Guys, what are your views on boob jobs?

[Anonymous]

For the guys out there: I am very flat chested. I'm a 32A and all the women in my family have really small boobs, too. Even after having kids, my mom is still an A cup. I hate being so flat and knowing that I'm going to stay this way forever. Most time I can't even fit bras in Victoria's Secret, and it's awful. It makes me feel like I fail at being a girl. So what is your opinion on boob jobs? My mom is willing to let me get a boob job for my birthday. I am thin and would stay on the small side (32B is my ideal size; would be perfect for my frame, and look most natural). Would you think less of a girl for getting a boob job? Do you think I would be sexier if I get a boob job?

[peace-love-couture]

Beware,you're gonna get a few people who are going to tell you to not get a boob job because "any guy who's worth your time/loves you will accept you the way you are" or "i'm sure you're perfect the way you are" or whatever.

My opinion.If you're under 18,i say at least wait until you're 19/20.Reason being,women normally don't stop growin until early 20's and surgery is a big deal,not something to gamble on.

Would a guy think less of you?Some will,some won't.You wouldn't want to be with a guy who thinks less of you anyways right?

Another question I have to ask,are you doing this so you'll be "attractive" or "sexy" to guys,or are you doing this because you're truly insecure about it?

I'm not judging you cause I wanna have something done too,when I'm 18(not implants though)

[audreymarie21]

plastic surgery rarely improves your confidence, people usually just move onto the next thing they feel they need fixed and dwell on that. I have the same size boobs as you and I'm 23, I always get complimented on them. girls are jealous cause I can go out without a bra, and guys think I'm beautiful and my small boobs fit my body as far as proportions go... I used to be kinda self conscious about it, but I got over it, I'm very comfortable in my own skin =)

all I'm saying, is think about it long and hard before getting it done, you can't buy confidence.

[MrWizard]

First off, I'd typically say if a gal was confident in herself and it didn't bother her, she shouldn't worry about it. BUT, if this is something that really bothered her personally and she wanted to do this, I'd be willing to support her. I'd NEVER suggest or push someone into this though.

That said, some people push the line and look very unnatural. Go with something appropriate for your body. Here are some real world before & after shots (NSFW) that clearly show people in your 32A situation link

[jacquesvol]

MrWizard, Ilooked at the pics on that site an IMHO only one or maximum two of the women really benefited from it.

[MrWizard]

I'd agree plenty of these ladies were just fine before too, but I think the desire to go from 32A to 32B would probably be consistent with the one or two you thought benefited. Thoughts?

[jacquesvol]

Sexier if you get a boob job? To certain men maybe, but would that big-boob-hungry bunch be the kind of guys you appreciate?

1. When I like a girl, it's the girl I like, not the boob job.

2. I absolutely prefer it natural.

3. Thinking less about a girl with a boob job?

I would know for sure she's a girl thinking more about the superficial things like looks. Not my kind but if she had deep complexes about her cup size before I would understand and respect her feelings.

[dan_i_am]

The REAL answer is that all women's boobs are beautiful!

However, men are more visual than women, so if a woman with larger boobs enters the room, all men will look. So, with a boob job, you will get more attention.

No, I absolutely would NOT think less of a girl. I appreciate girls who care about how they look.

One thing to check in to: most women that I know who had boob jobs say they wish they had gone up a cup size or so. Hope that helps! Dan

[l3arefoot]

I don't mind them. I've dated girls that have had them, if you want it why not :)

[RahulTandon]

Search for the pepper bra. Its a new bra for all sizes with small cups.
I wouldn't mind a flat chest girl with a very good attitude. But if you feel less confident and its important for you then go for it. I don't think anyone would think less of a girl for getting a boob job. You don't necessarily have to publicize the fact that you are getting a boob job in your neighborhood. Take a week or 2 off after getting it done and then appear before everyone and live a normal life.

[here4you]

natural all the way

the only way I see of a reason of getting a boob job done is if one breast is MUCH larger then the other

but I wouldn't really think less of her if she got a boob job done

i would wonder why she would want to tho in the first place

[col92]

Fake boobs are a turn off for me

[DPrice]

If you want one, get one. Love a boob job, boobs look fuller rounder and sexier.

[bFusion]

Personally, I generally don't like boob jobs, but it really depends on how and why it's done. In your situation, you're not trying to get gigantic breasts, just trying to add a bit more curves. I feel that it would be okay for you, if nothing else to simply improve your own self-confidence about yourself.