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How can I find someone who is NOT a "boob guy"?
Anonymous
It seems all my male friends are boob guys... judging from p*rn and the media, it just seems that all guys are boob guys. My ex was a boob guy. The problem? I have small t*ts. Small as in, just a handful. Not completely flat, but definitely no head turner, and I have to wear a very good push up to have cleavage. My friends who have big boobs get a ton more attention, even though they're overweight and I'm not. I have a big butt, which some uys have shown interest in, but let's face it, there are lucky girls who have big boobs and a big butt. My ex left me traumatized. We started going out and he was all chivalrous and charming and I fell for him. So when he started making comments about other women's big boobs and my own lack of size, it was too late, also he used the old, tired line of "I love you for other reasons, boob size doesn't matter, I prefer big, so what? get over it". Yeah, yeah, how would he have felt if I'd told him "Hey, I prefer someone taller, but I love you for other reasons" or "Hm, I'd prefer it if you were 3 inches longer, but get over it, I love you for other reasons!". In the end, it just made me feel self conscious. I don't get why he told me those things, why he had to talk about other women's breasts, knowing mine are small. But what I just don't get is if he was such an obvious boob guy, why waste his time and mine by being with me if he obviously wanted someone with bigger breasts? I don't wear padded or push up bras often, so it should have been evident that I wasn't "well endowed" from the beginning. I mean, I get some guys like big boobs but aren't too bothered and are just as attracted to small boobs. But he expressed dissatisfaction with mine, so what was the point of dating me? With the huge amount of boob guys out there I'm afraid that I'll go over and over this again... so how can I find a guy who is not a boob guy without needing to take a survey? I found out I don't like being with guys who settle for my body, or who think I have "shortcomings", since I don't go out with guys I'm not attracted to physically (not that I have high standards, as I'm really flexible when it comes to physical attraction).
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What Girls & Guys Said
5 43To be honest I like your size and attractive to me, as long as your personality and intelligent as well as smartness and loyalty are far more important than big boobs.
If you wear revealing outfits in public find for me.
I have NEVER been a " boob " guy , seems more a US thing than European. My preference was legs and curvy hips.
Im not a boob guy.
Find a gay dude.
Basically, you got unlucky with that guy, he sounds like an idiot!
I totally agree with your view on 'false advertising' and all the small boob fans out there will be greatful too. Here's a great example of looking HOT simply by showing off her small assets: link
Also, for all that guys SAY they like big t*ts, they ALL check out my girlfriend when she's on the dancefloor and she's got tiny boobs, admittedly with a tight skinny body too
Just bin the push ups, wear nice clothes that show off your hot little body and you'll hav genuinely interested guys in no time! :-)
Find a guy who is attracted to you personality or intelligence. Even if they have a preference on physical appearance, if they truly cared, your personality would trump all that.
I am not a boob guy per say.. I like boobs, I like smaller breasts, but any will do, who I like is not a breast, but a breast owner..
Go to a gay bar and look for a bi sexual guy.
What size are your boobs? Men will target what you hate about yourself too
Don't look to me, I love boobies!
My girlfriend has about the same sized boobs and I loved them. She also has a big booty ❤️
Anything over a handful is a waste!
I'm more like an ass guy ;)
I like boobs of any size,the smaller ones are more cutter and hotter than the bigger ones and I like a combination of boobs and butt.By what you described yourself you are a very hot girl and he is an jerk for letting you go,i would not be so stupid.
Not all of us are boob guys
He better start giving an amazing blowjob
All guys love boobs. Some are rude wit no boobs girls. All guys avoid no boobs girls
This is an old post but maybe you'd still like comments? lol Let me put it this way, if this was reversed and a guy had a problem with his body that you loved, what would be your advice to him? Personally I'm a "boob guy", and I love them all, doesn't matter the size because it's about who they're attached to, not the size (same as most women feel about penises). Having said that, there are some guys that aren't that into breast, but I think you need to work on those personal insecurities and re-learn to "love" your body. Maybe counselling (or nudist resort, seriously, that's why they are all about). That's horrible your ex did that to you, but that's him and he was trying to control you using your insecurities. Forget the comments and him. It's not how guys feel about you.
If you have a pretty face and a nice ass any guy will be down. We might talk more about how nice big boobs look but a thick ass is just as good. I hooked up with a chick who had a pretty face, a fun personality and probably 32B's. I knew she didn't have amazing t*ts but I that didn't matter. I was still wildly attracted to her and once I saw her with pants off I realized just how amazing her ass was. It was probably one of the best asses I've ever seen and felt and I'll never regret hooking up with the small breasted woman rocking the amazing ass.
You just need to throw your personality out there more. Be fun and flirty without looking like you're throwing yourself at men and almost any guy will be attracted to you regardless of your chest size.
But I don't want guys to be attracted to me "regardless" of my chest size, I love having my t*ts played with, so I want them to DIG my breasts, to be attracted partly because of them... I want them to think they're AMAZING because of their size, not that they overlook them completely in favor of my ass or whatever else...
I'm one of those guys that prefers small boobs. We are out there. We do exist.
But we don't generally advertise the fact, or carry signs.
I think its half and half. Personally I notice a girls lips and eyes first, hips and then ass lol. I'm a big guy so I like the shorter thin girls, feels good to feel like you are totally dominating a girl when you fill her up heh