The fact of the matter is the biggest sex organ you have isn't between your legs but rather quite a bit higher. If I'm kissing a girl and she is getting wet I find this flattering as well as exciting as it indicates that she is comfortable with me, likes what I'm doing and is anticipating more, so in this sense I find it very erotic as well as flattering, the wetter she is the more excited I get, as I am a big giver in the intimate department, in that the more pleasure I give her the better I feel.
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If you get excited pretty easily, that's a big plus, not a minus. I don't think that a single male in this website would think that it is bad to get excited from small things. I mean it. You're pretty lucky. Some females have problems even in getting excited.
Awesome to hear thanks! :)
When my boyfriend and I first started going out I used to get wet from just being around him- no kissing necessary. I told him a couple of weeks ago and he got hard nearly instantly, it was that big a compliment
Wow really? ha the same thing happens with me. he just gets me so turned on without hardly even trying!! i should let him know that too :)
D*MN really?!?!?!?!?!?!?
Yeah really- I was quite surprised because he's been my first for everything (except kissing) so I was expecting it to be more difficult to get going. Apparently 19 years of Virginity was enough lol. That being said the first time he fingered me I was so nervous he was just like 'umm babe, you're not wet' lol I was mortified- couldn't believe after months of be just being soaking from seeing him, holding his hand it was like the sahara down there!
Not at all as it is very normal to get sexually excited from kissing someone you very much care about sexually.
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Girls: getting him hard from just kissing?
It's not really a big deal, right? Arousal is the goal of that activity after all.
I know, I was jw because I hear a lot about how guys don't want to lose it too fast with someone because then they think that the other person will think theyre just inexperienced. so I wondered if it was the same way around, you know?
No, it's not weird; it's normal. No, it doesn't mean she's inexperienced. Going from making out with clothes on, her pants don't come off until I feel "a fever" between her legs. I wouldn't say it makes me happy; I use it as more of an indication of when to proceed.
The only time I use my fingers is to lightly touch and tease. It's not that her vagina is too dirty to put my fingers; my face will probably be down there at some point.
Fingering, is it really necessary? Inexperience and immaturity shows every time... Time to read a book.
Since when does fingering your girl show inexperience and immaturity? unless you're talking about my question. which in that case, you may as well call every other person on this site immature for asking questions and genuinely wanting to understand more.
Hey, if that what's working for you then I'm happy, but 9 out of 10 women don't really want that to happen unless it's in an intimate format that leads to sexual intercourse therafter. Asking questions is the whole point, but as I said get a book and read, beit human biology or understanding sex and what happens...
Thts not immaturity? it was just a simple question?
That's to be expected, isn't it? -- just like guys will get hard and turned on just by kissing. Haven't you known guys who get so turned on that they even develop a wet spot?
It is a good thing, in that it shows your excitement, arousal, and anticipation.
Yeah I know, thanks
Some girls are like that. I've known girls who didn't need sex if you kissed them right.
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