Girls, do you have sex drive? Why do girls have less interest in sex?

[Anonymous]

often heard that men have a high sex drive and men think about se quite often. sexual thought comes into men's mind all day, all time even every minute. men want sex constantly everyday and men have a greater interest in sex and women have no interest in sex. girls always report that men always talk about sex and they don't like this topic. they also report that guys always want sex and it's hurt them. i also heard that women are not visually turn on and don't desire sex if her lover don't kiss them. women can stay very long time without sex. sex isn't important for women and women only have sex only for money. they only desire sex on the time of ovulation (3 or 4 days in a month). women don't attract to a unknown person though he is hot. so, girls tell me is sex very unworthy thing? it's our problem that we want sex? do you hate a guy who want sex and who talk about sex?

i have a girlfriend and she never talk to me about sex. when i want to talk about sex she don't like this and if i want to sex with her she reject me. i feel guilty for that. why i am wanting sex, it's my problem that i'm a guy, i think about sex, i get turn on by hot girl, i masturbate. what's wrong? why you don't like sex, why you have less interested in sex?

[Jade6723]

Girls are the same as guys in saying that we talk about sex a lot. I know my friends and I talk about sex and that fun stuff. Girls normally are only interested in sex for a very short amount of time compared to guys but that doesn't mean we don't enjoy it. Women enjoy sex as guys do and if they aren't really talking about sex then that probably means they either don't like talking about it or they are too young or too inexperienced. Trust me when I say that girls want sex in a relationship but they also don't want the relationship to be just about sex (Except for friends with benefits). Your girlfriend probably doesn't feel comfortable talking about sex probably because your too young or she doesn't feel safe. Whilst guys are mostly turned on by what they see and smell, girls on the other hand are mostly turned on my their imagination as well as their sight. Lastly girls enjoy masturbation but depending on the girl they usually only masturbate during certain times of the month.
Hope this helps.
xx

[sweetlivy]

I agree! :) Us girls tend to be more secretive though. Maybe not every girl is like me, but personally I'm a bit secretive about my sexual desires unless I'm asking a question on here or talking to a close friend, or my boyfriend.

[GigiMary]

@sweetlivy You become less secretive with them once you have done it a couple times! My sister and I used to be really prudent when it came to talking about it, but now are extremely open about our fantasies in real life or over the phone.

[Anonymous]

That is a bunch of bull shit ! Seriously my sex drive is off the roof! I want sex 10 times a day everyday! I masturbate everyday and at least 7 times a day would be more but I have to work lol. I think of sex all day really. I want it more then my man does. He gets tired quicker. But I'm a sex freak haha.

[Lillianascelin]

Lol im the same way

[Opinion Owner]

@Lillianascelin preach girl! :).

[sweetlivy]

I'M THE SAME OMG I JUST NEED A GOOD HARD DICK POUNDING ME OMG <3

[sweetlivy]

Sorry you had to witness that. I'm a sexually frustrated little virgin who lives miles away from her boyfriend. :(

[gabrielangel1]

I think most women are liars. We all want SEX! Some women just might not be attracted to the guy enough. Or they don't want to come across as too sexual.

[Asker]

@gabrielangel1 did you feel it when you were single or you start to feel it after having in a relationship?

[gabrielangel1]

When I was single.

[rude_snap]

Amen

[curiouskitten86]

Ditto.

[phoenix1352]

Same.

[Opinion Owner]

@phoenix1352 to the girls who are with me 🤚🏻👍🏻 And guys x)

[undercoverbadgirl]

Lol same

[MARIA904]

I'm totally with you. I want sex all day long. My boyfriend even mentioned it and said he thinks I love his Dick more then him. I mean when we are together I like to be rubbing it and I love love love sucking it.

[adelariccia]

Same!!! All I hear is guys complaining that their GFS never want sex! My boyfriend is always "too tired" to fuck me we live together and have sex like once a week. Where are all these men with high sex drives at 😂

[nivutks]

Same here gal

[parasytekillz]

Oh god yes girl! Fuckin relatable haha

[Opinion Owner]

I love how all this is still going haha. DAMN TRUTH preach! Ladies 👐🏻

[Lucciola]

Oml yesss my sex drive is sooo high like i think bat sex so many times a day, of having my man inside me, pushing in, penetrating me and aiming for my clit and g-spot. So like yeaaa i have sex on my mind A LOT.

