Ladies only: Have you or would you dump a guy based on penis size?

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Ok lets say you meet a guy, who's good looking has lots of money and treats you like a queen. But you decide its time to sleep with him , as soon as he takes off his underware his penis is not as big as you hoped. Do you still sleep with him or dump him?

Yes I would dump him

Vote A

Yes I would dump him unless he used pills or a pump

Vote B

No I would sleep with him once then dump him.

Vote C

Depends on the size.

Vote D

I'm a real shallow women.

Vote E

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+1 y

If size doesn't matter then how come p*rn actors are force to take pills, use pumps etc to make their penis's bigger? How come there's dozens of penis enlargement pills for men to take that's a billion dollar industry each year to satisfy their partner. But I'm wrong because like you women said size doesn't matter. I know p*rn is for entertainment but how come we don't see guys with small penis's? Instead we see guys with big ones. Why because it matters that's why.

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bettyboopdog Xper 6
+1 y
I tried to make it work once.. but he didn't try to compensate or anything! He was small and lazy in bed, I had to tell a 25 year old man who has slept with 2ce as many people in bed what to do and he didn't take my advice at all. After 4 months I gave up.. Sex is a huge part of a relationship and I also realized that if I ended up with him and had a kid, I would be um bigger? lol and Sex would be even worse! If you have a tinny peni then master cunnilingus and learn how to make passionate sex & be open to toys don't be insecure own it! Your a ButtHead for not letting me do this anonymously! So embarrassing
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- Asker
  +1 y
  How stupid do you think I am, Of course I wasn't gonna put anonymous answers.
- bettyboopdog
  +1 y
  Stupid or a hypocrite? lol do you ask to know for yourself? your anonymus so it's not a degrading question to answer
- Asker
  +1 y
  Once again how dump do you thin I am? And FYI you could of ignored the question so that tells me your the dumb one. Why don't you make ask a question about breast size and do a poll. I bet not one guy here would dump a girl because her boobs were to small.
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- bettyboopdog
  +1 y
  He didn't put any effort in in bed! If you are going to get defensive about intelligence then you may want to keep tabs on your grammer just saying, and I never called you dumb you assumed I thought that of you...It wasn't just that he was small, he was immature and barely put any effort in when we did sleep together, his size wasn't the only reason I ended things! Would you stay with a girl who pretty much just lies there? and having sex with breasts isn't as important as actual sex!
- Asker
  +1 y
  You just insulted my intelligence my calling me dumb there I, spelt it right happy now? And I forgot the K in think say why don't you call the grammar police and bitch and complain about '' MY grammar''
- bettyboopdog
  +1 y
  so you have a small penis and bad grammer? My heart goes out to you lol THOSE ARE BOTH ALONE DEAL BREAKERS FOR NEARLY ALL WOMEN, YOU HAVE MANAGED TO AQUIRE BOTH, I"M SURE YOUR THUMB AND PONTER MUST BE TIERED BY NOW FROM PINCHING OFF ALL OF THESE YEARS! You Fed yourself in the A** by being rude to me... It's also sad that in your case your brain is the size of your penis.. I only like guys with big brains ;)
swiftsaver602 Guru
+1 y
There isn't an option for "hell no that's ridiculous" so I didn't vote.

My one ex was a very well-endowed guy (about 7.5" erect), but he was a HORRIBLE boyfriend. He was controlling and demeaning so I dumped him.

My current boyfriend is on the small side (about 4"-4.5" erect), but the sex is incredible and he treats me so well that it doesn't matter to me at all.
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- swiftsaver602
  +1 y
  @update: you can't compare p*rn to what real women want. The majority of female p*rn stars have fake t*ts and loose vaginas...do real men want that? It's what it is because it sells...though it doesn't make it right. I'm not saying there aren't girls out there that put penis size at the top of their list, but not all of us do.
- Asker
  +1 y
  I bet if I did a poll and asked 10,000 different women I, did not know if they preferred small or big penis's I'll sure 99.99% would say the big one over the small one.

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RainyDaySara Xper 3
+1 y
Wheres the "Never" option? lol

I would never ever ever dump a guy because of that, how shallow can you get?

