I don't like giving blow jobs?

I think it's unfair that most guys expect blow jobs in a relationship, I don't expect anyone to give me oral sex, no one ever has given me it! But they have always expected me to give them a blow job. I hate it. Seriously guys go suck on a penis and tell me how you liked it! I bet you wouldn't enjoy it. Your jaws and neck ache after about 30 seconds, You Gag, All you can smell are sweaty balls and ass, feel cold hairy/spiky balls against your face, Semen tastes like crap, smells sweaty, salty, and disgusting. It is the consistently of runny snot. It's disgusting, uncomfortable and I hate it. But most guys will dump you if you don't do it. Besides it's bad for your health I don't want a STI in my mouth! oral sex is the main cause of oral cancer. Maybe I'll do it if the guy wore a flavoured condom... But no that's not good enough for them doesn't "feel as good". Selfish assholes.
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why are people still answering this? it's over 2 months old. No one's going to change my mind on blow jobs, ever. It was just a rant because I hate how guys are such animals about sex, it is disgusting.
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  • wow I don't expect my wife to give me a blow job even thow I lick her p**** an ass I do it cause I like it she would if I asked her but I'm not going to cause I know if she wanted to she would anyways all girls are just like you your with a guy then you complain your the one that decided to be with that type of guy next time get to know the guy better I don't get it girls allways complain about the type of guy they choose to be with when its there fault there with them if you don't like it quit going with them type of guys simple. good luck

  • I hate getting oral, but I let girls suck me off if they enjoy it. I do enjoy sucking d*** - a lot. If you were my girlfriend and you told me you'd never consider giving me oral, I'd be annoyed with you and probably see you differently, despite the fact that I could enjoy nothing less.

    Although, on reflection, the girl I loved told me she wouldn't give me one 'cos the thought of them made her sick. But, she was different. She was a different sort of girl. And I won't get into why it was acceptable for her and not for you.

    • why would you be annoyed if you hate it anyway? I wouldn't care if I never got oral sex, I've never had it anyway. But I wish I didn't have to give it too.

    • Because its like, the thought that counts. You know, a willingness to do something, even just occasionally. I don't know though, I can't really articulate why it would bother me. I wouldn't want you to do something you didn't want to, but the overzealous unwillingness to it would bother me.

    • This answer pleases and saddens me at the same time.

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  • Ive never given or recieved oral but I'm going to give it the last thing I want to do is recieve though. My recipient is going to wear a flavored condom though

  • its interesting how most guys love giving a girl oral sex mostly because they like to see her enjoying herself, pleasure etc etc. but girls (such as yourself) don't care to see their guy satisfied. now THATS selfish.

    if you don't like giving blowjobs don't be such a B about it. or tell your guy to scrub scrub scrub

    • I have NEVER met a guy who gives oral sex. So yes they are selfish, they expect me to do something so disgusting that I hate and all I get is "thanks" it's not that I want them to give me oral (I actually don't I would rather just have normal sex) but I wish guys didn't expect it in a relationship, because I hate it.

    • I think I hate you, QA. way to sh*t all over the opposite gender and the majority of sexually active women. Some guys are d*** but goddamn woman! why do you have to be so judgmental!

  • Actually its healthy for you to swallow sperm, lots of proteins in there.

    I think your problem is that you've never got good head yourself. Your dating selfish assholes who only think for themselves getting off and don't focus on you and your orgasms at all.

    If you came over and over again from a guy giving you head, you would be turned on by the idea of giving him head and making him come instead of viewing it as a chore. You would be turned on by the fact that your turning him on.

    • Oh really its Heathly ? Why won't you suck on one then ? HUH ? Like really , you gotta be kidding me ! If you think there so many proteins, I give you some soup with sperms just for you, wouldn't you like that ?

    • If you don't like sucking the guys d*** who is willing to eat you out and make you nut, then your self centered trash. Your number will be discarded like all other booty call numbers are.

    • There is protein... can verify this. As I am still, perfectly healthy after only eating rice for two months due to tight funds thanks to my boyfriend. ;)

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  • I have converted many women just like you...

