The impression I get is that many guys (of course not all, but what appears to be a fair amount) complain about being single or not getting sex, but at the same time aren't willing to really put themselves out there and try hard to find someone. It seems like some guys find it unfair that they have to work to get girls, but the fact is, nobody gets what they want without trying. Girls have to work to get guys as well, even if they aren't expected to take the formal initiative, and that's something a lot of people don't acknowledge. Anyone who wants to date or have sex has to make an effort. Long story short, yes, I think if guys who are forward about what they want probably have better luck.
However, obviously not every girl is interested in casual sex. So if that's what you want, part of the equation IS to find and ask the right girls. But that is something that will always be a factor, and it's just another reason why it's important to get out there and try a lot of people. Nobody can avoid that problem.0 0 0 1your preaching to the choir but I'm speaking about just casual sex.
It's not so different, plus, I actually did discuss it if you read my entire answer.
Yeah, most of my guy friends who are manwhores are pretty average looking. I have some uber nerdy friends, and apparently there is manwhoring amongst them , too. They might be plowing nerdy girls, but they're getting theirs.
Guys who are good with women talk to girls like real people, not bouncing back and forth between acting like their trash or goddesses. I don't think it even has to take manipulation... Fun and playfulness goes a lot farther than being whiny or pushy or aggressive.0 1 0 0
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Feminism has ensured that asking for sex is the best way to lose your career, job, education, self-esteem, public image, money and manhood. With the intensified emphasis on sexual harassment and women's rights, asking women for it, even women you've known well, is just a bad idea. In addition, women just don't date/screw/marry just anyone. Guess what? 90% of all the men in the world are Mr Just Anyone. Which means there is far more to it than just having the personality and confidence to ask a woman for it. Otherwise more men of all types would be getting it.
Reality being what it is...0 2 1 1That was the same (maybe even worse) before feminism.
this very true and its why I'm slightly hesitant to be really forward with a women. especially about sex. its like playing russian roulette. the consequences of making a wrong guess can be disastrous.
You're correct sir.
You miss 100% of the shots you don't take - and when it comes to women, if you don't ask, you don't get.
I ask, so I get. (Sometimes.)
The fact that I ask a lot, only means that I've managed to hone my approach over the years to a more successful than average one.0 0 0 0
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1 2i think it only make sense that if you asked more women to have sex with them you'd have more sex just based on the odds that at least one say yes every now and then . however nothing is guaranteed and its easier to get rejected than get laid
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