount of value on actual sex.

[Rudon00]

Yes I would

[despiteful]

I would

[SmokinAces2000]

Depending on how long it takes

[Anonymous]

No, but I do wait until I'm sure my crush isn't just a crush and I actually have feelings for the person. Usually after a few dates