Too bad you didn't cut wayyy back some time ago when you realized he wasn't going to reciprocate. I can see him not wanting to kiss after you give him oral because I think most guys, myself included, don't like the idea of oral on themselves. That's just human nature. You shouldn't feel bad about that part. Maybe you'd not mind kissing after he gave you oral, but then maybe you would. That's the smaller of the problem. Just have a good talk with him and find out what the real problem is. There's always a reason why people don't do something. Once you know how he really feels about it, you'll be in a better position to work it out somehow. It might be just some stupid little misunderstanding he has about what a woman is really like down there and how much women like being pleasured. Too many guys have a perceived notion in their heads that it's gross down there when it really isn't. Those guys need to get over that especially if they expect their girls to be pleasuring them that way. It has a lot to do with how much a guy likes a girl. There are many that think it's much easier to for a girl to give them head than it is for them to go down on them. Tell him that going down on him isn't all peaches and cream either and that it was something you had to learn to like also. If he's still reluctant to do it then there's something wrong with your relationship because to him it seems to be centered on you giving him head rather than liking you for you and being your best friend and wanting to put your interest ahead of his. You might as well find this out now because if you don't, you definitely will later.. or sooner because sexual relationships don't last all that long.
If he doesn't want to kiss you afterwards then tell him to suck it up and deal wth it. It's not like you're going to be pushing his own semen into his mouth or anything... it's just stupid.
Also, if you want oral, and he won't give it but he expects you to give it to him? Then tell him that if he's not going to give it to you, then you're not going to give it to him. That sounds a little mean, and it's not a good sign if a relationship is devolving into bartering for sexual favors. So if he refuses...then, well he's a jerk or he has some issues. Either way, it's not going to end well if he has to be forced to do it. If it's important to you and he just won't deliver, then to hell with him.
I have same thing with my bf, where he doesn't like to kiss me after I give him oral.. or touch his face.. easy fix.. wash hands and brush teeth after oral.. he only goes down on me after my period, because he doesn't like to kiss anywhere his penis has been.. and after he goes down on me he brushes his teeth then comes and kisses me.. he's just diff.. not big deal.. but at same time.. he wants me to give him a bj everyday.. so I get what you are saying.. but as long as both are understanding.. all is well.. good luck..
Well your guy has a serious problem if he like to get it but doesn't want to give. You should just stop giving it to him and find another way to pleasure him. If he asks why tell him you believe its not fair that you have to give him oral while he doesn't. If he has a problem with that then you may want to think things out.
Lol that's him being immature! If he thinks giving head is gross then you should say "me too" and stop giving it, until you receive your share of pleasure, and when he does decide he's going to do it make sure he do you first. He's probably just afraid he won't please you...
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Exactly!
Just tell him to give it shot.
At least benefit of the doubt.
Personally I like giving girls oral.
As for kissing after you give him oral.
I totally understand that.
My girl loves cum.
Sooooo.
She hits the bathroom before we kiss again.
Though I always love the mouth wash taste when she gets back. :)
This is an esy fix. If he wants it then you get some first.
ask him what his deal is. and then tell him that it's up to him, either he gets a bj, or he doesn't
i love eat pu*** I but it has to be clean and it makes the sex experience so much better and if he doesn't want to eat you out don't give him head just leave him holding his cock
Well, I can kinda understand him not wanting to kiss you after you give him a blowjob, cause I mean that's not totally uncommon..but if you're the only one doing all the going down, that's weak! Maybe he's nervous that he's not good at it and doesn't want to try?
OMG...Dump him!
Okay, then what you do is stop doing him favors if he won't do you any. Giving him oral is a FAVOR. He should be grateful. Don't get angry. Talk to him about it and make it clear that you'd appreciate it. Try to understand maybe he's just scared and doesn't know how.
any guy who get's oral from there girlfriend should be willing to do the same for her. or at least giveing her a "hand job" I'm not sure what it's called when a guy fingers a girl. :S
Maybe he think that the vagina has teeth or something... rofl
But yeah, you know you feel used and you know what you need to do. You need to stop doing oral sex to him if he won't do it to you. It's an easy fix.
And I love to kiss my girl after she goes down on me or I go down on her, its so hawt ;)
Haha you have funny pictures :]
Lol Thanks, if you have any ideas for pictures let me know ;)
fair is fair... even exchange or no exchange
If a girl gave me a blowjob, I'd give her some cunnilingus too. I'd have no problem with it.
sounds like a d-bag, and if that's the case don't blow him until he blows you
he is missing out big time< don't do it for him.
Haaah I stick with the lads, He scratches your back, you scratch his ;)
Sounds like my answer was right for once everyones is similar to mine
sounds like he doesn't like pussy. I myself love giving oral to girls, if he doesn't want to give you oral then that shows a lot about his personality and who he puts top priority in a relationship.
AHAHAHAHHAHHAHA OMG THIS IS CLASSIC. Sorry, this is great, this is the EXACT same thing that my ex did to me ahahaha. I mean to the T the exact same thing.
Its not cut out for some. I would first and foremost TALK TO HIM. Tell him your issues, if the problem isn't resolved, I would either get over it, stop giving, or move on to someone else.
A relationship is a two way street hun, you can't do it by yourself. He could just be using you to get pleasured keep that in mind. but like the guys said, make him give some to get some.
Ok girl well for one I go by a rule of oral sex. He don't go down south, you don't go down south. And the whole kissing thing I don't know what to say about that but he is weird as shit. My man loves kissing me after I suck his dick. I don't know
Thats so sweet =] that's the way it should be
thats not right, there should be a give and take in the relationship
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