[Cat_vondi45]

@Lucciola yup sex is always on mind always super horny

[GigiMary]

Exaggerated but really pretty accurate! ☺️

[Amberdavis79777]

Same😂

[Cajsaghannam]

I don't think that really all girls are less interested in sex in real life. In our society there are some girls are working in escort agencies as dubaicompanionsservices where you can see how much a girl also have desire for have sex.

[meetkitty123]

This is very hard to answer so I think I'll break it down let's first start with the relationship. Talking about sex with a partner. I feel it truly depends on your maturity and how long you have been dating the girl how well does she know you
if you are a new couple then it would be completely understandable if she's not comfortable talking about sex yet. How well do you understand her morals upbringing or religious background? These things may affect how shy or open a person is to discussing sex
And when you're trying to talk about sex it depends on how you approach the topic. Are you mature? make you use proper language not curse words. are you being respectful? Are you being mindful of your surroundings and timing let's not have that kind of conversation outside her church Sunday morning 5 minutes before Mass... But most importantly never pressure anyone into having sex. It isn't something that is begged for. It needs to be a mutual desire. And if it is meant to happen it will be.
begging is just plan immature ugly and totally unromantic... And being pressured into having sex or pressured into talking about sex is awkward and totally a turn off. one thing to know sometimes people are just not sexually compatible or their sexual drives are not. Now my next step
Do women think about sex? do women desire sex? are women sexual?
DUH of course we are. Men didn't populate the Earth by themselves!
women are very sexual and we express it in our own ways the problem is the way women express sexual interests isn't always the same as a man. But fortunately I'm quite sure that there are many ways that we express sexual interest that's are the same as a man.
Now as for me When entering a new relationship I start off slow and I'm very timid. I observe I think and consider things for a few days and then I act... Slow.
Signs of sexual interest new outfits new perfume makeup finding reasons to be around the person inquiring about their interest Hobbies sports... I know you wouldn't think these things are considered sexual interest but it definitely means a woman has an interest
Now once I'm in the relationship and I feel it's going good oh boy oh boy that man better watch out... Because now I begin to act in ways we stereotypically believe only men capable of (yes it's very untrue men are not the only ones who
have wild sexual cravings). Once the man has entered my trust zone and I have deemed him reliable and deserving of my body it's game on.
The sexy clothing come out
The sexy underwear go on
The condoms get bought!
The main thing is some woman are timid and or busy observing and categorizing The Mans worthiness. There's got to be trust he's got to be worth it to give it to.
Now in a committed relationship
I am sex fiend.
I am constantly asking my own man if he thinks I'm over sexual.
I masturbate everyday multiple times
I'd take my man multiple times a day all day long If we could and if he would let me
I give BJ's for the fun of it and sometimes have beg to do it sometimes I don't even want a returned favor I'm just happy if he finishes
I watch porn and read /write dirty books
I'm sexual

[Carmenblondey]

Wow. Big problem. You need to not have her feeling forced. Sex is suppose to be fun and fulfilling. How often do u guys have sex? I'm a 22 year old female. And I love sex. I like sex more then my boyfriend. He works a lot so my sex drive is way more intense and he is 29 so I guess the younger the more sex u want. It's not about female or male and u just have to try to slowly get her hornet. Kiss on her and then touch her while complimenting her. Women love for play

[iloveswingdancing]

you have got to be kidding me. I can't wait to get grinding. it kills me so much!

[ambie347]

My sex drive fluctuates. When I'm not in a relationship it's barely there but when I'm in a relationship or even extremely turned to on by a guy I pretty much want sex every minute of the day

[Asker]

If you don't feel sexual desire when you are not in a relationship then why do you choose to be in a relationship with a guy and why do you choose to have sex?

[ambie347]

Sexual desire is created by sexual tension. I mean when it's a mutual attraction it becomes something you think about.

[Asker]

but when you were single you didn't feel sexual desire, sexual turn on, sexual arousal? When you were single you became asexual? You didn't feel self sexual tension or self sexual desire when you were single? If it's the case what the thing that encourage or give you provocation to have sex with a guy? Actually I get confused. You didn't feel need for release when you were single?

