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I went down on him but...
calixta21 Xper 4
I went down on my guy for the first time. He hardly made any noise but I heard him say "oh" and "god" a few times quietly, and he did rub my head and hold my free hand at one point. I went down on him for over an hour. Seriously. My mouth hurt and my legs were cramping, but HE DID NOT CUM! Does this mean I did something wrong? I feel like I couldn't do it right or something.
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OK Everyone was so helpful and I appreciate it. I just kept at it and learned some new tricks and really paid attention to his expressions and movements to see what he liked, and the next time I went down he came within 2 minutes! I was shocked. :)
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Also, I asked him after about 6 successful bjs why he didn't come the first time, and he admitted he was terrified he would mess up my bed and I would be upset, so he said he was thinking about his grandma the whole time trying to not cum. haha
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19 29That's funny. you were worried if you were doing it right and he was hardly trying not to cum! lol sorry, it's funny. Next time talk to him? ya that would prob fix it
he more than likely was sore or wasn't gonna cum. he must love you. because he tried to spare your feelings. ask him gently if he likes oral. if not don't be sad. he might not like it. I don't and that's okay...
hahaha NO sometimes guys come from, oral sometimes not,some cannot at all,You just go and have sex after oral,and that's it...you did nothing wrong XD
awwh girl don't worry. maybe you couldn't feel anything. plus it was your first time so you will get better over time.
Guys tend to be quieter in sex, not sure why considering I know girls love hearing the noises just as much as we hear their noises. Guess it's society's whole "men must show no emotions." But I'm betting he really enjoyed it. Even if he did not cum, he probably enjoyed it. If not, talk to him and learn how to do it better. But reading from your updates you did and seems you're fine and he was just controlling himself. Look on the bright side, he can control himself so he'll last longer for you :P hah
But damn this is an old post.
Don't fret, I'm sure you were just great. If you weren't doing something right, I'm sure he would have made it clear.
I know that when I'm getting blown, I can easily last for an hour or so without cumming. He probably just wanted to enjoy it for as long as he could. Don't let it bother you. Besides, with time (and practice), you'll know the right buttons to push to make him explode.
How did you finish him off?
its hard to get that perfect spot and motion for a guy to come...once you find it tough, bingo! Have him show you a little next time, and have him tell you when he is getting closer.
Sounds like you love going downtown! Lol on the serious note just because he doesn't come doesn't mean he's not loving it or you're doing something wrong. Every guy is different. I've never came from a blowjob and hand job. It feels good tho.
You did Good, don't worry. He does not have much experience. Just start getting into a better position. Try using your hands a bit more, but don't over stroke him. If you want to make it even better, try using ice cream in small quantities. He'll get into it sooner or later.
no you did nothing wrong. some guys are so used to masturbating or having sex it takes them way more than a bj or hj to make him cum. :]
damn an hur. I gave my ex a head in the first 5 mints he come lmfao.
probably nottt ,
damn that's sexy
I wouldn't worry too much. I agree with everything hisangel said.
Not only that but some men have very specific and demanding needs... my first boyfriend came a lot and often when I gave him blowjobs but my second boyfriend barely ever came when receiving oral.
yeah most guys have performance anxiety.
DAMN GIRL! an hour?
you should feel lucky you can do that all on its own.
Me? The longest I have was maybe 10min hah.
but like so since I don't go all out with bjs I try to mix it up & do other stuff too. like handjobs & I mean I honestly just would rather go ahead & f*** than have to give head for 6hrs. lol.
but yeah, don't feel bad. I've never made a guy come with a bj alone.
but to me that's a good thing cause I Am NOT about to have some guys skeet in my mouth haha
When a guy doesn't come during ever event such as that it simply means he is not through puberty yet. You did nothing wrong.
I regret to say that we of the FBI are powerless to act in cases of oral-genital intimacy, unless it has in some way obstructed interstate commerce. ~J. Edgar Hoover, attributed
I was going to say he most likly was trying not to come had that happen before
Your boyfriend has a problem with erection. You did a great job. I would be happy if I would have a girlfriend like you. If this goes on, look for another guy.