I probably wouldn't really see it until our relationship was at a more serious point, at which I would be more attached to him and actually like and care about him. Sex isn't everything...And having a huge package isn't either :)

Basically, no, I have never and would never dump a guy because of his size down there.

Hope I helped :)
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EverythingReal Yoda
+1 y
I don't see how I'm a real shallow woman for not dumping them. Like what.
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- EverythingReal
  +1 y
  @Update, a large portion of p*rn has normal sized penises, and there are plenty of fetish related tiny penis p*rn too. The men take enlargement pills like the women get boob jobs, it's just for the industry, not to simulate reality.
steffyswan Xper 5
+1 y
First of all I don't date guys because they may have a lot of money. Secondly, I may be a bit disappointed but I won't let this small thing to let me dump him. That would be beyond stupid.
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- Asker
  +1 y
  Well I figured money comes with looks.
- steffyswan
  +1 y
  Well of course no one wants a worthless guy who doesn't have any ambition or goals in life. But when it all sums up I'm not going to date someone just because of money. And not everyone looks on appearance.
- Asker
  +1 y
  So what your saying is if a guy has no goals or ambition he's worthless? Hate to break it to you but not all of us guys are born with good looks, and can just land any job we like.
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- steffyswan
  +1 y
  What I meant is no one wants someone whose lazy and doesn't want anything good out of life. Whether male or female, even if your not working you should at least have some idea of what you are going to do and how you'll work towards it... And yeah not everyone is born with good looks but who the hell cares? Honestly people need to stop placing emphasis on external looks because that's the least! There are more important things to life. Treasure yourself, be confident and that girl will come to u
- Asker
  +1 y
  There is no way on gods green earth, anyone would date an ugly person no matter how nice they are or treat u.
Prettygurl12 Master
+1 y
Where's the option for: I don't give a damn about the size of his penis and would love and stay with him anyway?

No option? What a biased poll.
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- Prettygurl12
  +1 y
  You obviously have been scorned or conditioned to hate women and have a superiority complex so I doubt any girl would be with you anyway regardless of the size of your d***.
- Asker
  +1 y
  How is it biased when its the truth and don't tell me you would rather sleep with a guy who's 5 inches over one who's 8.
- Prettygurl12
  +1 y
  No way in hell am I letting some guy stick 8 inches up in me! Can you talk about painful? I'd much rather 5. Much safer and less painful. Get your head out of your ass. You are not a woman. You do not know what we want. Stop watching p*rn.
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- Asker
  +1 y
  Ok first off my personal life as nothing to do with this poll, second yes I do hate women because you all lie about what you want then bitch later on about the mistakes you made. And third I've never had a Girlfriend so therefor never had sex.
- Asker
  +1 y
  Sure you would rather have a 5 inch penis in you then a 8, and I suppose you would rather date a bum then a Doctor lol.
- Prettygurl12
  +1 y
  Well then you're an idiot and have no right to make claims about women. So get off your soap box and get over it. Unless some woman bitches about YOUR ability to perform (which she hasn't since you're a virgin) YOU can't bitch about it. And IF a women bitches about YOUR ability, then you can bitch about HER. Not ALL women. Get over yourself.
- Asker
  +1 y
  You so full of sh*t THERE IS NO WAY A WOMEN WILL SLEPP WITH A GUY WHO IS SMALL. YOU CAN SAY SIZE DOESN'T MATTER ALL YOU WANT ITS, STILL DOESN'T MATTER. And if I'm an idiot then a bitch who's in denial.
- litlaprincess
  +1 y
  it's probably a troll.
- Prettygurl12
  +1 y
  You're so angry...I'm telling you, you're wrong. Get over it, @litlaprincess: I'm not trolling. The QA may be...he's obviously too idiotic to realize how idiotic he actually is.
- Asker
  +1 y
  And how I'm I trolling? Could it be I'm right? Why is it so hard t say yes Penis size matters to me, I would rather sleep with a guy who's big then small. Your not fooling anyone.
- Prettygurl12
  +1 y
  Says the virgin. Look, I am going to be 100% black and white COMPLETELY honest with you: I don't CARE how big your d*** is. Okay? Sure, some girls do. But *I* don't. Congratulations on having a penis. Now we know you're a male. I'm not going to deny him because his penis is so big. So stop thinking that I am lying because I'm not. Get over it. Someone disagreed with you. Big deal. Now you know there's hope for you and your "average" penis. I don't see an issue...or are you so set on being alone?
- litlaprincess
  +1 y
  @Prettygurl12, yeah I was talking about him lol. @QA Could it be you are right? Yes, for some women that might matter, just because some women would dump someone because of their penis size doesn't mean all would. Why is it so hard to say yes to your question? Because that's not how I feel about penis sizes.
- Asker
  +1 y
  See unlike women if a guy dumps a women because her ass or boobs are to small or big we look like douche bags, jerks etc. Women are as almost expected to sleep with a guy who's hung. And see another thing is women can show cleavage by wearing low cut shirts us guys can't walk around with our d***s hanging out.
- RainyDaySara
  +1 y
  lol This dude is nuts...He really hates us!
- Asker
  +1 y
  I'm the crazy one, but yet I'm not the one hiding the truth.
scnbabe89 Yoda
+1 y
I don't care about his size he's has other great aspects that I love. Where can I find a guy like this?
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mimiperson Xper 6
+1 y
Where's the "I wouldn't care" button?

