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How can I find a guy who PREFERS small breasts?
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I've never met a guy who prefers small breasts to big ones. All of them just settle. To them small breasts are OK or acceptable, but they all think bigger is more of a turn on and I'm sick of it. My last boyfriend was one fan of bigger, and the only reason he paid attention to my breasts in bed, was because he knew I liked it and could even orgasm by that. Once I had my orgasm, poof! It's like my breasts disappeared! But when a girl with big breasts walked by us, he couldn't get his eyes off! He also always watched big tit p*rn and all... so yeah, he was a lover of big. Incidentally, I also believe personally that my breasts are one of my nicest assets. My butt is big but I don't like it, I think my boobs look better even though they're small. But I've always felt they're under appreciated. I'm TIRED of that! So how can I find a guy who won't think small breasts are acceptable, but who will think they're actually better than big ones? I'm sick of guys not paying attention to one of my best looking body parts, only to find them ogling a girl who has more up top. Should I ask that in the first date or what? I mean, I've met guys to whom my small breasts have been very obvious, I haven't deceived them making them think they were bigger, yet I still found myself in that same old situation (no attention paid to them, looking at other girls' big boobs!). They say looking is harmless but it sure has taken a dent on my confidence!
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Why do guys always end up trolling these questions with penis size issues? If you feel that bad about penis size, then ask your own question. You can't see the penis through clothes, it's not the same as breast size! You don't see penis shots everywhere..
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Like you see big boobs everywhere in the media. And most girls I know don't give a damn about penis size. Don't demonize me because of your insecurities about penis size, I'm only talking about my real experience with guys and breast preferences.
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29 95Count me as one of those that prefer small boobs. And consider yourself lucky to have small boobs. Big boobs are gonna sag-no doubt or question about it. Take a look at your friends who have big knockers, and picture them 15 years hence. Sag city. Then look at your boobs and consider them 15 years hence and you will still have nice perky boobs. Lucky you! I personally don't even look at the big boobed girls. But show me one with A or B cup size boobs and...well...yum yum. Big boobs are a waste give me a girl with little boobs that I can touch and lick her nipples to hardness and I am in heaven. Please don't feel under-appreciated and if I were on a date with you you would never see me look at anybody with bigger boobs. There are many many guys that feel the same as I do, do take heart-eventually you will not meet just one but a lot of guys that favor the smaller boob size.
INTRODUCING ME! ha ha real men like all breasts. no matter what size. Just don't do surgery, because they feel fake that way. Go all natural
Keep your real ones. Some guys can appreciate smaller boobs. They are generally more sensitive too.
Small is beautiful.
Once you orgasm he might think you are done...he was doing it to please you.. that is a good thing. Once finished some people roll over and don't do much after .
Some of us like small breasts... a handfull is perfect to me... as long as they fit in my mouth... and hands I am good to go.
I think many women with small breasts are beautiful. Especially when they are proportionate to the rest of their body. Think Jennifer Anniston. Small breasts to go with her small waist , hips and butt. J lo has small breasts and looks good too.
Be happy with what you got. Some guys would look no matter what you have.NOT ALL of us are like that. Some just look, some look because they are players or wanna be.
Bigger aren't always better... my ex paid 4000 to go to a 34C... not too big, but a waste in my opinion. She never talked about it to me, just had a friend call me one day to pick her up at doc office. They are hard, not as comfortable to lay on and cuddle up. I prefer natural even if they are small. Her A cup was just fine with me. It is the person you love. The one inside that matters.
I know lots of guys who prefer small boobs. One of them said I remind him of pre-pubescent girls, so I'm not sure if he likes me for the right reasons!
When ever I go out on a first date, I make sure my small boobs are showing (by wearing low cleavage, semi-seethrough, or a figure-hugging swimsuit, etc. I don't need a bra, so that helps too.
Then if I get a second date, I know he likes me.
There's a lot of us who prefer smaller breasts... I hope you found someone by now!
I much prefer smaller or medium size breasts... certainly not the overly large breasts in the media. Perhaps it really is a more common "interest", but just because it is in the media certainly doesn't mean that all guys are like that!
Don't wear a padded bra, or at least not overly padded, because that's just catering to those who prefer a large bosom.
And don't worry about a guy looking, even if he is with you. I mean, just because people look at things doesn't mean we want to be with it.. .kind of like looking at a car accident!
Im really big busted and I met a guy who doesn't think big breasts are as attractive as small ones so those types of guys do exist. He's just a friend so it doesn't matter much
i think it depends on how small we are talking...i mean I don't think any guy is LOOKING for AA's, but there are plenty of guys who love B cups and whatnot. personally I'm like a 34C kinda guy haha
it is hard because guys will tell you anything you want to get what they want or may they actually do think they like them small. Dating sites might be your best bet, men on these sites may stretch the truth but they will be more honest about their likes and dislikes when it comes to a woman's body.
Since your question was "how can I find a guy who prefers small breasts?" and not "Who here prefers small breasts?", I'm not sure if anyone has actually tried to answer your question.
