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My girlfriend had a threesome with 2 of my friends 2 months before we started dating?
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I just found out yesterday that my girlfriend, who I've been dating for about three months now had a threesome with two of my friends not long before we started dating. She didn't tell me this her self, I had to find out from my roommate after another one of my friends told him. All of my circle of friends knew this before I did. The worst part is both of the guys that slept with here are kind of morons. I like this girl, but I don't know if I can handle this. Every time I look at her I think of her getting figertrapped by thos to goons. I can't ask and e one there opinion ( irl I mean ) and I seriously don't know what to do. ANY opinions would be a lot of help right now. thanks
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FYI I already discussed this with her. And I'm basically debating to dump her or not. I'm about 50/50 at this point.
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What Girls & Guys Said
37 43What she did BEFORE she found you is EXACTLY what YOU have SAVED her from.
Forgive her, let her WISH she had waited, and roll on.
Captain saveaho
i agree captain save a ho
What did you end up doing?
wow your kind of a f** for making such a big deal out of it. So she likes to fu.ck like every other animal on this planet and happened to hook up with two of your friends (who don't sound like are your actual friends from the way you talk about them)... So f***ing what? You weren't even dating at that point so it shouldn't f***ing matter. If your this prissy then she should be the one dumping your ass.
LOL! You are so right!
Asailum..the point is, is that she banged two of his friends at the same time. If he didn't know the guys then the situation would be a bit different. But these are two guys that he knows, and every time he will see them will be a reminder of the threesome. Plus, if their idiots they will joke about, rub it in his face, tell him how good she was, want to compare notes, talk about him behind his back. He has a few things to consider.
Ur retarded allupinyah, so what if she had sex with two of his friends? You act like its a crime for girls to like sex just as much as guys do. Just because his feelings are hurt does not mean they aren't uncalled for. If your "feeligns" were hurt because some random guy looked at your girlfriend, does that justify beating the sh*t out of him? Your encouraging IMMATURE behavior, so fu.ck off already
You must be mentally deficient because you are totally missing the point dumbass. It is not about girls liking sex as much as guys do. It's about the fact that she omitted some relevant information so he would go out with her. Stop being such a damn hypocrite you prole. Your comments point out that you are the one who is immature. Obviously you either have no idea about how relationships are suppose to work or you just have f*cked up relationships with harlots. Either way shut the f*ck up.
The above comment is aimed at the idiotic Asailum.
LOL! I didn't see anything anywhere about him beating up some random guy for looking at his girl. What I read was a guy who is unsure of whether or not to continue a relationship with a girl who LIED to him about having two plebeian friend's d***s in her at once. Your cave troll comments are completely irrelevant and you're just projecting how you feel about yourself onto him. So what does that make you... Pussy? Immature? Retarded? You're going to react like an angry child now aren't you?
no, its very simple actually despite how you guys are trying to twist it. SHe had sex with two people BEFORE the relationship started, and there is no reason to expect anyone to tell you who they have had sex with before they are with you. If you actually expect people to sit there and list all their previous partners and its "lying" if they don't? Your f***ing stupid is all that can be said. The reality is tis guy is a fu.cking pansy and your all pampering and encouraging him to stay that way.
If she would have made it sure that her present husband should not have gone through all this humiliation, for her choices, then it would have been ok. But instead she made him look like a fool in front of his friends where everyone knew about it except the main person (he). Which he should know more of her then her exes. But no so
Asailum: So according to you what shoukd he have done after getting humiliated by his friends and laughed at? Thsnk them for banging his girlfriend and throw them paeties? Is that according to you is a mature act
Did they rattle both holes simultaniousley? If so... KEEP HER!
Grow up and get over it if you actually care for her. Sex is just sex. Quit attaching some bullsh*t seriousness to it. You've got a girl who obviously is a little freaky and easy-going in bed and that presents a lot of opportunities.
Im not saying that a girl having had a threesome makes her a bad person, but you know both guys and that sorta is a lot different from if it had been people you never knew and never would know, so I feel sorry for her but I don't see this just going away from the front of your mind and as long as it keeps coming back there would be problems so I would personally break up with her if it was me
DUMP her, I know you can't judge someone on the past but damn! She got plowed by two of your idiot friends at the same time. I couldn't handle it, and everyone knew. She never said sh*t, if you stick with her, power to you, your a bigger man than me.
No offence, but she sounds like a ho. I can't believe she didn't tell you. Depends if you're worthy of a better girl than this or not, obviously a guy with self respect would leave, but I know plenty with none who would stay.
A threesome? I'm sorry but would you want to really be with someone like that. It doesn't seem to me that she has great respect for herself.
i would dump her but first ask to have a 3some with her and her best friend. just get the 3some back and dump her. make sure to jackoff on both of them too!
LMAO!
yeah yeah it was before you started dating but if she would do that then what would she do now? it just seems like a bad sign to me
dump her
just leave it in the pass she wasn't dating u
I wana see you saying that when you get herpes or HIV.
she should tell you that...
but.. you can talk with her.. ask why she didn't told you... and try to think by yourself if is good to stay with her or will she hide something from you...
You actually think it is a new bf's business to know everyone you might have let sample your p*ssy before he came along? That is nonsense
well in this case... imagine is you boyfriend with yours best!? how does it feel? and the could not resist the temptation.. duh...
Its he who has to go through this humiliation in front of his friends, for no fault of his. She has nothing to lose, and already enjoyed with them... n now acting like thats nothing
If its not important, then why fear to hide it
ask her if you can have a threesome with her and one of her friends lol and if she says no then say you had one with two guys I want one with two girls lol
i believe you shouldn't have any shame talking about your past sexual antics, however if you feel like that then take my advice m8 leave her cos it will only get worse and eat away at you. also if all ya m8s knew why didn't they tell you? don't sound like great friend tbh
Dump her
YIKES! That's a toughie. I don't think I would be able to look any of the 3 people in the face again.
She should have told you... How many other skeletons are hiding in the closet. This was just two months ago..she is basically known as a bit of a "girl with a reputation" to you're friends. If I was you I would get out before you find out something else which breaks you're heart.
Ridiculous and it was 2 months before they go together, not 2 months ago. It was before they got together, clearly none of his business.
@rachel myers It is his business if he is getting into a relationship with her. The fact is she was hiding a part of herself so she could fool him into dating her. If he knew about it he would not of gone out with her. He just doesn't want to be with someone is "dirty".
@rachel_myers so for that... he has to face her exes and feel the humiliation.. while they enjoys bullying
f*** her off! easy as that :)