As long as he could compensate for his sexual "inadequacy" if you will, I wouldn't care. The actual size doesn't matter, it's the sex that counts. And worse comes to worse, I can always just satisfy myself.

P.S. I don't think it's inappropriate that you're anonymous and yet there are not allowed to be anonymous answers.
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- Asker
  +1 y
  I will never believe women don't care about penis size no matter how hard they try, to convince someone its a myth. And yes questions like this people deserve to know who answers.
- mimiperson
  +1 y
  Lol you probably don't believe pansexuals exist either then. Maybe straight women would care, but for me, it's truly the personality that counts. Also, there are lots of ways to make up for a lack of a penis, let alone a small one, in the bedroom. Lots of toys and maneuvers. Plus, if it really becomes an issue and our relationship is clearly going to last a while, I can always get surgery down there. You know, make things tighter. There are seriously thousands of ways to get around it.
- Asker
  +1 y
  Why even bother dating someone if they can get use a toy like you said?
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- mimiperson
  +1 y
  Well, for a select few of us, dating isn't just about sex. It's about finding someone to spend the rest of your life with, someone you care about.
- Asker
  +1 y
  LOL keep telling yourself that.
ShannonMc Xper 7
+1 y
there's more to life than penis size... besides, some girls prefer 'em small.

Penis' are kinda like boobs, different people have different preferences.