[Crazy_Girl1992]

I mean I can go years without having sex. But I do have a sex drive but usually sex toys do the trick. ;)

[MOO212014]

I feel woman are scared to talk about how much they like sex or whatever the case because half the time people will start calling her a slut a hoe etc just for enjoying sex but when men talk dirty or talk about sex its normal and no-one talks bad so this is why woman feel like they can not be open about it

[devilish-cutie]

thats not true, its more about ehnical matters:
- women are more shamed about sex (thats why some are not open to talk about it or think about it); while men are more encouraged about sey
- we fear pregnancy
- its ew on out period and can hurt
- by society our beauty standards are set high, so we might have not shaved

[parasytekillz]

I think about it all the time. To emphasize, ALL the time: ) I have a very high sex drive and masturbate everyday. I can't sleep without doing so. It isn't a problem for me if a man's drive is uncontrollable. It only gets irritating for me when they just want to satisfy themselves without getting to know me. That's all. It's when I'm having a rough day and hoping they'd be a gentleman and ask what was wrong, instead they'd keep dodging the subject and sending nudes and asking for them. It's not that great when someone texts you without a "Hi" and jumps straight to "Send nudes" and without even knowing my name or even the simple things about me.

[parasytekillz]

Hey and also, I get turned on when I see someone that's caught my eye. No doubting that, I'm not ashamed haha. I don't get why some girls don't really have sex much as me. But no judging. Someone like me, can't live without sex

[honesty321]

It is my opinion man do deny their impotents by having strange behavior. It is written a lot about lately that it is a big mans problem. And it will never be discussed ever. They use pictures of hookers to hide their impotents. Potent man for example do nothing to hide their potent. Man in our world are allready when they are just 20 impotent. It becomes every year worser and worser their problems and still they do not talk about it and prefure to talk about womans problems to hide their own. So it is up to woman not to take that seriously and to personal anymore who feel offended by man. Man really have a big problem in our world of today they prefure not to talk about and have shame for. In other words the more you see about sex commercials the more the man are impotent and have sex issues and problems. The less sex commercials the more man are potent and become more soft again and less agressive towards people and also woman.

[snowgirl123]

I am a man in a girl's body then! =)

[hrlalal]

not everyone is the same, i love love love fucking way more sexual than my boyfriend is. everyone is different

[Vickymoore9]

This is myth girls of the newer generations talk and think about sex a lot more than fake social studies indicate! It’s going to come down to the individual what their independent sex drive is like. I have a very high sex drive my mind twisted a bit when it come to sex I’m more open to things others aren’t. I’ve dated hot guys I was attracted to who had very low sex drive obviously we didn’t connect. I’ve know a lot of my girlfriends who dated guys who as they put it was prudes. Most guys are actually more insecure about sex than girls and uncomfortable. I grew up in a small town me and my girlfriends would go to the lake skinny dipping. We would bring guys with us it was normal either only one or none would join us. While they was all excited about flirting they was very shy sexually. I found girls are less insecure about skinny dipping that I found also guy who wasn’t was more secure sexually and funner. So while you might be going off statistics the facts are very different. If you go to a adult sex shop your going to find 80% of the sex toys or more are for women. They stock only what they are selling so you need to find facts in actuality

[bijbee]

Yes, I do. But man do not. Their penis is always too short.

[bijbee]

Am I allowed pictures here❓

[ciitruskiwi]

Yeah some women have low sex drives but that doesn't mean we aren't interested in or don't enjoy sex. I have a low sex drive but it's not like my vagina is numb. I still very much enjoy sex whenever I have it with my boyfriend. I just don't need it every day but if he did then I'm not saying no because I also enjoy sex.

[ciitruskiwi]

Oh and by the way, not all women only have sex for money. Those would be called prostitutes and not all women are prostitutes. Also the only time we want sex isn't during ovulation. I much prefer to have sex out of the days of ovulation since I don't want kids and don't want to risk it.

[little_bird1]

