Morning sex. Yay or Nay?

My girl seems very disinterested in morning sex for some reason. We wake up cuddling in each others' arms which she seems to like. Then when I try to initiate something more she leaves the bed very quickly. We had sex plenty of times just never in the morning. So do you like morning sex?
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  • Sometimes I do, sometimes I don't.

    When I don't, it might be because:

    1. I feel crusty, smelly and gross.

    2. I'm still really sleepy and I need more time to wake up before I'd feel ready/interested in sex.

    3. Similarly, I might be feeling really lazy. If we did have sex, I'd probably just lie there and I may even fall back to sleep, which I think is unfair to him.

    4. I wasn't ready to wake up, but my boyfriend started touching me and pressing his boner up against me. Sometimes being woken up like that can be sexy, but sometimes its annoying, because dude, I was trying to sleep.

    5. I'm not really a morning person in general. I don't wake up alert and chipper. I'm much more active in the evening.

    6. I don't have time for sex, like if I have to go to work and I'll end up being late if we have sex.

  • I haven't tried morning sex with my boyfriend yet, but I'd really like to because I tend to wake up pretty horny in the morning. And he often has morning wood, so that just makes things all too perfect lol. The only thing I'd say that would probably prevent her from having sex in the morning is that she doesn't want you to see her naked in the daylight, her breath is bad, she feels unclean down there, she isn't horny, etc. Talk to her and figure out how she feels about it. She may have just been oblivious to the fact that you want to have sex with her in the morning, so calling attention to it may be in order.

  • Morning sex is amazing! Your girlfriend might be worried about hygiene stuff like bad breath and things like that in the morning. Also I know first thing in the morning I have to pee as soon as I wake up. When she gets more comfortable with you I'm sure it'll happen and if not then ask her why she's not a huge fan of morning fun.

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  • May be it is because of bad breath. Now as much as I want to have morning sex, it is sometimes impossible because our mouth stinks in the morning. or may be she just does not feel ready for the action.

    • Yeah, I was gonna say she's probably worried about morning breath, but that shouldn't stop her from brushing her teeth then hopping back into bed.

    • "hop back into the bed"? That's impossible. If I go to bathroom in the morning, within a minute I lose that great feeling of tearing something really soft apart. lol

  • Morning sex is the best. Fortunately my girl loves it too, because no matter what happened the night before, I wake up ready to go.

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  • I almost always love it. BUT on the occasions I'm not interested, it's typically for one of the reasons Selfishstars mentioned.

  • Yes, I like sex at any time of the day.

  • Maybe she has to pee or she knows that morning sex can be bothersome for girls. Guys are just BAM ready to go, they wake up ready, but some girls take a while to get turned on and she might not want to make that effort so early/you don't realize you have to make that effort and so when you did have morning sex it was just "eh".

    I like morning sex. I like sex at all times of the day. It's extra sexy to wake up to my boyfriend hard and pressed against me and all ready to go.

  • I have to be in the mood to really enjoy it. When I open my eyes, I just want to keep myself in bed half asleep... there are days that I want him to initiate it, but there are days that I just want to be laid in bed with no one to bother me. I would say 70% yes and 30 % no.

  • i can see the appeal but I like to sleep after

  • Not for me - things just "don't work very well" when I first wake up.

  • Spoon position was invented for morning sex.

  • It is THE BEST. Maybe she likes to feel fresh for sex?

  • I hate it. Don't disrupt my sleep.

  • F*** yeah, I'm up for sex anytime. As for bad breath, I just keep gum and mints in my bedside table ;)

  • Wow. A LOT of people like it. I haven't done it but I voted that I would love it.

  • Nah I am not a happy person in the morning

  • Mmmm hmmm.

  • It's quite a yay for me

  • No, I mean, I'm too tired in the morning for that. I'm still waking up. Maybe it's just me though

    • Same here. 😂😂

  • Sex at any time is okay with me.

    I voted A.

    Morning sex is sexy because of the morning light.

  • She is missing out! Morning sex is the best sex

  • Just ram it in her when she's asleep! Who knows maybe she'll like it.

  • I probably wouldn't just cause I'm not a morning person. lol But if we still slept late then maybe :)

  • she's worried about being "unclean"

    you should just be like "wow you look even sexier in the morning" and kiss her and just do things so she knows she's not dirty or anything

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