Do any other girls on here like laying on top of a guy or having a guy laying on top of them?

I love laying on top of my boyfriend of having him on me. Not like having his full weight on me but just laying on top of me. Its so sexy. He will be laying in bed towards the TV and I will just lay on top of him and put my head beside his and we will stay there for like half an hour. I also like the same thing done to me. I just want to know if there are any girls or even guys that enjoy doing this.
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Most Helpful Guy

  • It's pretty common. I read a lot about sex as a young teen, and more than one "good sex" book mentioned that the man should support his weight and be careful not to crush the girl under him. The first time I had sex, I was very careful about that, but once we got started, the girl wrapped her arms and legs around me and pulled me down on top of her! It literally took me a full minute or two to accept that she WANTED to feel my weight on top of her; I was kind of shocked by that, especially because she was petite and I'm a big guy. And the second girl I was with was exactly the same way: she liked feeling my weight on her.

    Since then, I've been with girls who don't especially like that, and more girls who definitely did, but I'd say that the majority liked it, at least a lot of the time. They all say it makes them feel sexy and close to the guy.

    As a guy, I've always enjoyed my girl laying on top of me. Either laying on the couch with her head in my lap or leaning back against my chest, or in bed, with her sleeping on my chest. That's all good with me.

    • I have medical conditions and a fragile chest. As such, I warn men not to lie on me

    • @hsshannah96 Completely understandable, but that's something you should communicate because different girls like (or need) different things.

    • It is something I communicate but I’m sure to not be the only one who doesn’t like this Men need to not just suddenly do this during sex and get an OK from the girl before hand! we usually can’t talk or get you off us during sex and it gives me so much pain for many days

Most Helpful Girls

  • Oh my gosh I freaking love it! Something about laying on top of him is just so peaceful and pleasant to me, but more important is having him lay on me. It feels absolutely wonderful and serene and perfect. It's like there's this profound emotional connection, and it's just so comfortable. He thinks I'm crazy, or at least weird, lol, he's afraid to put all his weight on me because he thinks he's too heavy, but I tell him he isn't heavy enough. Lol. it's also so cute, reminds me of those lizards that sleep stacked on top of each other = )

    Glad to know I'm not so weird after all. lol.

    • After reading this i really feel like I need to date a girl (in italy/milan) who enjoys it like you all, because i love such intimacy so much and frustrates me when there is not... I really thought i was weird too, glad i am not alone...

    • I don’t like guys lying on me but I do like rubbing their arms and backs. I like to play with their hair

  • The guy I date does this. He will move me after I am exhausted by lifting me by my armpits and turning me so I’m lying on him (my entire body) and my head is on his chest. He is lying below me with his back on the couch, facing me

  • i like to lay on his back...like all my weight. its like a bed with the shape of a body lol he says it feels nice too! so better for me! :D

    other than that...i like cuddling. his head on my chest and mine on his!

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  • Yeah, I like sort of straddling my boyfriend and laying my head on his chest and he puts his arms around me. I think it's really intimate like cuddling, we do that a lot after sex or just at random times when we're hanging out together at his house or my house, it's just relaxing and I feeling that closeness to him at times other than sex:)

  • love that :)

  • Yes very much so its very relaxing and comforting feeling her against me.

  • I love laying on a guy's chest after sex. I like the intimacy I also like laying sideways face to face with our legs intertwined like a leg sandwich. His leg then mine in the middle then his leg on top. I dated a guy and the sex wasn't great but I loved cuddling with him after. He's much taller than I am so he felt like a big teddy bear. During missionary I also wrapped my legs around him and arms even though he was much bigger than me.

  • I loooove laying on him and when he lays all his weight on me. He's 220 lbs and I'm 120 but when he wraps himself around me I feel like I'm gonna die it feels so good!

    • I don’t like the guy to lie on top of me

  • wow this makes me really sad :(