I have high sex drive, I masturbate couple of times a day and I own a rather big sex toys collection. I like all sorts of porn too.
The problem is chemistry with men. We don't feel it with quite often, our sex drive is picky when it comes to chemistry and physical attraction. I don't speak for every women, only for me and some of my friends. I have a type; my hormones go wild for strong, muscular, dominant men. My first instinct is to be "taken" by a man like that and to submit to him. It's really, really shallow, but I justify it on mother nature and our animal instincts. Just imagine a pack of lions - the alpha lion is the strongest, has most scares and has endured so much just to win. He is feared and respected by other male lions, and highly desired by female lions because he's alpha. The only way to become a new alpha is to beat the current one, so male lions train and hunt and fight each other. The one with most courage will challenge the alpha and sometimes win. Females think "oh he beat the current alpha he is even stronger! come mate with me, I want your cubs!".
I know we are not animals but I think it's still engraved deep into our instincts to be sexually attracted to alphas. In this time and age human male alpha would be fit/muscular, healthy, good looking, confident, rich, popular social status, admired by other men and wanted by women. And such traits can be shown without an ounce of personality, he would just need to show up and exist. I can't help but feeling aroused by his presence, without even talking to him or knowing anything else about him. He needs to have something that I admire him for/envy and my instinct is to be the one he shares it with and to be known to others herds that I am his alpha female, that he chose me. And if he's willing to challenge the odds and risk losing his precious title (by fighting to win me over) it's pretty much a done deal. I'm guilty as charged there.
But, as I said, we're not animals, we look into personality as well, which gives the final call. Now alpha means nothing if he has a crappy personality. We can still be attracted to him but it's a real turn off when alpha disappoints you on personality test. Some women give in too fast to alpha without testing his personality, but sooner or later they end up disappointed. They still might enjoy sex and all the things his title is giving them, but we can't maintain happiness only on that, since we're humans.
We evolved so that we would put personality before alpha title (at least we're trying) because we know that true alpha of modern age is actually a man with great personality who loves us and treats us good. So by prioritizing personality over sexual attraction, we are giving up the chemistry. It's the price we pay to feel loved. We drastically lower our sex drives to keep good men with us, because if our sex drive was making the decision we would be with a bad boy who's good for nothing but sex. That's why women seem like they are not interested in sex; they ARE, but not in the way you want them to be with you.

[May_Rankin16]

I would say because of the pressure put on women to be modest they hide/lie about it. I have sex on my mind quite often! I would love to try it, and it sounds pretty great! I would honestly say women have a HIGHER sex drive than men, but are low key about it!! Lmfao!!!

[NihilisticGem]

Girls defiantly have a sex drive. I could honestly go for days. The fact is that girls dont like to show that side of them. We think about it quite often

[Lucy1712]

My boyfriend thought he is the God of sex... Until he discovered how horny I am. In my opinion girls can have sex much longer and often than boys and a lot of them love to talk about sex. That topic just turns them on.

[tbaby8533]

Honestly I don't think that's true I myself have a very high sex drive as well as quite a few of my girlfriends, my problem with this is that men say we don't want to have sex with them after only 3 days and think that we have no sex drive we do we're probably having sex dreams about you every night after the date but how is the girl to know that a guy wants more than sex if she puts out that soon

[lolily]

It's not true. I love having sex. I can not live without sex, because this activity gives new sensations. I love to try sex positions and I like to use sex toys for couples
Sex toys give a new feeling. Do you use sex toys? I've never done this before. I was young. I realize it's my fault because sex toys are a good defense against unwanted sexual intercourse. Do you agree with me?

[Ewgies01]

Some girls might need a little more buttering up, but they like sex just as much as guys. Take the time to pleasure her first. You’ll both enjoy it more.

[Douma]

Girls have more interests in sex then man in reality. So how to you come to that prejudice that man have more interest then woman in sex?

[Arctic_Fox]

My sex drive is high when I’m dating someone, when I’m single it’s low. Girls are usually attracted to a guy when we’ve met them, not before. We’re also better at hiding it.

[LucyBrown97]

If I were to talk me. You don't just say. I want sex. That's just gonna throw me to the opposite direction of it. You would wana slowly lead me into it. You know. Get me turned on. Not just head straight to the privates. If I want to have sex. I'll take my clothes off by my self. If not. Keep trying. Girls are gentle people. You can't just go head on. And you can't force them to do anything unless they want to.

[Spanishbeatz]

Yes girls have sex drives!! We’re just like guys! I remember when I started going through puberty I would masturbate like 2-3 times a day! I did it pretty much anytime I had the chance! Now that I’m older I don’t do it as much cuz I’m always busy and then too tired to do it but I get so sexually frustrated that I’ll have sleep orgasm! I rarely got them when I was younger but now that I’m older I get them maybe twice a month. I also constantly think of sex 24/7 I literally can not think of a time where I’m not think of sex. Like if I see a person I’ll wonder what kind of sex they like or how they look when they have sex. As you can see girls like sex too!!

[Beidy_747]

Same here tbh

[hereIgo]

Trust me, all of that is bs.

[over_it]

OH TRUST ME girls have a VERY high sex drive, just a lot of times girls are more choosy and specific with when they choose to have sex and who with. It is seen as guys having a "higher" sex drive becuase of the way some men act when it somes to sex but trust women are horny as shit.

[Plufem]

It's an overrated question, we do have our moments!

[Wettt]

I have a very high sex drive