Do you agree with my thoughts on penis size?

SIZE MATTERS: There is such a thing as "too long" and "too thick", but that doesn't make all other penis sizes equally pleasurable. While there are many other ways to please a woman (which men with a larger penis can also do), how good vaginal intercourse feels with your partner is still important - it's the most common form of sex and one of the most mutually pleasurable forms of sex. Since you may be wondering, I have a small penis, so this post isn't to inflate my ego. While there is nothing a man can do to change his penis size, it is still a major factor in female sexual pleasure. If you have a smaller penis do the best with what you have, but for the sake of acknowledging the truth, I see nothing wrong with clarifying what most women prefer and why. Some common phrases about penis size: "Women don't bring a measuring tape to bed with them." - Women still know how pleasurable a man's penis feels, and their preferable size range exists even if they don't measure or know the measurements. "The vagina accommodates any size penis." - Sure it accommodates, but it feels different depending on how much the vagina has to expand. "It's not the length so much as the width of the penis that matters." - This is still bad news for many men with thin penises. "It's not the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean." - A man with a larger penis using "the best" moves will likely feel better than a man with a smaller penis using "the best" moves. "It's not the size of the penis, it's the man it's attached to." - While the man it's attached to is important, there are plenty of great men who ALSO have a larger penis...which most women would prefer. "Shallow women who don't want you because of your penis size aren't worth it." - How convenient! No man would dump a shallow woman who enjoys his penis BECAUSE of it's size, so why the attitude and double standard when her shallowness doesn't work in your favor? Some more thoughts: -Even if the increased pleasure from a larger penis were purely aesthetic (looks good), it would still be more pleasurable. -There are sex methods that are much easier/only possible with a larger penis. For instance: Men with a larger penis can use longer strokes, it won't slip out as much, they can change sex positions while staying inside the vagina, and they don't have to worry about their belly/her butt getting in the way as much.
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  • *3 to 4 inches is the average depth length of the vagina canal until the virgin tents stretches or erects up 200% that is 3 of 200%=6 inches 4 of 200%= 8 inches 3.5 of 200%=7 inches (perfect vagina range 7-8inches) The Vagina is Potential space it makes space for a member. *The Posterior Fornix: Female Cul de Sac The Throne of The King is a full deep Vaginal Orgasm Space which is 7-8 inches inside of a tented, stretched, erected vagina. A very soft very smooth "patch" just behind the cervix. The King is Crowned by a Queen there. Women needs a penis of 7-8 inches in length to reach a full deep orgasm to match the full deep orgasm in a women. "Match" meaning equal a womens pleasure giving elements. The G spot (Queens Throne) and clitoris (Queens Tiara) areas have sensation a lot but it is not full orgasm. Deep penetration is Full Deep Orgasm.(Worship of the Heavenly Temple, Glorifying the Holy Spirit)

    • Cool explanation dude. Where did you find this style of information?

    • You forget about the visual turn on aspect of a larger penis.

    • lol. taller girls on average are deeper

  • Well there is a huge variation in vagina sizes as there are in penis sizes but none goes around checking their sizes:) I've heard comments from huge to Well it's OK!

    Yes going by experience took me a while to learn to how to use it properly feeling a rubbing the hot spots even though my size isn't exactly small and not thin either in fact thicker than most a girl's hand he may have trouble closing her hand around. The thicker or fuller the penis the easier to give a girl a vaginal orgasm but I have t be careful not to hit the cervix just below or above it is right

    • Yes vagina size varies, but they don't have to worry as much if their man's penis is thick.

    • Only men get shamed for their size though, even though women vary just as much.

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  • My thoughts: Size doesn't matter as long as it isn't an extremity (TOO small, TOO big, both would be rare cases and of course a relationship would not be sacrificed because of it, just problem solving, how to maneuver, etc)

    I have never noticed a difference between sizes. At all. Every penis has pleased me about the same.

    You also seem very "Pro big penis", but have you thought about how most of the nerve in the vagina are in the beginning and get fewer the farther back you go?

    Either way, my first statement is still true to me. I really don't notice any sort of difference between sizes.

    • Large means wide also, and those nerves in the "beginning" of the vagina are stimulated primarily by width.