Relax you men out there, a girl is going to like you for you, not for your shlong.
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- Asker
  +1 y
  I disagree I honestly doubt a man would dump a girl for having small breast, women on the other hand will likely to point and laugh then dump him, and tell all her friends.
- ShannonMc
  +1 y
  That's not the point I was making. Like, different girls like different sizes. Me personally, a little below average is my preference. But my best friend like them small. Get the boob reference now? Sounds to me like you've been the reap of a girl like this? Don't let it get you down brother. She wasn't worth your time nor your bed skills. What they say is true: It's not how big it is, but how you use it. :)
- Asker
  +1 y
  I've never shown a girl my penis, but I'm smart enough to know as soon as I do, I'll get laughed at. I'm not that stupid. And this right here It's not how big it is, but how you use it. Is a bunch of bull. Sorry but I'm not buying it once a women as larger equipment she stays with it.
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- ShannonMc
  +1 y
  Bud. Relax. If you've never shown a girl your junk, how do you know that one will react in such a negative way?
- Asker
  +1 y
  Because women don't like small or average d***s its a myth.
cuteLiLbunny Xper 6
+1 y
no but I would if he didn't know who zelda was
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- cuteLiLbunny
  +1 y
  oh and there's this, link
- cuteLiLbunny
  +1 y
  actually I've seen guys who were smaller in size in p*rn
- Asker
  +1 y
  But those guys were either good looking rich or both
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- cuteLiLbunny
  +1 y
  actually they didn't show there faces
- Asker
  +1 y
  They must of been ugly hence the small penises.
- cuteLiLbunny
  +1 y
  ok now your just being stupid -_-
- Asker
  +1 y
  You just said they didn't show their faces? If they were good looking they, would of showed their faces. Your so full of sh*t.
- cuteLiLbunny
  +1 y
  or hey maybe now just bare with me for a second maybe most people in p*rn don't want to be known for it and have random people recognize them so they hide there faces, you know avoid being raped or stalked and sh*t
- Asker
  +1 y
  Yeah because I see 110 pound women holding down 250+lb men and raping them all the time. Sarcasm.
- cuteLiLbunny
  +1 y
  you know what this question is irrelevant cause your an ass and no one will ever be able to help you cause your so convinced that girls are completely one way. and that's the reason we don't like you not for something as shallow as penis size >:P
- Asker
  +1 y
  I'm an ass your acting like a real bitch right now. Go ahead report me because this site is one sided anyways.
Katyperry Xper 6
+1 y
dont care the size as long as I love the guy... just saying!
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- Asker
  +1 y
  Yeah right and I suppose you'll love him if he was ugly or poor too lmfao.
- Katyperry
  +1 y
  i thought only penis? you're out of the topic dude...
- Asker
  +1 y
  I'm not off topic at all, its common sense if a women is willing to date a guy he has to be, Good looking have a good job and penis size. And BTW you didn't answer my question you basically skipped it like you were trying to avoid it hmmmm?
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- RainyDaySara
  +1 y
  Hey, she's saying what I said basically, that she wouldn't judge a guy on his size down there. Especially if she already had feelings for him. Regarding good looks and money, it differs between woman to woman what she considers attractive and a good job and to what degree its important to her. Not all women are shallow gold diggers who want an athlete boyfriend with a huge package lol...Some of us (ahem) just want an average nice guy who will make us feel happy :)
- Asker
  +1 y
  Ok keep telling yourself that RainyDaySara. There's an old saying the more you believe in a lie the more you start to believe its true. And that's what your doing. FYI do some online research on the subject you'll be surprise how many websites can't get a straight answer from women on the subject. Its one of those questions people will ask a little kid if they believe in santa? Of course their gonna say yes, even through we know he's not real. Women are doing the same thing.
- Katyperry
  +1 y
  Dude fyi, don't ask a question here if you don't want the answers of the girls okay? maybe some don't like small,but for some of us don't mind small penis, don't generalize! because you guys if so concerned about your SMALL PENIS! then go have surgery drink more booster drink and make all the veins enlarge that f***ing small penis. if that makes you happy, me and some just saying that we don't mind small,if you won't believe it FINE we don't care either. and yeah fyi, I don't date guys with tons of money.
- Katyperry
  +1 y
  i don't date guys with tons of money, and how can I tell if they do have tons of money?! gosh I do have my saving, I got a decent job and I got a high paying salary I can live without their money!
- Asker
  +1 y
  Are you kidding me women don't generalize men? They do it all the time. Women are 10x more shallow then men. If a guy not a 10 in looks, doesn't drive a BMW, and make xxxx amount of $$$ he doesn't stand a chance. And if women didn't care about this stuff then how come the good looking rich guys are always taking? While the average poor ones aren't? But go ahead call me stupid see if I care I know I'm right but after all your women so you can never be wrong.
Summers91 Xper 5
+1 y
I do not mind small penis at all. I prefer a 4in to a 10-12in anyday!
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- nevergivinup
  +1 y
  God Bless you
- Summers91
  +1 y
  Why is that? lol
- nevergivinup
  +1 y
  Thats so sweet of you that you would still love a guy despite his short comings like that.
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- nevergivinup
  +1 y
  Can I be friend? I don't cyber or anything you just seem really nice and easy to talk to.
- Summers91
  +1 y
  Guys don't pick their d*** size, so you can't blame or be mad at them. Some girls are just picky. Sure, we can be friends, lol
- Asker
  +1 y
  LOl yeah right keep telling yourself that. Please I bet when your having sex with a 4' inch penis your dreaming about a 10' inch one. Stop denying it.
- nevergivinup
  +1 y
  10 inches would f***ing hurt I would think
- Asker
  +1 y
  You actually believe that crap you told me? And I suppose if a good looking rich jerk offered you a blank check you and said here put any amount you want your, gonna say no thanks? Right and 95% of guys in the world are gay then.
rubyjeanculyer Xper 4
+1 y
of course if he isn't over 6 I'm dumping him. if he only had 5 id laugh when I saw it & leave or tell him to leave. id tell all of my friends and his that he's little so they wouldn't waste their time.