    • ;)

  • LOL I love this post ! I've never done it before but I never want too ! If he really l <3 oves you he wouldn't dump yu and if he does cutt off his balls in the night :)

    • Love that answer :) it really is disgusting! At least, cutting off would get rid of the semen, so its 50% less disgusting ;)

  • then you have been with the wrong guys because I don't like getting head...but I will suck a girls clit and twirl my tongue around the clit hood til she cums and then suck on her taint...there is nothing more satisfying then watching your partner moan and feel the ectasy of orgasm...makes me wish I had a girl right now...not all guys should feel like you owe it to them you are right, but if one feels like you need to sit on his face and see what he says to that

  • I'm sorry but mine don't smell like sweaty balls and ass, the only time I've ever had a girl go down on me when I'm sweaty is if I got sweaty from screwing her. And if I want a girl to give me oral I eat in a way that makes my seamen taste better. I'm a pretty healthy eater anyway so it doesn't bother me. And I keep my self very well maintained so there are no hairy/spikey things to worry about.

    I think that you just got with a crappy lover girl. Lol

    • How do you know this? Have you ever given yourself head? I doubt it. It's not just the smell and taste either I don't like putting a penis in my mouth, that's not what my mouth is made for. It's not comfortable, hurts my jaw and lips and makes me gag. Don't say it isn't that bad if you've never done it.

    • No mam, (haha that would be a bit weird ) but I am very conscious of the person that I'm with on the most part. And I shower twice a day (once at night and once in the morning. Sometimes three if it's a day when I work out.) so I know that I don't stink. Also I've had girls give me head then get a look of surprise and say wow that didn't taste bad at all. So I know that part is not an issue. I can see how it would hurt your jaw and lips though. If you ever do try it again you could try tonguing

    • instead of sucking or putting the whole d*** in your mouth. Lol but hey if you don't like it then don't do it. To each his/her own right? I'm just saying that not all guys have the issues you described.

  • well you don't have to its up to you and if your boyfriend doesn't like it then tell him to f*** off. you shouldn't have to be forced to do these kinds of things.

  • im a gay guy an all I can tell you is some girls don't like giving head an some do...but as for me I love it I give my husband oral sex everyday an swallowing isn't that bad either

  • lol, yeah, I don't know I prefer regular and wouldn't ecpect anything from a girl that I wouldn't do myself ie eat out, besides I like to eat out so yeah, as to suck on a penis? sorry I will not oblige

    • Wow your aggresive...bet you never had a relationship based on love..try 1...hope that will help

    • ... how is that aggressive? I just said id rather have her pleased or at least pleased equally.

  • Bulls~@* smoking is the main cause of oral cancer

    • Actually smoking has less risk of oral cancer. Its smokeless tobaco that has a high risk of oral cancer.

    • True I should have said chewing

  • lol yes some guys do smell like pure ass and sweat! my ex was so musty! I understand girl I don't really enjoy it either

  • why do your jaw hurt? isn't it like sucking on a popsicle?

    • No! you try doing it, it's disgusting. It hurts your jaw because it's not natural to hold it open like that. At least a popsicle tastes good.

    • I can't reach my genitals unfortunately...I didn't know they had a taste...unless the guy don't shower

    • its not like sucking on a popsicle. popsicles don't make you deep-throat!

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  • most guys like it. If you had a penis , trust me you would like it too. Maybe you need some attention in your little spot to see how nice it is.

    • No I wouldn't like it if I was a guy. I would feel bad making a girl do something so disgusting that she probably dreads doing.

  • ive never given a bj but this pretty much sums up how gross I thought it would be.

    • Its because you haven't done it hun. I was scared when I first gave my boyfriend one many years ago. I love it now. Its a part of sexuality and something you can do with your boyfriend. Sex would get boring without lots of different things to do. I love giving head.

  • well that's why you don't go down on hobos

  • U were one of the first Questions I answered when I joined GAG..well I guess you could call me an animal...I love to rub my face in female's organ...and 2 months later..I still don't like bjs...I would love to lick you until you screamed...but don't think we'll ever meet probably...I hope you find the man of your dreams...and that he is like me...no bjs but Give Females Oral Forever!

    • I don't want to recive it either though, I'm not a dog.

    • Dog? Huh? I don't do animals...but I do lick vulvas...

    • yeah you lick genitals. that's what dogs do when they mate... I would rather not behave like a dog, thanks.

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  • You probably need to find a different boyfriend. He will probably never change just like I will probably never change. I do not like bjs and I do like giving oral to females (I like their pee too).

    You will not find a "perfect" man but only you can decide whether this is tolerable or intolerable.

    It is always tempting to think we are all alike, but believe me, we are all very different.

    • I don't have a boyfriend I'm just talking about past experiences. Good to know not all men like blow jobs hopefully I can meet one someday.

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