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My boyfriend made a rude comment about my boobs!
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My boyfriend and have been together for 2 years now and things have been great! Last night we laid in the sofa and I started getting a little frisky :) I started kissing his neck and massaging his penis. He started massaging my breast and said "You know...if you had bigger boobs you would be perfect." ...i was so turned of and embarrassed at this point. I just crawled off and said "Do you not like my boobs? He said "No, no! Not saying that at all but I mean if you had bigger ones I would enjoy it more." I was so embarrassed and I just wanted cry. Is this a problem? I didn't think I was that small! I never knew he had a problem with my boobs. I wear a 36C... She I let it go or should I be mad?
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38 26You have a right to be mad. I'd certainly be upset by it. You have great sized boobs. It was a childish remark to make. I hole you did not have sex with him afterward x
You should totally be mad! 36C is not small at all. I'm only a 34C and guys LOVE my boobs and say they are the perfect size. Almost every girl I know is jealous that I have bigger boobs too. What the hell does he want from you? To be freakishly huge?! No offense but he's an asshole for making such a comment.
Jesus I would never say that, and 36C aren't small at all. I'd say you have every right to be mad. A lot of the girls here are saying break up with him, I don't know about that, but if a girl said something that hurtful to me, I would think she didn't respect me anymore.
36c is a great size, punish him. No sex for two weeks. He'll be sorry. Don't criticize what doesn't need criticizing.
psh I would be happy with 36c, that's above average in my opinion this guys crazy! but if you really wanna get back at him while having sex tell him if he had a bigger d*** he'd be perfect. not that he's small but, if it was slightly bigger you'd enjoy it more :)
36C? Man, drop that guy...he's a superficial @ssclown. He's been watching too much p*rn.
Assclown :) love it!
a C cup? what does he want? haha, no you should not be mad, but yeah he could have been more sensitive. He didn't mean to hurt you, he was just being inconsiderate, I wouldn't be mad at him.
I'd be p*ssed!
Really? Well, I guess you girls are perfect and don't say anything that you wish you could take back.
I say things I wish I could take back all the time, but I accept it when people get mad/annoyed/whatever when I do because they have a right to. Just because someone may regret what they said doesn't mean they aren't in the wrong. They're responsible for their own words and behavior and if they make a mistake, they pay the price, just like I would if I was in their shoes.
I would be SO angry and hurt if someone said that to me. It's not something they can truly take back, because once they say it you know that that's how they feel. And if that's how they feel, I'd rather know- so that I can get as far away from them as possible. I want someone who likes me the way I am, not someone who spends time wishing part of me was different. I hope I would have more self respect than to stay with someone who said that to me.
Thanks saphirasilverwings!
Really saphirasilverwings? so you would break up with him over that? get real...i was trying to say its ok to be mad, but its really not a big deal. so yeah, breaking up with him is prob. a little extreme, or have you just not experienced a real relationship yet? love hurts, and blowing this petty bs out of proportion makes it hurt even more. get over it.
How is it extreme to want to be with someone who likes you how you are? That seems pretty basic to me. It's not over the top to not want to be with someone anymore after realizing that they spend their time wishing some of your body parts were larger. That's just not what I want. I would be happier with someone who loves me how I am, and, if boob size is so important to him that he would say something like that, he would be happier with someone who has bigger boobs. We wouldn't be a good match.
I know that I'm not perfect, and I'll never find someone who likes every single one of my traits. In some situations I can handle criticism perfectly well. However, when it comes to very sensitive issues like this one, not to mention the fact that it's not something I can change, I feel that such a comment would be completely out of line. The fact that he felt okay saying that to me would show me that he wasn't someone I wanted to be with.
i think You should be mad - he was totally inconsiderate as well as totally off base. Small boobs (and 36C aren't small!) can be very sexy. It's not the size that counts, it's what You can do with it and the whole person around those boobs. It sounds like Your boyfriend is the boob!
thats terrible..tell him his d***s too small :P its just who you are and I'm sure you're pretty no matter if you have tiny boobs or big ones
haha just say "too bad you don't ave a bigger d*** then we would be the perfect sex couple" lmao I did that to my boyfriend he got p*sssed
You know...i actually had a guy say some sh*t last night... Him and my ex were going to put up money so that I could get a boob job. But I wasn't mad until now. we were ont he phone and now that I think about that was really mean. Like smh that's not acceptable. But you should be mad and I guy who doesn't think b4 he talks is a turn off and then he disrespects you and thinks that its ok ...? No its not and a guy like that who doesn't make sure that that he's not sensitve towards you is a gy that you don't want trust me. Its better to take precautions. Because in the future he may become emotionally abusive and I would hate that for any woman so let him kno what he did and that it wasn't okay. not @ all. If I was you I'd start talking to someone else until he shows that he's sorry.
He is a jerk for saying what he did to you. What should matter is if you love them or not the way they are.
thats totally rude and disrespectful even if it was true for him! I would say then I guess I'm nt perfect enough for you if ur already complaining but don't b mad I love ur size thts perfect
He's just using the polite way of saying:"can you get breast implants." That is up to you.
tell him if you had a bigger d***,it would have been perfect
nothing would hurt his ego more than this
Haha that's a good one!!
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Agreed.
hes an asshole. even if he does think that, he should know that this would hurt your feelings. tell him how you feel about it and make him apologize.
plus, if I had your boob size, id be really happy!
just tell him if he had a bigger **** you would enjoy it more
Lol true dat. just say that guh. hahaha I luve who ever said this. you go man!
Sadly, I can only give a +1 and not a +36. Brilliant.
Amen.
ok I'm going to assume he didn't mean to hurt you're feelings
its been 2 years and he never said this. he said perfect
that means you as a person are perfect and your body is great accept for your boobs. he's a dude. it was probably ment to be a compliment
I'm a 32B and my guy has done the same thing. He said I would be the hottest girl he's ever seen if I had fake E, F, or G sized boobs. He likes them big and fake.
But a C is a great size, much better than my B.
I wish guys weren't like this. I have never known a girl to say to a guy "You would look so much better if your penis were longer". They're such assholes.
Your 16 most 16 year olds are like that. Its called being immature.
omg. that means he is just to of a jerk to deserve you. I really think that a 36c are big enough boobs for a guy. I mean, I wear the same size and my ex boyfriend used to love them. this maybe means that he is just stupid enough to think that your boobs are small. I would recommend you to ask him if your breast size are a problem to him. if it is, this might mean that he is that type of guy who love girls that are big and appear vulgar. please forgive me for my imprudence. I really don't mean any harm in this comment. but I really think you should dump him. no girl should be able to suffer for any stupidity that men come up with. satisfaction is not what a women is all about. if you really love him, tell him the good qualities that your personality has that no women with a big bra size and giant booty has ever had and the way you treat him. you might be smarter than a girl with bigger breast. don't let any, I repeat, ANY GUY, WHO IS STUPID ENOUGH TO MAKE COMMENTS THIS STUPID.