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My boyfriend had sex with a prettier girl than me. I am so jealous.
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I saw her pictures on MySpace and she's gorgeous. I'm pretty but also have to be realistic I think she's prettier than me. I love my boyfriend so much but I can't believe he had sex with such a pretty girl. We were talking about our past sexual relationships and he told me he didn't want to tell me the names because I might know them. Come to find out it was a friend of mine's cousin. I don't know her personally. I just can't stop thinking about when he tells me that he thinks he's crazier than me in bed and that he's never had complaints. I can't stop but think that he had sex with her and threw her around. It makes me so jealous. All I can think of is him having sex with her and him thinking of her as the prettiest girl he's ever been with. I love him so much but I hate that he was with her. How can I forget this it hurts too? Has anyone else gone through this? How did you handle it?
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Yes THIS WAS PAST SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS he's had.
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33 27You need to stop being nozy. Let the past, be the past. That's the only way you'll get over it. By avoiding every detail of his sexual history. Simply put, forgo learning about it.
Simple: you just need to realize that he's with YOU now. You are clearly the victor! :) It doesn't matter HOW pretty she was, because he's not with her, he's with YOU. If anything, you should feel incredibly flattered that he prefers you to her! Remember: looks aren't everything! (Personal note: I would MUCH rather be with a plain girl who is smart, funny and kind than with a supermodel who is vain, crabby and selfish. Just because she's hot, doesn't mean she is a keeper!)
He's with you and not her.
She probably lacks something you have... chances are you're more intelligent, less shallow, more caring...
I wish people would stop obsessing over looks so much :(
I hope you're getting over it by now or you're going to mess up your relationship.
seems as if this is a personal problem. don't let him you think this way or you will be out the door. this is borderline "crazy talk" you should focus more on what your man's needs are and less on his ex's. His gorgeous ex-fling was obviouse missing something. You are his full package. beauty is in the eye of the beholder. and right now you are it.
i agree get help with your insecurities.
Awh don't be so insecure :) keep your head up.
dont get worked up on how "other women" look. its been my experience that the more attractive the woman, the more of a snob she is. I have heard the saying "the bigger the breast implants...the smaller the heart behind em."
there is likely a reason he left her FOR you! don't threaten it, embrace it
Lets be honest most guys are f***ed in the head and only think about sex. Another truth, most people only care about themselves and what benefits them. I can tell you that its probably in your best interest to move on, and the only way to do that is to cut off all or as many connections with him as you can, because unless he's coming to you and telling you all about it all the time, your doing it to yourself. good luck.
He is with you now. That means something.
There are a lot of pretty girls in the world...you can't go around with that mentality obvious there is something he finds better about you than her.
I thought my boyfriend's ex was prettier than me, then I remember that it was me he wanted. She was a slut who was horrible to him and gave him a rubbish blowjob once. At least I know how to turn him on.
Let's reverse the situation: My ex boyfriend had a bigger penis. It used to make my current boyfriend jealous, and I'd always say "It's a tool he could never use properly, you on the other hand are rather a master of it..."
But your boyfriend shouldn't be comparing you to her. What is he, a bitch?
I've been through this with major jealousy issues, and this was my conclusion:
She's part of the past. He's with you now because he loves you, and he never loved her the way he does you. He never had with her what he has with you. You could NEVER be her, but neither could she EVER be you. There's no reason for jealousy, ever. He has something unique and irreplaceable with you; right here, right now.
Keep in mind this also goes for every relationship you'll ever have, so learn to value yourself. It's everyone else's fault if they fail to appreciate what they have in you.
John F Kennedy had sex with Marilyn Monroe. But who did he go home to? So what if he did her in the past, who is he with now? If he wanted her more than you he'd likely either be with her or trying to be. Beauty isn't just about what is on the outside. Maybe it is what is on the inside that he loves with you. That doesn't make you any less than she is. To be honest I would be flattered if my girl had been with a much hotter guy, but loved me. Sex can be bought, but love can only be given. Remember that. :]
I have been in the same position as you during my relationships. I hated those times..i was so down on myself. all of my relationships have always been tinged with meloncholy..usually having much to do with my jealousy for another girl. None of those relationships were true love though and it was a waste of emotional energy and time. I felt like my boyfriends betrayed my feelings. but I was mad that they made me feel that way...I know I never done the same to them.
but anyway I hope that didn't sound too crazy...reading your question just made me feel sad..and brought back a lot of memories :(
Just sorb worth bout it
If you're worried about the fact that she was pretty... why? If he likes pretty girls and you weren't pretty then he wouldn't be with you, therefore he thinks you're pretty too.
If it's in the past then obviously they aren't together anymore and there's got to be a reason why. If he was just interested in looks I'm pretty sure he would've put up with a lot of bull to stay with her, therefore it must have been something big that pushed him away. He's not likely going to get back together with her so why worry? It's YOU he's with right now. YOU'RE the one he wants.
go see the docter, you're sick.
Well to be honest... get over it.
Its in the past, everyone has a past!... you are his present and future.
If he seriously wanted this other girl he would still be with her, its amazing how a guys perception of a girl can be changed by the other girl being 'a bitch/slag/hore/self-obsessed wanker'.. or any mixture of those...
You would be best to man up and get on with it... there must be a reason he's with you, so don't wreck it.
well I would just say have a bigger circle. I don't like knowing the people she slept with
Don't worry about it he's with you now so in his mind you're probably better looking than the girl in the past relationship he had