Do guys masturbate with a condom on?

One night when I was at my partner's place, I saw an unused condom below his bed side. We usually don't use condom whenever we had sex and we don't have sex in his bed anymore so am very much surprised to see it. I didn't want to asked him about it because we are FWBs. And we've never had sex for a long time (6months) before that night. About 2 days after that night, we had sex. He usually pulls out so we never use condom. This time while in the middle of doing it - we had to stop and he asked if he could put condoms on as he can't hold it. And we both don't want me to get pregnant. So I said, he should. And then he put the condom on and we get on it again. And then about 3 minutes after that, he came. This is the thing, my experience with him is - if we haven't done it for awhile - the next time we did it - he wouldn't be able to hold it like he used to so he would need a condom. And if we do it often - he can hold it until he's sure that I'm done (which takes kind of a longer time :) ). My question is what is that unused condom doing by his bedside. Did he recently have someone sleep over in his bed when I wasn't having sex with him and wasn't able to use the condom? If he had - how come he wasn't able to hold it with me when we had sex again? Or was he going use the condom to masturbate? Or maybe that's just a left over condom, maybe there's more in there before and were thrown in the garbage already. What do you think girls and guys?
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  • Hahahahaha. I'm sorry that's funny that you think anything other than he's having sex with another girl. But an open minded thinker you are. And typically no, guys do not jerk off with condoms on. 97% chance he's having sex with someone else. 2% chance he's jerkin off with a condom on. Ill leave that 1% open to the imagination of you, the open minded thinker. Why don't you just ask him if he had sex with someone else. You get to be as bold as you want with a cut buddy. You can ask them anything, because you don't owe them anything, and I hope you don't feel emotionally attached because if you do he's more than your sex buddy. And he owes you nothing, that's why he had sex with someone else. And as far as him coming fast, and being able to hold it. That can go both ways. If you guys hadn't did it in a while. He should lasted a bit longer. Because he should have felt he needed to re-establish his presence with you, and LAY IT DOWN RIGHT. Or. He could have came quick because he hasn't had it in a while. Its not always our fault when we let it go a little faster than normal ok. Sometimes its just that good and we can't help it.

    So next time you make him come fast, go in the bathroom with a cup of cool aid, flex in the mirror, and look at him and say " now hurry up and get it back up, I'm gonna tear that up again " he'll get mad hopefully and wanna BEAT THE BRAKES OFF You. And if he feels he has something to prove. He'll last longer

    • LOL..i know it's funny... I was laughing myself why I post the question... but thanks for the answer though... and I know you're right with the 97%.. I guess I just need confirmation w/c I know I won't get from him because he will deny it if I asked him..

  • uh no why would we do that. most guys don't really like condoms we would rather feel your soft insides directly lol. Maybe if a condom was really lubricated I don't know I think its probably not the case, You are probably being just a bit naive thinking masturbating is why a condom is in his bed. He should flush that not just to hide what he is getting up to although that's one reason mainly because that is frikkin gross. I mean I would hate to be the same women or you back next time and be in his bed and like sit on it ewww? I'm usually not one to judge but me thinks you should maybe have a bit higher standards than this guy if he is not a perma bachelor he really should be

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  • Sorry to say the consensus is in, and everyone thinks he is sleeping with someone else, most guy's don't like using condoms during sex so I'd tend to think he would not go to the trouble of putting one on just to stroke it.

    The good thing is at least he was using a condom with that someone else.

    The only sure way to know is to ask, as hard as that is for you to do, I think you need to hear it from him, not us.

  • First thing you can still get pregnant even if he pulls out. So be careful. The whole condom thing, really I don't know what to tell you. Maybe it is a previous one he thought he threw away and missed the garbage and wasn't aware that it was on the floor. Or he is with someone else.

  • Maybe he dropped it. Maybe he has a girlfriend. Who cares you said you FWB? Or do you kinda like this guy? I however have never heard a guy masturbating with a condom on. They don't like using them during sex, I can't imagine during masturbation. You should just ask him.

    • When you masturbate a condom, it makes it feel a little different... and variety is good, at least when compared to your own hand!

  • Not many do, but it's honestly great to learn to masturbate with a condom on. It will help make condom sex more pleasurable.

