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Losing virginity to a one night stand?

So next weekend I'm going home from college, and I know I'll be meeting up with a guy I hooked up with last time I was home. I know he wants to have sex with me, and I want to too. There's a very good chance I won't see him again, and I know we won't date or anything. The thing is, I have never regret doing something in my life. I have only regret not doing things. I want to have sex with him, and I also want to lose my virginity because I plan on sleeping with a few guys in college, and if I was a virgin I probably would not, and regret it. So my question is does anyone see a problem with this and why?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Nope. As long as you're okay with it, have fun. I know a girl who lost her virginity to a one-night-stand when she was a freshman in high school. She's still fine, didn't turn into some out of control slut or have a mental breakdown.

    When I lost my virginity it was to a guy I barely knew. I liked him, but I didn't know if he was interested in anything but sex, so when I lost it it was basically a one night stand before I realized that we were going to stay together. It was fine. I was just like "Oh, had sex" and that was it.

    My advice for sleeping around in college is to find a f*** buddy. If you stay with one or two guys who can learn your body it will be better than just random guys who won't know your clit from your ass. I'd advise using condoms and going on the pill.

  • Well, he wants it, you want it, you don't see losing virginity in a romantic way, so yeah, go for it!

  • Make sure he's gentle and uses a lot of lube and gives you lots of foreplay.

Most Helpful Guys

  • No, not a problem, exactly. It's how I did it. Though at this point I can't even remember her friggin' name. But yeah, no real problem. I just kinda wish it was a little more meaningful, but it's not a deep regret, just a minor one. I guess the only thing that's a problem is knowing whether or not if he's clean, and if you never see him again, then that could prove inconvenient.

    Yeah, not really a whole lot I see as a problem. If you want to do it, go right ahead. Be safe. Use a condom, and have fun.

  • Not a problem, but being a girl you might want someone with whom you had a deeper connection. That way you'll avoid pain, bleeding and you'll actually enjoy the experience. If it's something you just want out of your head, yeah, sure... why not?

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  • Go for it and don't give it a second thought.

  • No problem as long as you're using protection.

  • No problem as long as you're using protection but it probably won't be the best sex in your life. Better wait till you're in love with each other.

  • No I don't see a problem with it at all just be sure its what you want.

  • As long as you enjoy it then OK be safe

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