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Guys, Your female friend wants you to bang her?

Guys, I know this is probably a silly question but... If you had a female friend that you say is super nice/innocent/pure, that you talk with, game with, or just hang out with from time to time. What would you think/do if one day she told you she has been really needing sex and asked if you could you have sex with her? Would you think less of her? Would you think she was just going through something? I want to know what you would think and do as a guy.

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  • I have actually had sex with two ‘female friends’ who just needed it and didn’t want the baggage attached to it. One friend had recently ditched a bad boyfriend and was having a dry spell in the dating world. She struggled to find a way to broach the subject with me, but finally got around to it one day, and we had a super fun night of no-strings sex which was never repeated and never spoken of again. The other friend just came right out and announced to me at a party one night that she wanted to give me a blowjob. She said she had heard whispers that I had a very nice dick and she knew how much I loved oral because we had talked about it, and that she just wanted to treat me to her ‘legendary dick sucking talents’. So, after the party, we went to her apartment and she proceeded to give me one of the best blowjobs I have ever had in my life. That night was a ‘one-off’ too, as we have never done anything again since then. But every once in a while that night will come up in conversation and we always have a little laugh about it. I did not, and do not, think less of either of my female friends for wanting to enjoy a night of sexy fun with me. On the contrary, I admire their spontaneity and self confidence, and I’m happy to still call them both dear friends!❤️☺️

    • Wow, very nice!

    • 😀 For sure! Both these gals are great friends, and both those nights of sexy fun with them were indeed very nice! 😋

  • Honestly I'd be worried about how she's doing emotionally. Sex is a natural urge like hunger and the need to use the bathroom; you wouldn't think less of someone who's hungry, so why would think less of someone who's horny? Although if she has to come to someone and is asking then I take that as some kind of cry for help, especially if it's the kind of woman you described. Now if we're good friends I know her well, and she's leveling with me and I do find her attractive then I'd probably have sex with her. If she's definitely not crying for help, and is just really horny then I'd do it then as well. As always I'd talk about the ground rules, what she wants, what I want, etc. before doing so, people make a lot of mistakes when they have sex with friends.

    • You're awesome 🥺

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  • We you called, its a silly question. See I am not the type guy that is just interested in being just "friends" with a chick. So if we were hanging out for any amount of time together, its because I would totally bang her if she was down for it.

    If I would never bang her, then we would not be "friends" nor would spend that much time with her. I would think as a friend if she was having some sexual frustration it'd be my duty as friend to step up.

    • Love your answer

  • Nope, first try to find out what's going in her life. If the reason is valid then you can go for it, or if the reason is not valid, if she is going through something, help her in with it.

  • First, I'd be flattered that she would consider me for a 'friends with benefits' privileged status. Hopefully she's grown mature enough to be able to differentiate her physical desire from sex as the language to convey emotional intimacy... it can be either and BOTH.
    Second, we'd CLEARLY define our responsibilities in management of EACH our's fertility... NO "just this ONE time..." self-delusions!
    Statistics posit that one out of every four unprotected copulation's results in CONCEPTION. Who the hell plays 'Russian Roulette' with a four chambered revolver with ONE chamber loaded? Next, is the issue of STD's, per YOUR description... she's certified 'healthy' and believes myself to be as well. Then we move onto the 'mechanics' of the experience.

    Is there something she's curious to TRY with someone she TRUSTS to place her well-being over the mere lusty allure in-the-moment? Oral/anal, Dominance fantasy, Forced Submission? Usually, at least ONE of you is expected to be the MORE mature and in control... each is voluntarily being 'objectified' without fear of BEING viewed demeaned.
    A SAFE 'playmate' only concerned for 'here & now'... not reading MORE into the transient passion.

    Guys, Your female friend wants you to bang her?

  • When I was your age and single, if a girl I really liked wanted to have sex with me I would probably jump at the chance. Looking back, I can think of some that I would have loved having them want to have sex with me!

    • Haha, yeah... Im just always curious about how guys think and how you'd react to certain things.

    • So do you have a guy in mind for this?

    • Well yeah the friend is real, and but I'm not gonna ask him to do it. It's just a desire that will remain unsatisfied until I'm ready to be in a relationship again 😒

  • When I was in college my roommates sister and I became friends. She would stay with us once and awhile if she was in town "clubbing". One night she snuck in my room after bar and asked if she could sleep in my bed instead of the couch. Of course it led to sex and it was amazing! We became even closer friends after that... if you know what I mean..

    • Lol interesting. What about your roommate?

    • He and I weren't really that close at that time but became fairly good friends because his sister and I started hanging out. He didn't seem to mind.

  • You really think ANY of your guy 'friends' would turn down sex...😂😂

    • Honestly Yes I do 🤧

    • You are incredibly naive.

    • I think he'd want to... but not do it. He's the only guy friend that I have that I feel wouldn't do it.

  • I would not think less of her. We all desire sex after all. If I was single I'd buy a ton of condoms and go for it.

  • Innocent girl is highly unlikely to offer sex from my experience.

    • I've never done it lol but of course no one is innocent

    • Virgins are innocent, and I has some virgin girls as friends, as well as slutty girls.

    • Virgins are definitely not innocent. I've been known and called the sweet, innocent girl all of my life because I never acted on every desire that came to mind. When I was a virgin, I was still always thinking about what sex was like and still got wet if someone attractive turned me on somehow. Nonetheless I stayed a virgin for a long time. My ex is the only guy I've been sexual with..

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  • If a female friend wanted to bang me all she has to do is open her mouth & I would make magic happen.

  • If I was attracted to her (and I am to most of my female friends), I would jump on this immediately. I’d take my time and do the thing right, but I wouldn’t hesitate to make it happen. Doing it before she changes her mind is the only smart play.

    I am so turned on thinking about this!

    • Lol you must have some really attractive friend in mind

    • I’m probably picturing you/. :)

    • Haha 😉

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