Ugh I 100% feel you girl, I HATE being on top. I'm not the smallest lady so for me a big part of it is awkwardness/self-consciousness. Other than that being on top just doesn't feel that great anyway, especcially for subs :(
Tip though, I've figured out that if I lean forward and support my weight on my guy's chest or the bed, that I can go significantly faster (though not for very long). It's not exactly the most attractive thing in the world but the speed suffices and you can distract him with your breasts closer to his face like that.
All I can say is you just kinda have to take one for the team now and then and put up with being on top. But your guy also needs to understand that you're not a porn star so obv you're not gonna be able to flash bounce. This is real life! He's gotta help you a little bit somehow.0 0 0 0lol you are funny. I have the same problem, we've kinda just given up on cowgirl in general but when I am on top he's doing the thrusting upward thing as well. I could NEVER match the speed at which he goes during this, esp. when he's about to shoot. it's crazy! I mean I'm fit and everything but damn doing all that while kneeling is really tough.
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One of the problems of missionary is our holding our weight up so we don't crush you.
Modifying that to legs up so we place out weight on the backs of your thighs helps this. We can relax more and drive deeper. I am a fan of conventional Cowgirl. She just moves her hips randomly back and forth, side to side, and I'm off! And I can hold her by her hips and move her around to my pleasure and reduced effort to her.0 0 0 0You could either keep practicing, or tell him you don't like being on top. I like when a girls on top sometimes because its different, but I think it feels the best when I am on top and can control the speed, pressure, body contact etc. Its not a horrible thing that you don't like being on top. If he really likes it, just do it once in a while.
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0 1just tell him, he'll understand
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