    • Not nearly as much as friction from the head of the penis, friction from the shaft doesn't feel the same.

    • Ok, so friction due to the width of the shaft AND the head is important...? I'm still right.

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  • I can't speak for other women, but sex is very mental for me. Yes, I AM attracted to looks and wouldn't be with someone I feel no chemistry with, but penis size is not a part of that attraction. Except for that basic physical attraction, everything else is mental. All he has to do is create certain dynamics between us, take charge and it makes me totally turned on and I enjoy it so much, no matter his size. But he can have the best penis out there, I can't really get into it if we're not compatible when it comes to dynamics or mental energy that we have with each other.

    • Ok now to one of my minor points, if you had to choose between two perfect guys for you (chemistry and all is A+), one has a thin and short penis and the other thick and long...which do you choose?

    • What do you mean by "take charge"? Being dominant/"alpha"? Or more like passionate/intense/make you feel desired?

  • Kudos, you put so much though into this. Size really does matter in cases such as too small, too thick and too big. Well, size matters over all, but you really just need to have faith in the girl that you are with, because she is with you even if you are "small". I mean seriously you are just worrying about half of the population. Also, thicker guys small or large are no fun, because of the fact that it hurts if you have barely had sex. Just saying unless you are use to bigger dudes or large dildos, than yeah

    • Your vagina won't stay that tight forever. If a guy is so thick that it hurts you (in a bad way), then he is "too thick" - for you. That doesn't mean that in general a thicker penis doesn't feel better to most women than a thin penis.

    • I'm 17... it will be staying that way for a while :0

    • Ok for a while, did I say that? or did I say forever?

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  • Not as important as people think it is!!! there is a lot more to be said for good technique with different parts of the body- penetration isn't the only way to satisfy a woman or man. y'all need to start doing some research and taking care of your body by using a penis health creme.

    • Penetration isn't the only way to pleasure a girl, true, but like the op said, penetration is the main form of sex, its demasculating for a guy to have to rely on oral sex to please a women.

  • Not really as I don’t believe it’s that important to sexual size. There’s something truly amazing about keeping yourself free from bacteria by using a penis health crème. Have you tried using a penis health crème? There are some that have nutrients and oxygen for health cell function.

    • I didn’t know such a thing existed, I’ve heard of using tea tree oil or something Steve Martin had an SNL sketch a long time ago for Steve Martin’s Penis beauty cream, you apply it for 15-20 mins daily and feel a lot better about yourself 😂

    • You selling a product?

  • i don't know why everyone is so crazy for size! not even that big of a deal. would highly recommend Man1 Man Oil which is a wonderful penis health creme loaded with vitamins and proteins.

    • Whats up with everyone and their "penis health creams"?

  • Definitely nothing behind the size myths. It's not that important. Keep it clean, keep it safe. Keep it in a condom.
    And make sure to get yourself some penis health creme.

  • While what you state is true, at the end of the day sex is still very mental. I mean who is to tell you that the sex is no god enough but YOU!

    • Sure I'm not saying, "You shouldn't enjoy sex smaller penis". But like I said, the other ways to please a woman (including romance/mentality/emotion) can be done by men who also have a larger penis.

    • Sounds like you’re so insecure that you find one thing good about you and brag about it and try to convince girls to go for huge guys. That’s really sad tbh. I’m in love with a girl and I’m only 5 inches, but it’s LOVE. Not the size of penis that matters. If you are small-average, you can use your fingers and mouth.

    • @James981 lol

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  • Yes, I agree with your analysis fully. Anything less than seven inches long and six inches in circumference is no good.

  • I'd say you're right, it probably isn't the same for every woman, but at least for me, the bigger the better 😋

    • Like how big is perfect for you?

    • What about porn star Sean Lawless? Too big?

    • thank you for your honesty.

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  • 100%.

    Most women for sure would prefer above average. Even those that don't have it as a priority would still be wowed if a dude popped out 8".

    This is like the deal with women and breast size. Some guys are crazy about it, and some really do not give two flips. But those that don't care, actually do care a tiny bit. Most men will like a girl if she's cute but has small knockers. They won't really think about it, but will sure notice if another cute girl goes by and has big ones.

  • Thick and long

    • Then I've got just the thing for you

    • Well I'm out in the long department... but explain thickness to me. Six around enough? lol

    • like what?

