Guys, Your favorite porn star vs your girlfriend?

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my boyfrien and I were having an argument because I found him saving pics of girls with large busts (models etc). Im only a 33b. I said it makes me feel like he isn't attracted to me cause of my small bust. As an attempt to tell me that he loves my body type too he told me one of his favorite porn stars who is also somewhat small chested (34b). But now whenever i watch porn i always have the thoight of him getting off to this girl and this kills my self esteem. I know im thinking things negatively, but I just wanted your input.

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FemWorship Yoda
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1. got lucky & married my "porn star", discontinued Playboy a few months after marriage
2. pics of gals with large busts are IMPORTANT to a couples' love/lust life, same as Viagra to older couples
3. pics of guys for you or gals for him are caricatures, enhancements of the ones we love/lust NOT replacements, ONLY convenient fantasies
4. even if your boyfriend is big head too weak to resist his little head's desires, USE the little head pigginess, even fuel its "neediness" with more high octane pics, then collect all this new sex drive for your own devices & satisfaction
5. there's NO connection between those pics & your breasts unless YOU make one, so stay away from the mirror if your big head is going nuts

If he's getting off to a pic, realize what's at play... not her... not his big head.
The little head (that also chose you for real world sex) sometimes finds its "need" so urgent & selfish, it doesn't want to bother with a) rejection, b) wait awhile until I'm ready, c) love letters, warming up the gal, d) other niceties
Your reaction - when older & wiser - will be... just come get me if one of those pics drive you crazy so I can be there and help get you off. Quickies aren't the best for some gals, others love them and tit-for-tat comes into play someday when Clooney is making YOU horny and you want the real deal boyfriend to have sex pronto
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joeb73 Yoda
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i have seen questions like yours on here several times. i have also had the same type of questions raised from my wife.
guys are very visual in nature. and when we see someone attractive we look, that does not in any way take away from the feeling we have for SO. yes we might get turned on by what we see and ladys get turned on reading romance novels. that doesn't meen everyone acts on though feelings
regarding porn stars and boob size. a lot of guys are attracted to boobs size at least on some level, and the stars know that so, what do they do to become more popular and make more money , they get a boob job.
i bet if you really talk to him and asked him if he would ever have a meaningful relationship with someone who did that for a job. i bet his answer would be no. but that doesn't stop us from looking and fantasizing about it. in reality we just want you not matter what size your chest is or no matter if you might how you differ from what the star looks like. you are the one that loves us and the one we see we can have a real relationship with.
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AustinMan Influencer
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Porn is about fantasy and convenience. You're over reacting. Just ignore it and enjoy your time with him.
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- cavmanier
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  Him fantasizing about a porn star I think is her issue.
- AustinMan
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  @cavmanier My point is that no guy ends up with his porn star fantasy and I'm confident if she weren't what he wanted, he wouldn't be with her. So be confident.
- cavmanier
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  I'll just be quiet lol
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- AustinMan
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  @cavmanier I'm interested in hearing what you have to say.
- cavmanier
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  That I can imagine many people preferring their partner to look like a porn star.
Tdieseler Guru
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im pretty sure he would take his girlfriend. chances are he'll never see (not to talk of fuck) his favorite porn star.
Hey, let him do his thing... i mean, if you want to make it interesting, start saving pics of firemen, or models or male porn stars too... let him feel how you feel now...
I love giving people a taste of their own medicine... so much easier than talking.
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MrMuffinMan Xper 6
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Your favourite porn star is a celebrity. I am sure you know what it feels like to have a crush on a celebrity. Given the chance to be in a serious relationship with commitment involved. I think the average guy would not be into it. A common saying is that a guy wants a slut in the sheets but a lady on the street. Short of being a conjoined twin (giggity) I don't see how that's possible when they are two totally different kinds of girls.
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Danburry_elect Xper 5
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My favorite porn star - Brooke Lee Adams - looks a lot like my girlfriend so doesn't mind so much when she sees me whackin the mole to her movies lol
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Chief16 Editor
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What fuckery is this?
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oldanddecrepid Yoda
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I don't have a favorite porn star, don't even know their names... could care less.

My girlfriend wins hands down every time!
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meatballs21 Master
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My favourite pornstars all have small boobs and are generally petite all over (5'2" or less, usually a B or less). They are a FANTASY, they aren't real. My girlfriend is taller, has bigger boobs, and I love every inch of her.
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Scrambledagain Explorer
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Pornstars will always beat gf's. They hotter and more naughty minded. Class dismissed. Next question.
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Kuraj Yoda
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"But now whenever i watch porn"
Hold on, hold on. If you watch porn aren't you getting off to it too?
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Throwaway420 Xper 4
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How about a pornstar who looks like my girlfriend, win win?
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DBAOracle Explorer
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Of course my girlfriend. Why would I even compare my girlfriend to a pornstar? That's messed up...
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Soulife Xper 7
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If you think you're hot, then you're hot. And if you can see a similarity between the porn stars and you, then you're more than awesome to go! :)
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abc--123 Master
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Porn is a fantasy not a reality
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phild_par Xper 6
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my favorite porn star look very much like my ex... I am single now.
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danjohn18 Xper 6
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Don't be insecure about porn. My tastes in women change daily. One day, big titties, the next small, one day big ass, the next small... guys are programmed like this
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Anonymous
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Fantasy is not reality. WE do NOT compare women to other women!!
It is no different that you fantasizing / masturbating to Christian Grey or the idea of him (or something like that). You wouldn't compare him to your partner, its just fantasy.
Leave the guy and his fantasy alone. Don't shame it, or try and stop it. No one stops you from yours.
Your self esteem is YOUR issue not his.
You compare yourself to other women, he doesn't. YOU Need to get over it not try and force him to change to suit it.
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Anonymous
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Nothing alike, and tell you what, I am much more attracted to my girlfriend.

Also, lets face it: Large busts is what you will get in 95% of the cases when it comes to porn. There really is no need to compare yourself. Porn is to men what a dildo is to a woman.
Yeah, it gets us off but it isn't anywhere near as fun as a real partner.

Oh and, we're talking the non-vibrating bland-type of brand of dildo. Not anything edgy or vibrating with fun here.
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