Sarcastic, obnoxious behavior to me expresses frustration from some sort of failure. Undoubtedly he wants to advance with you sexually. Perhaps he had failed to move on you because he is too shy(!) to do so or you have either declined him or made yourself unapproachable by your manner. If this interplay is the general character of your relationship, you do not have a healthy one and "opening up" for him is not going to fix it.
In this condition, I would suggest walking away, but if more of your time your relationship is fun and harmonious, I would stop following him into sniping sessions. There is no need to win them and you don't lose if you don't fight. The next time you are making out and there was no sniping session, it might be time to go to second base. Giving him a hand with obtaining a DNA sample on a handy towel might change the climate of your relationship in a positive way.1 0 0 0most of the time it's pretty happy. He does tease me and I try to beat him to it. Some nights he's super happy to talk, others, not so much. If you see from my other posts...he mumbles things to me too but will never repeat them. It drives me nuts.
I guess it could be sexual tension. When I think of sexual tension, I think of the feeling of "I want to f*** you, but we can't right now"...like that. Or it could be a strong attraction to someone because of what they're doing or how they act, but this could lead back to the previous point of wanting to do something to them but you can't.
But the playful fighting or "arrogance" might be getting your feelings excited, so it could be sexual tension.0 0 0 0
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You both sound like two sexless teenagers aching to strip off their clothes and penetrate every orifice in every way imaginable.
Just shag already.0 0 0 0That's the frustrating part. We're both stupid ridiculous adults. :(
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So I wasn't stupid to think that this is what it seems to be. He REALLY wanted to get under my skin! Ugh! And he liked it?! WTF?!
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1 2you just had a fight!...where was sex in it to create sexual tension?
0 0 0 0I have no idea what you are talking about! What sexual tension if there is no sex? Have sex with the guy before he leaves you or you kill each other! If neither of you ever had sex before yes what you are experiencing is the childish teasing of teenagers not knowing what makes them so restles. A couple good orgasms would cure the problem.
0 0 0 0Yes. It leads to hot angry sex. Just bone.
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