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My boyfriend watches Porn....WTF
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most f***ed up story,..since I'm against watching porn at first I would never snoop through my mans shit, I believe if you don't look for trouble you don't find it...so then I started having these weird dreams about him, and then my 6th sense told me something gotta be checked up with him... i was chilling with him in his house & the history button caught my eye..as he was out of the room I went through it and found MAD MAD MAD porn. he later denied it..yet I got through to him and he said I'm sorry I didn't want to make you sad. ok I understand that but then he said "its not even wrong I'm not gonna feel bad about it, most guys do it" wtf m so confused I asked him if he wants something different and he said no what's going on y would he not want just me...I'm not ugly, I have nice body, I f*** him like 2-3 times a day, I'm a good girlfriend :(
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I'm going to put this to you straight. Every guy watches porn. Now mind you, there may be a select few who don't, but the majority do. I don't think he should've denied it, but since you don't approve of it, I wouldn't blame him for hiding it. Porn has nothing to do with you, it's all about self pleasure. Don't break up with him because of this, because your next boyfriend watches porn too.
Seek in the YouTube, there is a nice song titled "Internet is for Porn" (I personally like WOW version the most, lol)
And this has nothing about him not liking You.
OMG HE WATCHES PORN IT'S THE END OF THE WORLD, get over it he's a guy he's been watching porn since probably before puberty. No woman is going to change that, no matter how hard you try.
And like regular man said, yeah no its not an addiction like meth, coke or heroin, I don't know where he came up with that crap. It's only an addiction if all you do is sit at home and watch porn and jack 24 hours a day. Porn is not harmful, porn will not kill you.
I understand completely that porn is not harmful or any of that sh*t, I also understand that all guys watch it. Us girls just don't like it because the majority if us can't compete with those girls. It's a girl thing. We want to be what turns you on. I'm accepting, it's whatever. Just kinda hard sometimes, because we don't like being compared to other people. (:
guys don't lust after girls in porn, they just like watching it. he doesn't prefer those girls to you.
Guys like porn, but most of them are smart enough to know that they would not want THAT girl in real life. Your guy is normal, so ask him to show you the porn ropes and try to get into it with him, and you can have sex 5 or 6 times a day. But if he is doing it, he will hide it better if you push the issue. Joining him is the better way to manage the situation.
Good Luck
James
Maybe you should withhold sex... and no give him any for a month.
He's probably practicing with porn because he's trying to last longer or be better with you. Ever think of that?
Porn is a thorn is society - IMO. Leave sex in the bedroom or off film and the net at least.
Stop snooping - trust him. He's going to look at porn no matter what you say - regardless if he's addicted or not is beside the point. Either accept it, or find somebody that isn't a porn freak.
Sex is fun. It will always be whether you're Christian, Muslim, Jewish, or a dog. You know that he wants you - if he didn't - you wouldn't be in a "relationship".
Decide what you want - if he isn't making you happy - just move on. You're young, you weren't going to get married [maybe, but whatever] - just make sure you're satisfied with your decisions and do it!
your boyfriend watches porn, that means he has an extremely common disease called being a GUY
Lol tht was very funny great sacrasm
No matter how hot you are, or how often you screw, your man's going to dig other women. Dudes wired for sexual variety. Learn to live with it.
As long as he isn't DATING other women, I would chill. You can only irritate him, and it won't change anything anyway.
Everyone likes a little variety, even the happiest married people. I think you are making a mistake by choosing this hill to die on. You won't kill the interest, you will just get him to lie to you.
It was live chat....live woman in front of a web cam..thats normal too?
Fairly normal. People are horny when they are young and this doesn't tend to respect constraints of the moment. It doesn't mean he is going to do anything with anyone. It does mean you need to take stock of yourself and your own demands and see if they are compatible with a relationship. fwiw, my wife is ok with my having porn, going to strip bars and having several girlfriends. Despite all the naked, sweaty flesh, I still love her and am very happy with our relationship.
There are a few things that us guys ALL want. We want our sports, our food, and we want to see something naked. 2-3 times a day? Damn... how does he make room in that busy schedule for porn? Anyway, don't try to compete with some disease infested, yet incredibly hot television images. Your bigger concern is... 2-3 times a day AND beating off? How does his little pecker handle all the abuse?
Heck I watch porn and LIKE porn--there is nothing wrong with healthy sexual curiosity. he is extremely young and at the age where his sexual ideals and appetites are at an all time high. Also, as one male poster here said, he could be trying to figure out ways to please you more. Premature ejaculation is a big problem fro younger males and masturbation is one way to train yourself out of it.
People need to take the shame out of legitimate male biological needs and desires--he is not a chick he is a man and males at his age have an intense drive--if he isn't cheating and you guys are making love and being together why should you care?
every guy every where enjoys porn taken or single I don't know why almost everyguy watches it no explanations don't be worried there's nothing wrong with you he's probably one of the guys who relaxes while he waxes lol not one of the guys who wack it because they need more than they have Its the relaxingness of it is why and if there was mad porn I amprobably right so Its nothing to do with you
Every guy watches porn. Every guy will masturbate behind their girlfriends back (whether they know about it or don't, like it or not). It's nothing new.
It doesn't mean we love you less, or we are liking the look of other girls...
and even if we did what the hell would we do.. to a magazine or a computer screen? Try and cut a hole it in and stick our penis in it? That's when you ought to be worried.
You just need to get over this simple fact of life otherwise it's going to haunt you forever.
How it wasnt just porn it was live chat....live woman in front of a web cam..thats normal too?
Well you should of said that in the first place then.
i don't have a problem with my guy watching a porno.. sometimes I will watch one with him... but never live... he kinda crossed the line there
i think ur overreacting 99% of guys watch porn its what they do...
porn + imagination = happy person. love it!
yo, my girlfriend and I f*** all the time but I still like to spend some time alone with my hand.. there's something about it that makes it awesome lol.
porn kicks ass
Well yeah you're right, he should use YOU as porn. Good for you! Unless it was some sort of weird porn which you won't do lol.