:)
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- smallguy
  +1 y
  LOL! As if women had a good perception and perspective of size:)
- Asker
  +1 y
  See was that so hard to admit.
- rubyjeanculyer
  +1 y
  i keep a tape measure in my purse and use it :P
litlaprincess Xper 5
+1 y
The only option you really give on the poll is to dump him or "I'm a real shallow women" lol So I'm not answering the poll but I'll answer the question, No I wouldn't dump him.There's more to a man than just his penis. He can pleasure a woman in many ways.
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- Asker
  +1 y
  If I had put no in the poll, that would tell me women are lying, its like a guy saying he would rather have a girl with a A cup breasts over D's. And yes that other thing men can use to pleasure women is called money.
- litlaprincess
  +1 y
  That tells me just how shallow you are lol. I was with my ex for almost 3 years and his penis is small but the sex was great.
- Asker
  +1 y
  I'm shallow no women lie about what size they prefer all the time. And why is he now your Ex was he too small is that way you dumped him. And don't say he dumped you because that ain't true.
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- litlaprincess
  +1 y
  I stayed with him for almost 3 years, If it would had bothered me so much then why would I stay for that long? it was not because of his small penis that I left, like I have already said the sex was great. He did drugs and was emotionally and physically abusive, that's why. And since you have already mentioned money, I'll tell you that I didn't stay because of that. He had none, we were young so he didn't have a job, he went to school.
- Asker
  +1 y
  Maybe you didn't want to look shallow.
- litlaprincess
  +1 y
  lol oh lord.
- Asker
  +1 y
  Will you could of picked Depends on the size. But the funny thing is no woman has picked it? I wonder if I'm right? That size does matter and no woman here wants to admit to it?
- litlaprincess
  +1 y
  or you could be wrong and it doesn't matter to the women who have answered.
- Asker
  +1 y
  Right women don't care give me a break.
johari Guru
+1 y
Depends on how small because i want to feel something!
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dirtydee Xper 2
+1 y
so how big/small are you

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- Asker
  +1 y
  About average.
- dirtydee
  +1 y
  so 4.5"?
- kheserthorpe
  +1 y
  Tha'ts not average.
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- Asker
  +1 y
  I guess never measured it.
- dirtydee
  +1 y
  but it is about average
- Asker
  +1 y
  But I got a big fat one too lol.
- Summers91
  +1 y
  The guy who asked the original question has a 2in d***.
- Asker
  +1 y
  How would you know summer91? Have you been staling me? I thought you said you like small ones over big ones? Can I cal you a liar?
- Summers91
  +1 y
  Have I been staling you? No. You obviously have a tiny d***. You're tearing the women up on here.
- RainyDaySara
  +1 y
  Calm down. lol I'm commenting on too many of these answers... @Summers91, I personally think you're really pretty and am so jealous of how slender you are!
larry69 Guru
+1 y
I have been dumped for being only 6 inches
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- Asker
  +1 y
  She was shallow. Women will never admit looks, income and penis size matters. They all have a secret code.
- RainyDaySara
  +1 y
  @QA Wow, quite the conspiracy theory lol...If it exists my friends and I haven't been notified! @larry69, that was shallow. Most girls just want an average guy. I would feel scared or intimidated if I found out the guy I was with was huge...Much rather an average guy, and you're like an inch bigger than average :)
- Asker
  +1 y
  Of course women are not gonna admit to having a secret code.
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- swiftsaver602
  +1 y
  That is absolutely ridiculous. You're obviously better off without a girl like that.
- Asker
  +1 y
  All women including you Swiftsaver602 are all hypocrites.
- cuteLiLbunny
  +1 y
  code? are we spies or something? can I be a ninja spy :D
- Asker
  +1 y
  Oh please don't act like you women and I use that term loosely, don't talk sh*t about guys when your alone.
- larry69
  +1 y
  SIZE MATTERS

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