During my first time, I was told I was tight, but the guy I was with was also a virgin at the time so what would he know? lmao. I was really turned on, not scared at all, mostly just excited. It hurt a little, but I wouldn't say that it was a totally negative experience. It was a bit uncomfortable, but once I relaxed and got used to it, it began to feel good. I only started to really really enjoy sex after the 3rd time though, when I became completely comfortable with sex.
0 1 0 0Thank you so much Kiwedin!
You are right - a vagina prepares itself for sex when the woman is aroused. It lengthens, and the muscles relax, and it lubeicates itself. If she is not aroused none of these things happen and sex is painful even if she is not a virgin. Virgins often have a hymen that may tear.
My own experience - I was in a serious relationship, he waited until I was ready. I wasn't scared and I was aroused and it didn't hurt. He was very gentle and just did it slowly.2 1 0 0You didn't heart at all, and it was just enjoyable? Did you bleed at all? But no, they dont have hymen. Hymen was proved to be a myth. They have vaginal corona which differs from woman to woman. Vaginal corona partially covers the vaginal tunnel, but it doesn't fully block it, whereas the mythical hymen was believed to fully block the tunnel door. This is what i read about virginity.
No pain, no blood. Just took it slow to get used to it
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My first time was a little uncomfortable to start, but the discomfort went away after a little bit. I wouldn't say it was painful though, nor did I have any bleeding.
I'm not sure if that helps.0 2 0 0It definitely helped. Thank u so much.
Yeah all virgins viginas are tight untill there opened up I knew mine is as I'm still a virgin
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You have to keep in mind the difference between two things: first the hymen. It doesn't tighten the vagina, it just blocks it to some varying extent. Usually gone after first time sex (if not before). Second the tightness of the vagina itself. Doesn't change till first time giving birth. So that is independent of the girl being a virgin or not. She might appear tighter though if she flexes her muscles or isn't relaxed. Maybe that's more common with virgins.
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