There is no specific way I can think of. It's not as though the lovers of small breasts gather in groups or have similar passtimes or interests. So there's nowhere you can "go" to find them.
In addition, you're automatically fighting two things: 1) Evolution. Men are genetically programmed to be attracted to breasts, and the majority are attracted to the larger size. 2) Men love variety. That means that even in a loving stable relationship, his eyes may wander. And when they do, they are more inclined to look at things he doesn't see every day. In your case, that means bigger breasts.
Still, take heart from the fact that several posters have indicated that they do prefer smaller breasts. (I'm in that category myself, as it happens, but only because I'm attracted to short girls and the two tend to go hand in hand).
Hi! Nice to meet You :D
That might be something to find out before you go on that first date. Before I met my wife face to face, we talked a lot on the phone as well as online. One of my questions to her was how big her chest was. She told me they weren't big, which attracted me even more. I don't care for a big chest. The fact that you can orgasm by having your breasts stimulated is somewhat rare. I've only met 2 girls in my lifetime that could enjoy that. That's a plus in my book. Just keep looking. There are more of us out there.
Small is so much better to me! like a B is perfect! I'm not sure why but they look more perky and sexier!
im sure urs look great if you say you do...i don't like huge t*ts...any thing from a-c is what I like...not a preference...i just want to get most of it in my hand if I can make the girl horny than it won't matter...sure DD's are eye catching but that can be too much tit...i actualy perfer smaler...hit me up and we can talk it over
You find a guy that's truly into you as a person. Because it shouldn't matter to him (it's the equivalent to penis size for you women). I know I ultimately don't care. You are who you are and I like them regardless because I like you!
Go to the website imagefap and then click members and then type small boobs in the interest section and you will see guys who like small boobs. And then type small breasts and you will see other guys that like them. I don't know if they actually prefer small breasts over the big ones but you could ask them.
I personally get turned on more by bigger breasts but when it comes to having a relationship I don't have a preference as to what size they should be.
But that's the thing. I want who gets more turned on by small breasts, not someone who gets more turned on by bigger one but doesn't mind small ones.
I understand. But that sounds unrealistic. Have you tried increasing your boobs naturally? If not then you should try what this website says link
Why unrealistic? Are small breasts SO BAD that it'd be impossible for at least ONE guy to find them better and more of a turn on thant big breasts? I don't think so! Not everything is so black and white... And natural breast enhancement is a scam, it can work but temporarily, have little or no effects, and even be dangerous. If it worked then breast implants wouldn't exist. I guess all these people are right and small breasts are bad after all :/ I'm screwed. Implants it is then.
I think you should try getting a guy that's bi. I remember seeing an episode of 1000 ways to die where there was a gay guy that dated a woman because she had the chest of a boy. So I guess that's your best bet of finding a guy that would be turned on by small boobs just as much or more than the big ones. Buying breast enhancement pills would be a scam. But you could try eating soy beans and drinking soy milk and beer. It probably only works on a small percentage of women.
If you have an above average looking body with a great personality there is no need for implants.
So if I had big breasts I could have a crappy body, a crappy face and a crappy personality but I'd still be attractive? Ugh... and only gay men would be interested in my chest? You sound ignorant.
"So if I had big breasts I could have a crappy body, a crappy face and a crappy personality but I'd still be attractive?" WTF? No. I'm saying that if you're average looking you're going to have a hard time getting a guy you like since most guys in your age group are shallow. So if you're average looking and got implants maybe that would make you look above average. And I didn't say only gay men would be interested in your chest. I said go for a guy that's bi. I mentioned the gay guy as an example
But why only a bi guy? Why not a straight guy? Is it so hard to believe that a guy who is exclusively into girls might actually prefer small breasts? FYI I'm not flat, my breasts are small, but NOT flat!
There are guys that prefer smaller boobs according to these link link But as far as getting more turned on by small breasts I find it hard to believe there's a guy like that. Just because they prefer the small ones doesn't mean they get more turned on by them than the big ones.
Like for example I prefer cute women over the hot ones for a relationship but I get more turned on by hot women.
But why do you think it's so impossible for a guy to be more turned on by small breasts? Just 'cause YOU get more turned on by big breasts doesn't mean that all guys are alike. Plus that whole cute girl for a relationship, hot girl for sex thing sounds more like a Madonna/whore complex...
It just seems so hard to believe. The big boobs seem to always make a guy's penis bigger hence the reason why there's so many women that get breast implants and they show them off in public. This website gives some good reasons as to why link . You're right about the madonna/whore complex. But it only explains why a guy would choose a certain woman over the other for a relationship. It doesn't say if a guy is turned on more by a hot or cute woman.
And you cite a breast enlargement pills site as a reliable source of information? I'm done with this. There's nothing left to it. You have your opinion and I have mine, no one will change their opinion, and that's OK. C'est la vie.
I didn't even notice that it offered breast enlargement pills. I just googled why bigger breasts are more attractive. That page came up.
Hi, I am a guy from the UK London and I love small breasts. I am not going to lie, honestly I adore them. Much prefer smaller than bigger.