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  • My ex used to use a condom to masturbate. I secretly watched him do it. LOL I wondered about the condoms myself. He was embarrassed.

  • To be honest I think he's cheating but ask him out right just be blunt about it don't beat around the bush if he has been then chuck him in the rubbish lol or don't say anything and get more evidence nothing stays a secret for long.

  • If he does have another partner, I suggest using the condoms the whole time from now on... it sounds like you two have skipped them occasionally. FWB should not equal STD.

  • Well, odds are he’s having sex with someone else.

    But to answer your question, yes, some do. I have in the past. I actually have really big loads so clean up is a problem if I’m in a hurry. So putting on a condom makes clean up a lot easier.

  • It sounds to me like he may be having sex with someone else. I would ask him about it, since you guys seem to have a kind of loose arrangement in that area; the FWB thing. I don't think many guys, if any, use a condom to masturbate. What's the point of that?

    • Thanks.. I believe he is.. guess I just need confirmation which I wouldn't get from him...i know if asked him it's either he would deny it or I won't get a straight answer...

    • lol.. I have masturbated with a condom about 4 times in my life but usually I masturbate without any condoms.. But I have heard that a few percentage of men uses condom while masturbation just to feel the pleasure or level of the sex or sumthing like that.. I know it sounds funny - weird to many but still some guys just love all this.. its all about the fun ahhahaha .. but I'm not sure about your sex partner what you found out, may be he had a sex with another girl who knws..

  • I have to go with the flow that the condom was NOT from masturbation.

    By the way, the whole pull out thing does NOT prevent pregnancy, so be careful!

  • Unless he was just experimenting, he surely didn't use it for masturbating .

    Maybe he just wanted to be safe with you the next time that the two of you did it . It's better to ask him about it first, before assuming anything .

    You have the right to ask him, because it's about you also .

  • It is unlikely he is using a condom for masturbation. It sounds like, besides the part of him going raw with you then deciding on putting a condom on, he is trying to do the right thing. Maybe he has another partner, maybe he thinks you might have one. Either sounds possible if you are not specifically committed to each other. Either way, why not just use condoms with him?

  • I had a girl find a used condom in my room before, but she knew it was someone else. As she was a new date and we hadn't had sex yet, she just laughed it off and told me we didn't need that junk.

    It's possible they slept with someone else, you are a friends with benefits so there is no commitment either. With condoms I tended to be very loose about it, just throw them off the bed after use. You might fall asleep and forget it exists under the bed or somewhere not in-sight.

  • You should ask his wife

  • That sounds very counter-intuitive..

  • I am as it seems in the minority but I use a condom almost all the time to masterbate. The cleanup is 1000x easier and I don't have any weird rags hanging around. I think most younger guys would skip it because it does have a cost to it.

  • No I've never done that with a condom. It's much more pleasant to be able to shoot my semen freely

  • I would use a condom if asked or if I wanted to save my cum for later, otherwise I prefer to just let it go so I can clean it up

  • i have jacked off in one before

  • Nope

  • Hello guys I must tell you that your boyfriend is very good boyfriend as you left him without sex for 6 months.O.o he couldn't hold it beacause as longer you don't have sex the faster you cum.so he couldn't hold it for that reason and no for all these reasons everyone says just be carefull because if a boy have no sex for a long time there is some bad results

  • Chill
    He is not doing anything wrong
    It is true that most guys rarely use a condom to masturbate
    But think you said that condom looked unused so this reduced the probability by a good extent
    Suppose he used it i am sure he wouldnot keep it as a souvenir as that would be really really creepy and it would be a lot dirtier also he would definitely do the required so that you out of all the people dont see it
    Probably he just broke the seal by mistake or his nail or sumthin must have hit the condom when he opened the seal or due to any other random reason he was not sure about the safety of that condom so he left it

    Not judging you, but you think a lot
    Slowdown i dont think there's any reason to suspect this guy

  • I´ve done it - when I was a virgin, was training how to use a condom, so when it was on, I´ve done it - why should I waste it? And also I wanted to see if the feeling is different

  • I do on occasion it is easy cleanup and feels different for a change

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