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  • I don't think size matters! It's about being healthy and clean. My wife tells me all the time that even though I'm not that huge, the fact that Im soft and stuff- and that doesn't come naturally, I use a penis health creme with a ton of vitamins and minerals to keep myself in tip-top shape (no pun intended lol)- but other than that, don't stress. Just be yourself!

  • When it's all said and done, there are only two types of penises -- the ones that get inside women's pussies and the ones that only receive pleasure from masturbation. While the size of the penis is obviously an important part of the equation, it's not the only factor that women consider.

  • You are spending WAYYYYY too much time thinking and postulating about this.

  • The way I see it, is if a girl has a problem with my size, then she isn't the one for me. If women prefer a big d***, and make it the be all and end all, then they're missing out on some guys who may in fact be better all around than someone with a big d***. Also we know that the avg penis size is 6-7 inch, which means that most dudes are packing the same thing. Who cares if some dude is packing more than you?

    • Ok, then she's not the one for you...but it's not her fault for wanting a larger penis to more fully satisfy her sexually. Sure there are plenty men with smaller penises who are "better all around" than jerks who have a larger penis, but there are also plenty of men who are better all around AND have a larger penis. So most guys are packing the same thing (length wise)...does that mean larger penises are no better?

    • Sorry but mate the average is 5-6

    • @SonOfaButcher We really have no idea what the average is, but I suspect it's probably around 6"

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  • Even though a large penis is great...even if a man isn't that big can still please a woman. Men can do amazing things with their fingers.I was with a guy once and he knew just how to hit my g spot with his fingers. That was good.

    • "...While there are many other ways to please a woman (which men with a larger penis can also do), how good vaginal intercourse feels with your partner is still important - it's the most common form of sex and one of the most mutually pleasurable forms of sex..." Why not have a guy who can do it all? People act like in order to have a large penis you must be a jerk with no skills, or fingers, or a tongue.

    • Have you dated men with average penises as well? (around 5.5 inches). How was it compared to larger guys?

    • We are not asking "can a small one be ok". We are asking "what's ideal to you?". For you, it's big. Just say that and stop with the pandering.

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  • Here is what women really think about dick:
    http://www.misterpoll.com/polls/368041/results

    • Wow that was a really detailed poll. Can’t really argue with those results

    • That was sure was detailed

    • Jesus that poll is depressing! 😔 So 82% of women have experienced a penis bigger than mine, and only 20% prefer my size or smaller. 😭 and the moral of the story is, she will yell you that your penis is just fine, but then cheat on you with a guy who has a bigger one. 🤬

  • I didn't read your whole text but you say size matters well of course it does you can't pleasure a woman with a 1 inch penis than you need to use your tongue and fingers but i hate this stereotype that the bigger dick you have the more pleasure the woman gets i heard guys saying i have 13 inches etc.. Well a womans vagina is 2.7 to 3.9 inches deep before getting horny and when horny it's 5.9 inches so those guys bragging about their big dicks have more than of their dicks outside the pussy i have 6 inches so i'm good

  • The average penis is 5.5" long the average depth of the vagina is 4". The vagina is capable of accommodating the birth of a human baby weighing 7 lbs on average. BUT the vagina prepares for this over a very long time. The level of sexual arousal will change its size and shape. The main things to ensure prior to sexual intercourse is arousal and lube natural or added. Even then starting slow and caring then the vagina can and will accommodate MOST penis sizes. During orgasm the penis head swells up sealing the vagina and the man is natural instinct is to ejaculate deep inside the vagina. The women's cervix during orgasm pushes out towards the penis head and slightly dilatates meeting the penis head to accept the ejaculation as easily as possible.

  • For the most part it doesn't matter.

    Is there a difference in how it feels depending on size yeah, but not enough to really get caught up on it unless you got a micropenis or a freakishly huge one.

  • It how you make pussy screaming because I know I love sucking

    • Love it

  • I think another reason size matters is that a guy with who thinks he is too small (even if he is not) will lack confidence. And that will most likely lead to bad sex, which leads to even less confidence.

    There are also guys who actually are very small. Who may have had bad experiences/reactions. And to keep your confidence thorough that is very difficult.

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